haha this is a lesser problem to have and focus on. My son is also biracial he is half polish and half aztec. He definitely got the best of both worlds, my looks, but olive complexion and tans easy (his mom looks straight aztec) but he got her nice lips eyelashes etc . wow she was subpoenaed and judge did nothing, don't beat yourself up for spending the money bro, I did that for years, and have a nasty taste about the justice system in my mouth still, from that and my recent incarceration all summer this past summer based on a POLICE REPORT that was dropped by da and person who filed never came to testify . Keep a line of communication open with your son and send him all the good, gentleman, productive , healthy things you are up to to plant seeds. I am rooting for u dude, we all are trust me!! hang tough my iron brother there is a light at the end of that tunnel somewhere.
PS , in cali, once he's 13, he can go in front of a judge and decide who he wants to live with - just good luck getting her to get him to show up to court, that's the battle in itself, and it sucks having to put your kid through shit, but if he's a daddys boy and does not want to live with mom and they have issues, by all means!
here if you get subpeonad for court and you do not appear you get a warrant....