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I've been where you are, I had just turned 30 and thought my life was over after I found out the bitch was cheating on me the whole time. Out of sight out of mind works I don't care what anyone says. Definitely make a life change, move to a nice downtown style area where you can walk outside your bachelor pad to restaurants and bars. Start taking weekend trips to party destinations and enjoy yourself, even if it's by yourself you will eventually make friends, get some fresh pussy and have fun. Also HIT THE GYM HARD, looking good will make you feel good about yourself. Try to put yourself out there and make a new circle of friends, fucken force it and be fake if you have to at first but just do it.
I know everyone will say oh those things are superficial and won't solve the problems but that's bullshit because the problems are in your head, they are not physical things the physical part is done, and the only way to change your head is to change your life. I was fucked up for a long time and thought life was over about some similar shit as you, you need to make a change in your life and put yourself out there. Right now your life is based on the old things that fucked you up, time to base it on new things. I got better after that shit happened to me, I'm 34 now and I look better, feel better, have more fun, have better friends, have more money and get more pussy than I could ever imagined I could have. I'm one of the baddest mother fuckers of all time and you will be too, you just have to fucken do it.
Also don't jump into a relationship just to make yourself feel better, date and fuck around of course but don't jump for another girl. Trust me you will only end up worse in the end if you do that and it will all be fake because you're just trying to replace what you lost and you can't replace it, you can only move on and get over it.
Don't wait, get your shit in order and move on with your life. Change everything if you have to just get over this shit as fast as you can because you have more life to live than you could fathom you just can't see it yet, it's waiting for you.
I know everyone will say oh those things are superficial and won't solve the problems but that's bullshit because the problems are in your head, they are not physical things the physical part is done, and the only way to change your head is to change your life. I was fucked up for a long time and thought life was over about some similar shit as you, you need to make a change in your life and put yourself out there. Right now your life is based on the old things that fucked you up, time to base it on new things. I got better after that shit happened to me, I'm 34 now and I look better, feel better, have more fun, have better friends, have more money and get more pussy than I could ever imagined I could have. I'm one of the baddest mother fuckers of all time and you will be too, you just have to fucken do it.
Also don't jump into a relationship just to make yourself feel better, date and fuck around of course but don't jump for another girl. Trust me you will only end up worse in the end if you do that and it will all be fake because you're just trying to replace what you lost and you can't replace it, you can only move on and get over it.
Don't wait, get your shit in order and move on with your life. Change everything if you have to just get over this shit as fast as you can because you have more life to live than you could fathom you just can't see it yet, it's waiting for you.