Var worked for my lady. Also andro gel, I have a ton of it and hate it. I rub 1 pump on her and it gives her the lift she wants. Just remember your girl has to want to do it. I see alot of guys trying to sneak it in, its poisoning if she doesnt want it. My girl does Tri athalons and was wondering how to up her endurance, I mentioned VAr , at first she said NO WAY. A couple months later....10 mg a day and up went endurance and sex drive. Then low and behold she asked what else could I take?