I been shaving my head since I was 13 years old lol. And not one person in my family is bold. I don’t even have any baldness or any that runs in the family. I personally like the look of a shaved headYo dudes,
Thinking about shaving my head (skin) this week. My hairline has been receding for years. I come from a long line of bald men so it’s something I have been mentally preparing for essentially my entire life. I refuse to get implants or whatever because it’s just so obvious. I rather own it. For the last few years I have been keeping it super short. Basically a slow fade with a 3 on top then a 2 and been doing a 1 for the last year. But now I’m seeing thinning with the actual “bald patch” area on the back top of my head. Figured I might as just commit and get rid of it all. Will prob have my barber to do the first one but then plan on buying an electric head trimmer like the Pitbull Skull Shaver. Looking for any tips. I naturally break out pretty bad around my neck line so any oils or moisturizer recommendations would be helpful. Also some emotional support would be nice as well lol.
I’ve never had a single problem dating anyone my entire life and I literally have been shaving my head since I was 13. You guys actually think this way? That’s feminine af lmaoIt literally doesn’t matter. Hopefully you’re in a lifetime committed relationship because some women aren’t into balding (and they’ll judge you on appearance I guess dating) but even if you’re not it doesn’t matter. We’ve been brainwashed to think hair is important. It’s not.
Have you ever met a single happy person that frets and worries about their appearance? As long as you keep yourself healthy and clean, you’re fine.
You got this, you’re already light years ahead of most balding guys.
yeah I agree 100%. Confidence with no hair trumps insecurity with hair. It seems like you hear about women not being into balding guys all the time in mainstream media so I assume there are plenty of girls/women brainwashed out there by that.Yea I’m not real sure I’m going with girls liking men with hair more.
hair is definitely NOT the deciding factor if a girl wants to fuck you.
you worrying if hair being gone is going to affect your life....that’s your insecurities showing....handle that shit....chicks can smell it a mile away
The law of conservation of mass applies to androgenic alopecia
Whatever hair I've lost on my head has immigrated to various other regions on my body
Enough hair on my forearms that my stupid fitbit doesn't even read my HR properly half the time
Lol I'm 5'7 and I've been bald since I was 17. Didn't seem to hurt my luck any, although obviously uncertain of how good it would have been had I owned hair this entire time
Either shave it or get implants. Women don't give a fuck, in my experience; they're a lot less visual than men are. We THINK women care a lot about some things and I honestly think they just don't. Have a sense of humor about it instead of an insecurity. FOR THE LOVE OF FUCK DON'T TRY TO COVER IT UP
You drive a McLaren, so you can fuck off, right off the bat, brother
Airman...wow...you are very modest.I don't think that for women being bald is a deal breaker. I think what women don't like is balding and doing a comb over, or the bird nest hair. That I assume is unattractive. As a straight guy, even myself when I see guys trying to hold on to whatever little hair they have, think to myself, don't you realize that you are just making yourself look worse. Just shave it.
Is having hair more attractive? Probably. But being bald is not the end of the world. I've been shaving my head since about 30, and never had a problem with women. I've had random women approach me at a grocery store before and straight up ask me if I'm single. (No not bragging, that I'm some kind of stud, just pointing out that you can be bald, and still be found attractive enough for someone to approach you).
I guess, if you are in your early 20s, it kind of sucks. Went through that stage, where my forehead was getting higher and higher lol. But once you reach 30s or so, I don't think it's that big of a deal. You don't look like a kid anymore, and it's more 'normal'.
In fact now in my 40s, there has been girls as young as 20, that have asked for my number at the gym. I've had a random 23 year old, who would just walk through the gym to drop things of to her boyfriend/ex-boyfriend, that I never spoke to in my life, find me on IG and start messaging me. I'm married and tell them right away, that I'm not looking for anything, so it's not like I followed through, but it's a nice ego boost lol. In fact, I'm so naïve that when they would talk to me at the gym, I just thought it was a gym acquaintance, just a female gym bro, nothing more. Never suspected that they would be actually interested in me. I'm just rambling now, but I guess my point is, don't assume that you are ugly just because of a shaved or bald head, and you won't give out an insecure vibe. Feel good about yourself, and you'd be very surprised what you can attract with that kind of energy.
Just trying to bring some optimism to the thread. WTF you want me to say? You want me to lie, and say I've never been hit on by a women, or never picked one up since I went bald. Would that be a better contribution to the thread?Airman...wow...you are very modest.
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Yo dudes,
Thinking about shaving my head (skin) this week. My hairline has been receding for years. I come from a long line of bald men so it’s something I have been mentally preparing for essentially my entire life. I refuse to get implants or whatever because it’s just so obvious. I rather own it. For the last few years I have been keeping it super short. Basically a slow fade with a 3 on top then a 2 and been doing a 1 for the last year. But now I’m seeing thinning with the actual “bald patch” area on the back top of my head. Figured I might as just commit and get rid of it all. Will prob have my barber to do the first one but then plan on buying an electric head trimmer like the Pitbull Skull Shaver. Looking for any tips. I naturally break out pretty bad around my neck line so any oils or moisturizer recommendations would be helpful. Also some emotional support would be nice as well lol.