little slice
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What you see in women, is part of yourself. Something repressed and something you don't want to integrate. Probably something about your past. We feel humilliation when we are betrayed by a woman who was special to us. That can cause us to seek control so we don't experience it again.
yeah ive been lied too by women I cared about...who hasn't? it's just part of life. Ive never carried trust issues into other relationships
Because you can't accept your own shadow. You project it and it sounds like you project it only onto women. Because you only see them in a negative light. A negative light coupled with manipulation. When it is your ability to change persona(s) that is unconscious to you.
that's a nice woo woo thought, but I am only against signing a legal document with the state which would cause me to be legally and financially bound to a woman...nothing against women themselves.
Or maybe you are just pissed off and bitter about women. And you only see the feminine shadow. They are smarter psychologically and have better survival instincts. Darwinism is a legitimate theory for explanation. Woman have evolved differently because of their lack of upper body strength. In this context: interpersonal relationships.
To reiterate, you walk around with one eye and no depth perception. Meaning, you project onto women: only seeing them in a negative light. You lack to see them in their whole, hence you view women two-dimensional. Either as all good or all bad, never both.
As men, we have certain vulnerabilities to women. We aren't afraid of the violence and aggression of the physically stronger gender. Psychologically, women are stronger and clever. They use physiological/psychological forces of ours against ourselves. A woman can control a 240 lbs man with 3 ounces of flesh. But it is our lust, not theirs, that are dominating us. Hence, why it is wise to withdraw our projections. Because then we can see what is really going on.
how do you explain gay guys?
again, that's a nice thought... but some of us are able to deny our most basic animal instincts
You are a smart guy little slice. What is better: a internal locus of control or a external locus of control?
I believe that my actions are the greatest contributing factor to what happens in my life. I will never marry, therefore I will never be dragged through family court, separated from my children, have my assets stolen from me, and my life essentially ruined. I don't blame outside forces for my circumstances... because basically everything in my life has been more or less fair and deserved. I am very fortunate in that regard, but at the same time, I have lived my life very carefully...as to avoid the traps and the pitfalls that other people fall prey to.
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