self worth

[buffbabeca]

Knowing ones self worth is something that is such a huge part of being YOU! I know we ALL have been some time of hurt or pain in our lives! Whether u beem beat down trampled on or had your heart broken we have all been there, it sucks it hurts and can run deep enough you would swear ur heart was run through a blender on puree but how we deal with it is what matters! Oue self worth is something that you should NEVER let anyone take away from you no matter what! You are in control and letting someone else have that powered shouldn't! Do not blame yourself for others actions nor take the guilt for what they did! We are all human and we make mistakes, life isn't perfect and probably never will be! All we can is try our best to live as best we know and if we fall or we make a mistake learn from it but don't let it cripple you! Love yourself enough to forgive the past and other actions NOT for themm but FOR YOU because you deserve to live a good life! Never let your past or others dictate your future!!!!!

 

[OuchThatHurts]

Knowing ones self worth is something that is such a huge part of being YOU! I know we ALL have been some time of hurt or pain in our lives! Whether u beem beat down trampled on or had your heart broken we have all been there, it sucks it hurts and can run deep enough you would swear ur heart was run through a blender on puree but how we deal with it is what matters! Oue self worth is something that you should NEVER let anyone take away from you no matter what! You are in control and letting someone else have that powered shouldn't! Do not blame yourself for others actions nor take the guilt for what they did! We are all human and we make mistakes, life isn't perfect and probably never will be! All we can is try our best to live as best we know and if we fall or we make a mistake learn from it but don't let it cripple you! Love yourself enough to forgive the past and other actions NOT for themm but FOR YOU because you deserve to live a good life! Never let your past or others dictate your future!!!!!

True... very true.

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[buffbabeca]

just wanted to share in hopes this post might touch at least ONE person on this board

 

[marooned]

Amen. This is the only life you get. Every day you breath in and out is a day you create yourself and your life.
At the end of your life it's not the things you have done you will think to regret it is the things you have not done.

 

[thebrick]

Good post buff! Value your self-esteem and it will put you on the higher road no matter what life throws at you.... and nobody is exempt from the good, and bad coming our way.

 

[OuchThatHurts]

Rather not say just wanted to share in hopes this post might touch at least ONE person on this board

It will. I edited my former post for you. I firmly believe that boys don't always need to cry and it's sometimes good to keep yourself to yourself (girls too).

This type of male stoicism on my behalf has probably saved me from becoming a complete sap. I still reserve the right to be a partial sap! LOL!

 

[buffbabeca]

Thanks everyone for reading this and for those who Pm'd me... I have some personal issues going on and I will be ok.. I would just rather not put them on the board. I posted this in hopes of helping at least ONE person on this board to realize their worth. Nothing breaks my heart more then to see someone put themselves down or miss on happiness in their life because of past experiences or doubting themselves. There is no need to be a prisoner in your own life. One of the hardest lessons in life is to learn to forgive someone as I said. I have made my own mistakes in this life and I have had to pay for them and some of them I still am and might always. I pray that some day I will find that even balance within myself , I know Im a good person for the most part , just need to work on the rough edges I guess.......

 

[nosmas]

Hey Buff. Hungry and I are a little worried about you to right now. You have MANY friends here for you at any time. Hope all things work out well. If you would like a womans touch on sensitive issues......Im your man. Well ok maby not, but Hungry is worried about you. drop her a PM sometime if you ever want to talk........or to just say whats up!

 

[buffbabeca]

Hey Buff. Hungry and I are a little worried about you to right now. You have MANY friends here for you at any time. Hope all things work out well. If you would like a womans touch on sensitive issues......Im your man. Well ok maby not, but Hungry is worried about you. drop her a PM sometime if you ever want to talk........or to just say whats up!

Thank you.. please do NOT worry about me.. I am ok..... just going through some personal things..... It's nice to know I have friends here who care.... im worried about someone special more then myself....... Again thanks for all the concern..... just need to let the dust settle with some things.