Nandro,
Thank you for your kind words!
I don't want to step on Mary's toes. All I know is that I learned how to pose from Mike Davies. He has helped many of the top pros (Jenny Hendershot, Mari Kudla, Adela Garcia, Valerie Waugaman etc.) and all of his amatuer clients ALWAYS look polished on stage.
The side quarter stance is supposed to be done with both hands by your side (for amatuers). At the local level I have seen judges let that slide, but at the National level the head judge will ask all of the girls to put their arms to their sides. If they don't listen they will call the girl out who is posing wrong.
Posing is VERY important. I don't care if you are the best conditioned girl on stage with the best package. If you don't know how to carry yourself or you don't know how to pose it can really hurt you. . .
Don't let your girl get frustrated. Just make sure she is practicing alot. I practice 2-3 X a week leading up to my shows. It helps alot, trust me
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Have a great day and write if you have any other questions. . .
Here is my front shot: You want your hands close to the sides of your legs. If you have your arms out really wide it takes away from the shape of your shoulders. Some women feel they need to have their arms out really wide to make themselves appear bigger, but that isn't the case.