How often do you have sex?

[wtw11171]

Quite a few happy lucky pricks on here. I am with my wife like 20 years and I could still hit that ass at least once a day. The thing is she has all of these woman problems and everytime we have sex she is in pain. That is a turn off to me so most of the time I do not bother. I usually have to practice self control or rub the bark off of it 3 times a week.

 

[maldorf]

I think there is a big trend for empty nesters to see a big increase in the frquency of sexual intimacy. Thats one thing I look forward to if I ever live to be that old.

 

[notsobig32]

Do u have some kinda routine, like tapping that ass right before going to sleep, or first thing in the morning, or right when you get home?

Between working 8-10 hrs a day, 2-3 hours at the gym, I get home around 8 PM if Im lucky. Then shower, laundry, dinner, dogs, etc. By the time I lay down, if Im not horny, Im ready to go to sleep. After I orgasm, I need some time for my libido to recharge. I cannot go 2 or 3 times in a row. I can get hard anytime no problem, I just don't always have the desire to perform. So it is a psychological thing that takes time to recharge.

Like the commercial says, I have to wait for that "Cialis moment".

lmao, i do not like having a set routine. For me and my girl, it just happens naturally. Not forced like, yo girl its 9pm lets drop those drawers and grab your ankles

 

[ojs]

LOl................I am 50.........at least once a day for me (usually twice) and it is not my hand either. I am lucky she can keep up with me. She loves sex as much as I do.............thank goodness!!! OH and NO I AInt married.....LOL

Hahahaha!!!! I'm 57, been with the same girl for 11 years and we're about as irregular as it gets. Some weeks it 2-3 times a week. Some weeks it's wake-up sex, I just got home sex, baby you look so sexy coming out of the shower sex and then some good night sweetheart sex.

...but these last few days I feel like a cat playing with a dead mouse.

 

[Lee Salado]

The only thing absurd here is your statement...

I agree. For some of us, sex is the least important part of marriage. If our relationship was purely physical in nature, we would surely have divorced years ago. Hell, we wouldn't even have ever gotten married.

I wasn't remotely attracted to my wife when we first met. I mean ZERO attraction. We were very good friends, and it wasn't until I had truly gotten to know her that I fell in love with her. Now she is the most beautiful woman I have ever had the pleasure of knowing. She is my wife. My life partner. My best friend
in the whole world.

Sex isn't the glue that hold our relationship together. God and love is.

 

[dalvare1]

I think sex is just as important as any other factor in the relationship.

its the ONE thing that seperates you and your significant other from being just very very very good friends.

I have friends who i spend lots of time with, who i will tell anything, who i will spill my heart out to when need be, who i will listen to and talk with and all of that, but sex is the one thing that makes a relationship a relationship.

that being said I like it often like I said a couple times a day everyday, being ON and dating fine ass women doesnt help the situation though

 

[brother_iron]

depends on the girl, as of now 2-3 times a day, everyday

i am a happy man

Same here, 2-3 times daily. Helps when you live w/ the girl though. Otherwise no way in hell that much.

 

[Lee Salado]

I think sex is just as important as any other factor in the relationship.

its the ONE thing that seperates you and your significant other from being just very very very good friends.

I have friends who i spend lots of time with, who i will tell anything, who i will spill my heart out to when need be, who i will listen to and talk with and all of that, but sex is the one thing that makes a relationship a relationship.

that being said I like it often like I said a couple times a day everyday, being ON and dating fine ass women doesnt help the situation though

I guess some people are just different. Neither my wife nor I had ever had sex before (both virgins) in our lives till we got married. That may have something to do with it. It wasn't important to us before, so its still not now. We do it, just not often.

 

[willylee]

I think a better number would be how many times a week do you sit down and actually listen to your wife.....rub her shoulders.....kiss her.....tell her you love her.....

Lower your Clomid dose, I'm starting to cry. LOL!

But seriously my wife has said this exact same thing to me.

 

[dalvare1]

I guess some people are just different. Neither my wife nor I had ever had sex before (both virgins) in our lives till we got married. That may have something to do with it. It wasn't important to us before, so its still not now. We do it, just not often.

thats you and if it works for you thats fine...

I just hate seeing countless relationships go to shit because of sexual frustration...

I have known so many guys who hate their relationship because they dont get it enough so they are miserable and often that turns into the girl REWARDING him with sex, which is NOT how it should be IMO.

Sexual chemistry is just as important as mental/emotional chemistry when choosing a partner in my opinion...

 

[biggerguns]

Sadly I would show my wife this thread and say "See, i told you once a month is bullshit".

She would just think I made up all the above posts though.

Funny, i was thinking of showing my wife this thread too. Im glad this thread was made because i was not sure if having very little sex was normal for married couples. I guess we are on the same boat.

 

[dalvare1]

Funny, i was thinking of showing my wife this thread too. Im glad this thread was made because i was not sure if having very little sex was normal for married couples. I guess we are on the same boat.

See I couldnt do that... Sign up for sex once or twice a month for the rest of my life?? sounds like hell... Maybe its just me but that seems ridiculous. I know im younger but why so little? I just dont get it?

 

[VanR__]

Where is the decade option?

 

[Golgo13]

My latest girlfriend, we have been together for about 3 weeks....


::tar-wars::tar-wars

"girlfriend" after 3 weeks? I woman has to be hanging out for MONTHS before she gets that title.

 

[stupidman]

in these kind of polls everybody can be the lover he ever wanted to be.
ha,ha,ha.

 

[phatkid77]

yeah my life sucks too!!!!
im lucky if i get it once a month...maybe every other...and i have not been impressed for YEARS about this...

now i met another woman (have not had sex, we have an unreal physical attraction, personality attraction) and now i am in a super pickle having a 2yr old at home......and the woman i love is out there for me....

i know what i have to do, and the wife isnt gunna like it

phats

 

[klowndog]

I told my girl that what is more important than how many times we have sex a week is how many times I rub her shoulders, tell her I love her, hold her and squeeze her real tight (a lot is said through that with no words required). And she almost cried. Thanks Phil, thats exactly how I see it too. Its all good on the homefront!

 

[marilyn]

here it goes.....

Sorry, no answer at this time....due to in real life it can varry..could be every night for a while, could be a couple times a week one week....

I have been reading this thread and I have to say Phil has the best point..If you want more sex, its not about what you want, is about what she needs....Its really easy, make her feel good with helping with the little things, massages, communicating common interest, picking up the mess together, clean her car sometimes as a surprise...the little things.

oh, and don't argue over little stupid things, don't be a negative debbie downer...Its a waste of time and energy, and you'll make her feel negative, which is not a turn on....Its about friendship as well...this is for the married guys that are not getting what they need as far as sex goes.

I don't know why some make it so difficult, if you are not into yourself so much, you will actually get more...don't try to be right all the time, really who gives a F$%%, if you want sex, then shut up and smile, and get romantic, don't be an ass about people or things you hate..really, she doesnt care...do the things she likes to do sometimes too..hang with her friends from time to time and don't critize them later, its a negative, and not sexy.

Like Peter North said once, It's about what ever she's comfortable with man I loved that line, and he was serious.(It had nothing to do with what you're thinking)

Be fun, considerate, respectful, not boring, or angry. Don't bitch about stupid things, and for god sake don't bitch non-stop! Let it go and resolve it fast,
then you can get to what you want faster

ok, that's all..I'm no counselor, but I am a well rounded person, so I hope this can help someone.

 

[marilyn]

Get a Chris Isaac CD ( Can't do a thing to stop me) Love this song.

try this song after a nice dinner and a glass of wine, champange or whatever you drink ,or nothing.... tub full of warm/hot water filled with bubbles, candles

a massage, kisses,.....you should know what to do from here

Oh, then help with dishes...if you want more of what happens next

 

[njpooldude]

Get a Chris Isaac CD ( Can't do a thing to stop me) Love this song.

try this song after a nice dinner and a glass of wine, champange or whatever you drink ,or nothing.... tub full of warm/hot water filled with bubbles, candles

a massage, kisses,.....you should know what to do from here

Oh, then help with dishes...if you want more of what happens next

this post just deserves a smile! and your other post is very true.. one week its 5 times.. the next maybe once... if some of you guys are having sex ( with the same girl) 5 times a day everday you either both have no life.. or not a busy one, and will get bored very soon.. cant imagine 5 times a day EVERYDAY... with the same girl