if a girl brings browines to your door?

[Got Juice]

this gal that lives upstairs from me is really cute, shes a school teacher just the good girl look. anyhow she had a dead battery this winter, like a few weeks ago i guess. anyhow i jumped her car for her, after i had to thaw the ice that formed on her hood so i could open it. then she couldnt clear her windows so i scraped them for her. anyways it was nothing i wouldnt do for any good looking girl.lol well about 3 weeks passed and last night she came knocking on my door with a whole batch of brownies. she said thanks for helping me with my car, heres some brownies.

BTW, I ATE HALF THE FUCKIN PAN AND IM DIETING!!! AHHH, ITS OK I DID CARDIO LAST NIGHT B4 BED..LOL


anyways is it just being nice, or could it mean more, how would you take it?

btw, to anyone that read my post from a couple days ago, my GF did break up with me yesterday, but im not for sure if she was just bluffing or serious. she was balling her eyes out, and my emotionless ass couldnt do anything but talk. then she startedcryuing more cause i wasnt crying..ahh..

Todd

 

[Cjay]

Well, it depends. Most girls wouldn't be so thoughtful, so it could be that she is just nice or there may be something there. I would see how the next encounter goes and for your ex, dump her just for thinking that your relationship is so weak. That is bullshit to say that shit and not mean it. Even if you don't want to leave her, at less keep the ball in your court and make her stress about it...lol Cjay

 

[massmonster32]

I would take it as a freindly gesture. She has got to know or think you have a girlfriend since you guys just recently have sorda split. But if notice her go out of her way to pass you on the way out at the same time like clock work then its all yours. MM

 

[Swolecows]

Did you eat her brownie? Or does she prefer you to eat her pinky?

 

[mike man]

You'll know for sure soon..

If she's interested in being a little more than nice to you, she'll be persistant in trying to "run" into you. Or else she'll talk to you on every occasion she gets.
If a girl is just being nice and wants to return a nice gesture, she could cook you brownies and then she would make it a point to be clear she's not interested in anything else.

 

[Got Juice]

hey swole ill eat the brownies and whatever else is available.

also she always seems to be taking her dog for a shit right when i get home from work.. maybe its just a coincidenc. ill keep my eye out for any further signs.. btw, these damn browines are GOOD.. LOL

Later,

Todd

 

[G.E.R.M]

btw, to anyone that read my post from a couple days ago, my GF did break up with me yesterday, but im not for sure if she was just bluffing or serious. she was balling her eyes out, and my emotionless ass couldnt do anything but talk. then she startedcryuing more cause i wasnt crying..ahh..

Todd

dude, you must live in my head or something cause that shit happened to me yesterday... upset cause i aint crying too....wha ?

 

[trunksy]

Let the gf go. You don't need a girlfriend that causes drama and fights with you so she can feel good that you went chasing after her. Well, unless the sex is really really good.

As far as the chick upstairs, be careful. You two are neighbors so no matter what, you're going to see alot of each other. That's probably one of the reasons why she was nice. In an emergency, neighbors help each other out whether it be a real emergency like a fire in the building or just a petty one like a battery gone dead.

I'd just keep it on the friendship level until you move out. But definitely let her know she's a beautiful woman. We could all use a nice compliment from someone hot. Who knows, she may even end up being a confidant since you are neighbors.

And the brownies are always a big plus to stay friendly even if you are dieting. LOL.

 

[Mr Pickels]

As far as the chick upstairs, be careful. You two are neighbors so no matter what, you're going to see alot of each other. I'd just keep it on the friendship level until you move out. But definitely let her know she's a beautiful woman. We could all use a nice compliment from someone hot. Who knows, she may even end up being a confidant since you are neighbors.

And the brownies are always a big plus to stay friendly even if you are dieting. LOL.

this guy is pretty smart... one day, it will be offseason or cheat day and she'll have just brought you something tasty... chow down

number two.... yeah, does suck when you gotta see her all the time and the booty call gone bad thing would really suck in that situation....

thridly... def. let her know she's beautifl... that cant hurt... gonna make her feel really good too.. ie. more brownies

 

[walter2]

what the hell, tell her you and that girl have split and ask her out or better cook for her at your place don't be such a puss!! if you don't act you may loose any chance bcus if she's cute and sweet someone else will be in that! btw buy not being a puss I landed my dream girl and married her. also being confident will get you a lot more ass do not be a cocky piss head, that will leave you with the fat chic or lonely

 

[bigbaldbulldog]

Well if her tire has the air let out (tee hee) and she comes to your door to help her ...well your her go too guy.. if she brings you more food invite her in to share in the feast and see what happens..like it was said earlier..be careful..she will always be a neighbor..for richer or poorer...Let her keep making the advances,i know your kinda happy that the Gf left but i am sure your not thrilled that she is gone either...thsi girl may just be a good safe place to go for now...goodluck and if she brings brownies over next time..i am not dieting.and i love chocolate ..

 

[Grape Ape]

Sure FIRE Way To Know For Sure

Dude,
In my "old" age...lol...I would say that it's very unusual for a young lady to go to the trouble of making you something home made like that just for your help, especially when a simple "thank-you" card slipped under your door would have more than sufficed. I would venture a guess that theres more to it than brownies bro You do know that the only next logical step, is for YOU to make some sort of home made speciality (no, nothing in the micowave...lol), and either take it to her as a thank-you for the scrumptuos brownies, or even better, prepare a gourmet meal at your place, nice music, candles, little vino, and invite her over for that as a "non-threatening-no pressure friend type of thing) and see where it goes from there....doesn't hafta be a bootie call, or turn romantic but who knows, you kids may hit it off!! Best of luck with whatever way you go, keep up lonely old divorced bastards informed on your progress will ya?!?...lol

 

[flexmaster]

she's obviously thinking about you! definately make the next move, nothing too serious just let things happen! if she stops to talk to you whenever you see eachother, or better yet walks over to you or waits for you (you both get home at the same time for example) you're golden. my girlfriend did this when we were first kind of feeling things out.

 

[Got Juice]

hey thanks for the replies guys. as far as the X GF goes, yeah it is kinda rough. im so used to talking to her its hard to hold back from calling her, or when i see her on the AOL instant messenger i just wanna hit her up. i think once the first few weeks pass things will get easier, i could really use a girl to help me get through this, but im going to stick to my plan and stay single. im just going to try and date every girl i find attractive and if i eventually find one thats hot and cool, ill maybe think about sticking. im just tired of not being able to do what i want, which is normal in a relationship, i know.

i might ask my neighbor out for dinner or something and just act more like a friend thing, like im just sitting around my house on a saturday night, then just go knock on her door around 6pm and ask. then if shes busy ill go out, and if she isnt busy well go out and see how things go. i havent saw a dude up at her apartment since i have lived her, which is almost a year. she could be dripping wet shes so horny. lol

Later,

Todd

 

[Mr Pickels]

bump for an update

 

[Got Juice]

well picks,

i saw her yesterday but she was on her cell phone, so we both just did the friendly wave thing. ill keep you updated. lol

Later,

Todd

 

[JETHRO TULL]

I AM WITH GRAPE APE ON THIS.....

SHE IS PRETTY COOL TO MAKE BROWNIES. I'D LET HER KNOW HOW GREAT THAT IS....< I AM REALLY IMPRESSED BY BROWNIE MAKERS!> HAHAHAHA.....NO MAN, I'D SAY SHE IS INTERESTED.

 

[Got Juice]

well friday night i had planned on going to this bar where i met this girl last weekend to see if she was ther, because she frequents the apparently. but, my one friend has his kid this weekend and the other one is bouncing friday, maybe ill go give a knock on her door friday night and see if she wants to go out for dinner. but i dont think she knows i broke up w/ my GF so i feel kinda akward asking her. and i dont wanna outright tell her as soon as she answers the door "hey i broke up with my GF, wanna go out?" LOL

Later,

Todd

 

[Mr Pickels]

save it for later.... if she's wondering she'll ask.... then you just tell her.... maybe a white lie saying it happened a little longer ago than it did but that won't hurt anybody

 

[BiggerStronger]

Not letting her know that she's a rebound is always a good thing...lol.

I say go for it....you don't have anything to lose. Keep things simple. Dinner, and a movie or grab a drink with her. A little booze seems to loosen people up at first and lower inhibitions to put up walls or boundries for the first date or future dates. lol.