How often do you have sex?

[klowndog]

Get a Chris Isaac CD ( Can't do a thing to stop me) Love this song.

try this song after a nice dinner and a glass of wine, champange or whatever you drink ,or nothing.... tub full of warm/hot water filled with bubbles, candles

a massage, kisses,.....you should know what to do from here

Oh, then help with dishes...if you want more of what happens next

Gonna try this out tonight! Gotta download some Chris Isaac, stop by the liquor store, get some Mr. Bubble, and rub those shoulders! Thanks Marilyn, it's nice to get a beautiful woman's opinion on the matter!

 

[Ruhlfreak55]

this advice is only useful if there's at least one female not related to you that you can hang out with that's attracted to you

 

[knucklehed]

18 years and better then ever...

There are a lot of differences between men and women especially when it comes to sex. But we also have many things in common. In a healthy functional relationship responsibilities are shared: Examples: wives take out the garbage, husbands do the dishes -women maintain automobiles and men vacuum the house. In some cases one spousal unit works 50 hours a week and the other manages household duties. Sometimes both work and share household duties.
The point is that in a healthy and equitable relationship there exists a balance between our contributions and our needs. The list of responsibilities and needs includes many things, most notably sex (in a healthy relationship).
In some less healthy relationships one person may feel that sex is like a birthday cake or a special gift that is reserved only for special occasions. Or worse; sex is a tool of manipulation, used to control or manipulate the other spousal unit (much like prostitution).While the other spouse may feel that sex is a duty and expected when ever they want it.
Relationships can be challenging and require work and lots communication. We are all very different people. You need to know and understand your partner. If you find yourself in a situation where your needs are not being met communicate. It is all about communication and compromise.
Before you initiate this conversation look at your own behavior. Make sure you’re taking care of your responsibilities. Be your spouse’s best friend. Put their happiness ahead of your own. Fulfillment really does come from giving, not receiving.
Personally I don't like being manipulated into special acts or gift giving in order to receive sex. I didn't marry a prostitute. I'd rather treat my wife like a Queen -Its good to be King

 

[njpooldude]

There are a lot of differences between men and women especially when it comes to sex. But we also have many things in common. In a healthy functional relationship responsibilities are shared: Examples: wives take out the garbage, husbands do the dishes -women maintain automobiles and men vacuum the house. In some cases one spousal unit works 50 hours a week and the other manages household duties. Sometimes both work and share household duties.
The point is that in a healthy and equitable relationship there exists a balance between our contributions and our needs. The list of responsibilities and needs includes many things, most notably sex (in a healthy relationship).
In some less healthy relationships one person may feel that sex is like a birthday cake or a special gift that is reserved only for special occasions. Or worse; sex is a tool of manipulation, used to control or manipulate the other spousal unit (much like prostitution).While the other spouse may feel that sex is a duty and expected when ever they want it.
Relationships can be challenging and require work and lots communication. We are all very different people. You need to know and understand your partner. If you find yourself in a situation where your needs are not being met communicate. It is all about communication and compromise.
Before you initiate this conversation look at your own behavior. Make sure you’re taking care of your responsibilities. Be your spouse’s best friend. Put their happiness ahead of your own. Fulfillment really does come from giving, not receiving.
Personally I don't like being manipulated into special acts or gift giving in order to receive sex. I didn't marry a prostitute. I'd rather treat my wife like a Queen -Its good to be King

The whole thing is a great post, but i really enjoyed and agree 100% with the part i made bold... gifts = money... and money for sex is a hooker lol

 

[ericraven2003]

My wife and I have it generally twice a week. It would be more but thats about the only time we manage to get by ourselves between work and kids. I do notice the more I help her around the house the more frisky she is.

 

[tsimehc75]

been seing a girl for a few months now..twice a day is pretty normal for us but can go 3-4 times a day as well

 

[ericraven2003]

been seing a girl for a few months now..twice a day is pretty normal for us but can go 3-4 times a day as well

Where the hell do you find the time? Seriously. I am lucky to find enough time to workout. Do you not have a full time job?

 

[klowndog]

What is the hormone/chemical/??? that causes us to want to have sex? What is responsible for our libido? Testosterone? Immediately after I have sex, having sex again is the last thing I want to do. I need some time to build up whatever it is that makes me want to do it again. I guess some guys can get off and keep going time after time in the same session. Anyone know what the trigger is?

Sincerely,

David Hull
Master Cocksmith and Jack of all Trades

 

[klowndog]

Oh yeah- I been seeing this one chick that is hot as hell everyday for a few weeks now. That is until my boss took the binoculars out of my truck.

-Your friendly local cocksmith

 

[SoCo4Fun]

What is the hormone/chemical/??? that causes us to want to have sex? What is responsible for our libido? Testosterone? Immediately after I have sex, having sex again is the last thing I want to do. I need some time to build up whatever it is that makes me want to do it again. I guess some guys can get off and keep going time after time in the same session. Anyone know what the trigger is?

Sincerely,

David Hull
Master Cocksmith and Jack of all Trades

Just after having an orgasm there is a sudden rise in prolactin. The rise in prolactin kills your sex drive. Things like pramipexole can be used to suppress that, and then you can go back to back. Pram isn't something to be taken lightly though.

 

[builder]

when im on 2-3 times/week

when im off, every couple weeks

married 4 years.

when we first got together in was pretty much whenever we could!

 

[mohawkmike]

At least 4-5 times a week!!

 

[Stewie Griffon]

I've always prided myself in my skills in the bedroom. I am no slouch. My latest girlfriend, we have been together for about 3 weeks. We have had sex at least once a day except for 4 days (not consecutive). She says she thinks I am wondering if I can keep up with her sexually. I thought I was.

I have ended my last cycle 4 weeks ago, and am doing pct now, enjoying sex very much, but sometimes I am just too tired, etc. and if I force myself to have sex and Im not into it, then I will get tired of having sex until I am really eager.


::tar-wars::tar-wars

would any of those hot android chics from the original star trek count?

 

[DOHCrazy]

Last year I had a girlfriend that basically lived with me. Her sex was amazing, and she was hornier than I was. On cycle I loved it, we would have sex 2 -3 times a day.

Now she lives 7 hours away and I have to watch a lot of porn.

*kicks dirt*

 

[kycatfan78]

I'm married with a small child....3x a week average.

 

[jake]

ANSWER ME THIS QUESTION?!

I agree with what some others have said on here. Sex is not a tool to be used for manipulations or as a reward?!..

Ok , heres a question for you guys who get it from your wives/gf's 1x week, or month or less then you desire it?

When your girl stopped giving it to you (or started using it as a tool/reward) did you start fucking someone else? Be honest now! Any of you who can answer that honestly with 'no' heres another question: When you stopped getting it did you start to think/fantasize more about other women? or did you start jerking off to porn more? I'll bet 90% of you will say 'Yes'..... So how is that healthy for your relationship? Its not!

Women need to understand that if they dont give it to their man, he will get it somewhere else! or he'll think about getting it somewhere else a lot more! I've dated girls who try to use this tactic of sex as something they hold they key to and they are the gate keepers of it. I promptly tell them the 'relationship' is over, and show them the door. Every man has needs, I will not live my life jerking off on the computer when the women goes the grocery store because I cant get it when I need it. That is ridiculous, and I dont see how so many of you have relagated yourselves to being 'o.k.' with it? I suppose everyone is different though. In the beginning of any relationship I make sure this matter is well discussed and understood before we continue.

Any women commenting in this thread may ask themselves ithis: would their man would start giving them the 'attention' they desire if they gave him the 'attention' he desired?

I have a great women now. I have learned you have to find a women who is eager to please her man, and you yourself have to find a women you are eager to please as well( not just in the bdroom, but her emotional needs as well) .. Find a women who is comfortable with her body and is proud of the way she looks, this will go a looong way in the bedroom!

Whoever says sex is not a big part of a relationship has never had great sex lol.. I'll tell you this, I am willing to overlook a lot of things that may piss me off, and be more willing to swallow my pride in an argument if I am having great sex! I seriously feel bad for you guys who get it 1x/mo. when married or in a relationship?!

*Ok heres another side note. Anyone wanting more sex needs to make sure they are not some couch potato lazy ass with a un realistic idea that they need to have some crazy porno sex all the time. That wont happen. Take care of yourself, make sure you are desirable to have sex with first, make sure you are kind to your gal and invest in the relationship too! its a 2 way street. If your girl doe not get her emotional needs meet chances are she will look for someone else to meet them (and she'll probably start having sex with that guy too!)

 

[klowndog]

EASY.....

I'm married with a small child....3x a week average.

I wouldnt be putting stuff like that on here, unless youre a card holding member of NAMBLA. Most countires frown upon marrying a small child. Unless you're in THAILAND.

 

[pimpman]

I wouldnt be putting stuff like that on here, unless youre a card holding member of NAMBLA. Most countires frown upon marrying a small child. Unless you're in THAILAND.

haha im sure he meant he is married AND has a small child

 

[Pekkerwood]

It can vary greatly from 7 days a week to no days a week to in between. There is no doubt however, that in the last seven years with my gf it has decreased. Some is my fault. But she has for sure cut me down some. Its not so bad, I hear from some of my friends she cut them off entirely.

 

[Stewie Griffon]

I wouldnt be putting stuff like that on here, unless youre a card holding member of NAMBLA. Most countires frown upon marrying a small child. Unless you're in THAILAND.

even an attempt at humor about such a subject is disguisting