small sex problem

[bloodshed]

I know a lot of guys will read this and think "seriously, this is a problem?" but it has been getting quite a bit annoying for me. My girlfriend and I have sex every time we see eachother, 1-2 times each occasion, which is about 4-6 days a week. My problem though, Is it takes me forever to cum, and she is the kind of girl where after she does, she doesnt enjoy it anymore. Today for instance, after a 45 minute session, I didnt cum. We stopped and tried again 45 minutes later and i still didnt. sometimes the only way she can get me to is orally, but even then it has to be in a specific way. does anybody know any ways I can control this, to where I can cum on command, or atleast in a more reasonable time frame. And i dont know if this is of any correlation but im on 300mg a week of cyp.

 

[alecaf]

This is normally a plus not a down but i get what you mean after a while it does get boring.
I have no advice other than, when this has happened to me all i do is i pretend to come but i know thats no solution.

 

[brownstain]

I have the same problem.....and it is a problem.

 

[bloodshed]

This is normally a plus not a down but i get what you mean after a while it does get boring.
I have no advice other than, when this has happened to me all i do is i pretend to come but i know thats no solution.

Its a lot harder to do that as a guy than a girl haha. id prefer to be in the 20 minute range, not 45-80 minute range

 

[jrod]

I had the same thing but never thought of it as a problem actually girls loved it the only thing i can suggest reduce frequency of sex or add in new things warming tingling lubes vibrating cock rings ect anything to give you more stimulation

 

[Powerstrokin]

I had the same thing but never thought of it as a problem actually girls loved it the only thing i can suggest reduce frequency of sex or add in new things warming tingling lubes vibrating cock rings ect anything to give you more stimulation

I have had to try some of this and it does help for awhile but you will just have to keep changing it up some.. But I think a lot of us have the same problem.

 

[Warbeard]

I know a lot of guys will read this and think "seriously, this is a problem?" but it has been getting quite a bit annoying for me. My girlfriend and I have sex every time we see eachother, 1-2 times each occasion, which is about 4-6 days a week. My problem though, Is it takes me forever to cum, and she is the kind of girl where after she does, she doesnt enjoy it anymore. Today for instance, after a 45 minute session, I didnt cum. We stopped and tried again 45 minutes later and i still didnt. sometimes the only way she can get me to is orally, but even then it has to be in a specific way. does anybody know any ways I can control this, to where I can cum on command, or atleast in a more reasonable time frame. And i dont know if this is of any correlation but im on 300mg a week of cyp.

Hey man I had a problem like this when on Deca and then it got worse when I switched to tren. Now there are two solutions I know of:
1. Try more stuff that turns you on, like maybe some toys or role play or whatever. Being more turned on = cumming faster.
2. Try some DI like caber or prami. That makes you cum way faster usually and increases sensitivity. (Personally I've only tried caber and it works great, but I don't c why prami wouldn't do the same). If you're using caber, 0.25 every 3rd day should be plenty. Give it some time to kick in though. And no it's not only for when you're on tren\deca.

 

[itismejoshy]

been there.....caber and pt141 after about 2 weeks of a regular dosing fixed my problem....good stuff......

 

[brutale]

I know a lot of guys will read this and think "seriously, this is a problem?" but it has been getting quite a bit annoying for me. My girlfriend and I have sex every time we see eachother, 1-2 times each occasion, which is about 4-6 days a week. My problem though, Is it takes me forever to cum, and she is the kind of girl where after she does, she doesnt enjoy it anymore. Today for instance, after a 45 minute session, I didnt cum. We stopped and tried again 45 minutes later and i still didnt. sometimes the only way she can get me to is orally, but even then it has to be in a specific way. does anybody know any ways I can control this, to where I can cum on command, or atleast in a more reasonable time frame. And i dont know if this is of any correlation but im on 300mg a week of cyp.

Two ideas. First, try some dht derivative like proviron or masteron. Helps with orgasm . . . sometimes too much! Second, check your E2 level. Various AAS can have this effect on people: EQ does it to me. SERMS can cause trouble too.

 

[triathloncoach]

How long have you been with her. Doing the math you have sex with her 8-12 times a week. Even young and juiced that's a lot of the same old/same old. Do you have to get off the second time, every time? Once in a while the second time can just be a bonus for her. Just make sure she doesnt take it personally, because she shouldnt. But provirion might help.

You are bumping your head up against reality. (didn't intend for the pun, ha)

 

[Anarky]

My question is are you taking any kind of anti-depressants?

 

[bloodshed]

My question is are you taking any kind of anti-depressants?

Im taking literally nothing at all except for the test cyp.

How long have you been with her. Doing the math you have sex with her 8-12 times a week. Even young and juiced that's a lot of the same old/same old. Do you have to get off the second time, every time? Once in a while the second time can just be a bonus for her. Just make sure she doesnt take it personally, because she shouldnt. But provirion might help.

You are bumping your head up against reality. (didn't intend for the pun, ha)

Ive been with her for a while. Sometimes new positions help, sometimes they dont. I don't really care if i get off the second time, But id like to be able to the first time. I might try some proviron.

Hey man I had a problem like this when on Deca and then it got worse when I switched to tren. Now there are two solutions I know of:
1. Try more stuff that turns you on, like maybe some toys or role play or whatever. Being more turned on = cumming faster.
2. Try some DI like caber or prami. That makes you cum way faster usually and increases sensitivity. (Personally I've only tried caber and it works great, but I don't c why prami wouldn't do the same). If you're using caber, 0.25 every 3rd day should be plenty. Give it some time to kick in though. And no it's not only for when you're on tren\deca.

You know what, back when i ran tren i took prami with it and i had to get off like 5-6 times a day. I might try some prami again.

 

[CHAPS]

I know a lot of guys will read this and think "seriously, this is a problem?" but it has been getting quite a bit annoying for me. My girlfriend and I have sex every time we see eachother, 1-2 times each occasion, which is about 4-6 days a week. My problem though, Is it takes me forever to cum, and she is the kind of girl where after she does, she doesnt enjoy it anymore. Today for instance, after a 45 minute session, I didnt cum. We stopped and tried again 45 minutes later and i still didnt. sometimes the only way she can get me to is orally, but even then it has to be in a specific way. does anybody know any ways I can control this, to where I can cum on command, or atleast in a more reasonable time frame. And i dont know if this is of any correlation but im on 300mg a week of cyp.

Mucana Pruiens or Cabergoline to raise dopamine levels and sensitivity. Also look into L-histidine 200mg or so, will raise histamine in the body which is very important for both male and female orgasms, raise your histamine levels and you will cum faster. Beta-alanine will have some histamine conversion down the line so you could try 10g's a day split into several servings if you've got some laying around.

 

[bloodshed]

Mucana Pruiens or Cabergoline to raise dopamine levels and sensitivity. Also look into L-histidine 200mg or so, will raise histamine in the body which is very important for both male and female orgasms, raise your histamine levels and you will cum faster. Beta-alanine will have some histamine conversion down the line so you could try 10g's a day split into several servings if you've got some laying around.

Thanks, Ill try that. Would arginine help as well, or no?

 

[housel]

Thanks, Ill try that. Would arginine help as well, or no?

guess not... just helps with blood flow..

 

[Papa Van Smack]

I had the same problem......and it was a HUGE concern.....of course some women loved it....

Seriously.....I found myself w/ a live in gf and I just stopped beating off completely for a while......especially on the juice, you got an erection half of every day anyway.....just.....leave it alone. I'm no doctor but you're probably just desensitized.

Give it a rest....doesn't take long.....couple weeks as long as you really......leave it alone.

Good luck man. Once mine started popping on the inside I was much happier......also brought about more concerns....but it was worth it.

 

[EMC]

leave it alone? that doesnt sound right to me lolol!

 

[jaimes]

my is to soon from 7 to 20 some times, any ideas

 

[bloodshed]

I had the same problem......and it was a HUGE concern.....of course some women loved it....

Seriously.....I found myself w/ a live in gf and I just stopped beating off completely for a while......especially on the juice, you got an erection half of every day anyway.....just.....leave it alone. I'm no doctor but you're probably just desensitized.

Give it a rest....doesn't take long.....couple weeks as long as you really......leave it alone.

Good luck man. Once mine started popping on the inside I was much happier......also brought about more concerns....but it was worth it.

Ive been trying that, however were pretty frequent so it doesnt seem to make much a difference. however we started trying some new stuff, particularly moving from the bed to the floor, and that seemed to help a bit.

 

[thatbloke]

its psycological

like anything humans do

repetitive things become routine and we loose interest in them

like your workouts, social life, work etc, u get bored wen it becomes frequent and routine

it in human nature, we a re designed not to seek change and engage in routine behaviour

in your case its the frequent repetitive sex

i had the same issue, wen im on a gram of test cyp i screw my misses 3-4 times a day (morning, after work or university, after dinner and then before bed) weekends ive spent whole days and night in bed with her doing it 5-6times

obviosuly after awhile i couldnt cum either

and heres wat worked for me

1. dont have sex with her for awhile, oral, nothing, masturbate if ya want or watch some porn

i know this sounds odd but seriosuly if ya dont do anything for a few days ur gf in clothing is gonna start making you a premature ejaculator

2. as mentioned earlier try new things, for me it was anal sex, 69s, trying new positions or new places (kitchen bench is pretty hot ill admit) and role playing (love my misses in the police women outfit arresting me for being a naughty boy and conceiling a baseball bat in my crouch)

worked for me anyways

i also get my gf to cook grilled chicken breast with sweet potato in a g string, bra, lubed up and wearing a baseball cap design hat which says 'shut up and squat'

chicken breast is always the last thing i end up eating that night

but thats just my things

i also like to make my gf wear around the house NOTHING but a g string and my MAXs protein XXXL tshirt which has the emblem 'lifes to short to be small' on it, with a cartoon of a unrealistic juiced up cartoon guy,

so hottt

lol theres a few of my weird reccomendations