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Has anyone here done wife swapping with there other half? And if so was it worth it? Any regrets? How did u feel watchin or partner with another man? The reason I ask is that me and my fiancée might/will be doing it in the near future.we are very secure and comfortable in our relationship and although the thought of it all excites me no end it also scares the crap outta me lol. So fellas am I making a huge mistake here or we only live once and go for it?
I'm in a similar boat.
I've been with my wife since '99. We have two boys. When we first got together my wife told me she had been with a woman when she was in high school. I never thought much about it probably just two girls being curious. Anyways fast forward to 2013 and just this year my wife tells me she wishes she could have a threesome with a girl. She actually said she regrets not having another one so that tells me she has been thinking about this for a while and somewhat serious. I probably should have guessed because, when we are intimate, she never likes to watch porn with a man/woman. She always says its too hard and she likes to watch women because its softer and more gentler type of porn.
Initially I was like fuck ya! I mean what married man wouldn't want to bang another chick after 14 years with the same woman.
But then as I imagine all sorts of cool cum swapping scenarios (ya right lol) all my insecurities start popping up. What if she says, down the road, I was with another girl now I want another man?
My wife and I are very secure in our relationship. We are together forever. I just want her to be happy.
And I've wanted to bang her friend for a decade she looks like Bree Olson. But I know, as a 35 year old man, thinking with my dick can get me in trouble and we've worked hard to be a family acquire capital/assets/etc.
Me and my exgirlfriend were swingers but we had a rule no guys,just girls.
She was bi-sexual so she didn't mind just woman.
But after a year aid multiple threesomes foursomes,I started getting board like why can't just the 2 of us just have sex.
also she like watching me with multiple woman it turned her on, but even that got old after developing real feelings for her.
Eventually I had enough. and we broke up.
I never thought I would have enough of having sex with multiple woman a night
No way in hell could I do it. How could you watch another guy give your woman pleasure? Would it make you angry if you walked in on her cheating on you and some guy was boning her and she is screaming in ecstacy? By swapping your basically going to be watching the same thing except you said it was okay. No way ever. I would end up in prison. I am too much of a jealous and selfish person to ever swing.
And from what I have heard....its not like there are a bunch of "10's" walking around swingers clubs.
I think that's really what makes it difficult. Hearing her moan and be pleasured by someone else. If she was totally quiet, it might be more tolerable
Someone already said the best way I can think of explaining it: No way, ever, could I be ok with someone else touching the love of my life. That's not a statement brought on by insecurity or anything, that's just the hard truth. I'd be sick to my stomach. That's something of myself I give ONLY to her, and her ONLY to me..
I think that's really what makes it difficult. Hearing her moan and be pleasured by someone else. If she was totally quiet, it might be more tolerable
Those two thoughts alone would scare the fuck out of me. If anything, it'd make me wanna just tell her to go sleep with a women and come back and tell me about it. That way you have a backup argument in case of separation and there's no chance of a dude banging your wife.