Soul Searching...

[lucian]

after doing some real soul searching and spending some time apart lilkoreangirl and i have decided to try and work through our diffrences and stay together. its gonna be a long hard road an we need to change some things financialy and personaly but i know we can make it as long as we do it together. i for one could not stand to be away from her. she has been my rock and my whole life and i didnt show her. i take a lot of the resposability fo why she left. and as for bodybuilding....i am not competing this year. she is going to do the maryland and its her first show. she has been there for me every year throught the diets and shows and this year is her year. i will stand by her and support her and not worry about me. im still gonna try and get in my best shape but not gonna kill myself with the stress of a show. so i thank you all for your support, and god willing things will work out and she wont kill my over a cookie when she is dieting.
thank you all
god bless
lucian

 

[ironserenity]

You are a true gentleman, Lucian. To be able to step back and look at yourself and your relationship. I envy you brother. I wish you two the best this year!

 

[Thor]

GOOD LUCK YOU TWO !

after doing some real soul searching and spending some time apart lilkoreangirl and i have decided to try and work through our diffrences and stay together. its gonna be a long hard road an we need to change some things financialy and personaly but i know we can make it as long as we do it together. i for one could not stand to be away from her. she has been my rock and my whole life and i didnt show her. i take a lot of the resposability fo why she left. and as for bodybuilding....i am not competing this year. she is going to do the maryland and its her first show. she has been there for me every year throught the diets and shows and this year is her year. i will stand by her and support her and not worry about me. im still gonna try and get in my best shape but not gonna kill myself with the stress of a show. so i thank you all for your support, and god willing things will work out and she wont kill my over a cookie when she is dieting.
thank you all
god bless
lucian

Sounds like you really want this to work out, and with that attitude it should be fine, that is a mature, and unselfish way to handle it. As long as the good times are worth more than the work involved then it's all good.

 

[thebrick]

I wish you two the best, bro. Sometimes you don't know what you've got 'til its gone?

 

[Phidias]

Not only is she absolutely BEAUTIFUL, but lkg is above all a really smart lady (lots of meaningful posts in the counselling forum ).

With her on your side you can't go wrong in life, Lucian

I'm really happy for the both of you.

Good luck for her show btw!

 

[violentmessiah]

Good decision, I think. I'm very glad to see that things have taken a positive turn for you, Lucian.

 

[deltaguy]

Happy to hear, Brother. Nothing better than having an intelligent, beautiful and dedicated Korean woman in your life. Trust me, I speak from current experience. Sounds like you have made some good decisions together. I wish you both all the best.

 

[Jarconis]

more like seoul searching amirite?!?

 

[mike1107]

Bro, the way u act is classy

It's hard to recognize our own mistakes and u do it easily ... u make a good choice to support her for her first show ...

I'm happy the both of u are back together !

 

[lucian]

thank you all for the support. we are going to do our best. as with most relationships financial problems are our main issue. but im working on that as i write.
thank you all....your are all family to us. anytime you need us we are here. you have been there for us and we will stand strong for you
god bless
lucian

 

[pumpputnam]

Lucian, focus on your faith and everything else will become more clear. Remember... in all things consider the other person more than you. I was told this my wedding day and I do my best to remember!

 

[oldfella]

You guys will be OK. Just keep the communication going always and be true to each other. Good post lucian. All the best to you two!!

 

[lucian]

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Lucian, focus on your faith and everything else will become more clear. Remember... in all things consider the other person more than you. I was told this my wedding day and I do my best to remember!

peter
you hae been a big help through all this. thank you. im doing my best and will continue to do my best. i have been focusing on my faith and trying to not be selfish. like i told you i feel this is a test. and finaly for once in my life i will not fail this test.
thank you
god bless
lucian

 

[ironserenity]

"and finaly for once in my life i will not fail this test."

Brother, thats no way for a winner to talk! You will be great BECAUSE you are a GREAT man and because you are NOT a failure!

 

[lucian]

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Brother, thats no way for a winner to talk! You will be great BECAUSE you are a GREAT man and because you are NOT a failure!

what i meant was i usually fail the woman test. i dont give myself enough. things are not perfect and we are not a couple again yet. we are still apart taking it day by day. but when it comes to the selfless test....i wont fail it.
but thanks for the kind words. i appreciate them. it was rel cool of you to jump in like that.
god bless
lucian

 

[Ken64]

I know you'll be okay. Just keep your head straight, and keep working at it.

 

[DOGMA]

Good Luck Lucian, I like Peter's advise. If I can add my two cents...money without love is meaningless. You can get tired of $$$ but never tired of love. Money brings with it it's own toll on your life. Freedom and added pressure and increased resposibility's. Never let it become the most important thing in your life.

I was happier when I was younger and making 30k than I am now.

 

[luckyone]

Peter said it best

Glad to hear you guys are giving it a chance.It CAN work!!

your brother in Christ,

Lucky