Let me Bitch for a few mins

[vitor]

hahahaha

ANyways still dating the same girl for about 6 months now, we spend about -3-4 days per week usally on weekend and one or 2 little get together have dinner see a movie chill nights. Anyways she is still always late, for example I bought movie tickets online and made dinner reservations. Movie at 7:15, dinner at 6. She lives 15mins away and theatre is near my house so se was gonna come over. We talk at 4, im like be here at 5:30 you cant be late. I finish all my paperwork shower, and im ready at 5:20, I end up waiting till 6:10 for her to arrive, no call just sorry im late. This happens roughly 2-3 times per month where she is late, she says sorry and im supposed to act as if it didnt happen.

Next problem, she is a teacher doesnt make much money so her car breaks down, and she decides to buy a new one, im like shop around, you probally can only afford 10-12k well she goes to her uncle's shop buys a 20000 car and now has an exactly 5$ left over each month after she pays all her bills and car notes. She calls me crying about it, and im like didnt your dad and I both say dont spend that much money, she gets mad etc.

So now I pay for everything, she has to get a part time job so we will now see each other less, and it annoys me.


This is like the 3rd major decision she ask my advice, and her familys then does whatever the hell she wants with no rhyme or reason. We got into an arguement and im like why the hell do you ask me or anyone for advice when u always do whatever the hell you want anyway.

Ok IM done, just Ticked off the late thing drives me crazy I think it happens 2-3 times per month...

 

[lynx]

That sounds extremely frustrating. I'd be pissed if I were waiting that long w/no phone call. I'd also be getting sick of paying for everything. I believe that when you are in a relationship there is give and take with everything including money. I'd feel terrible if JT paid for everything. Do you see this as a long term relationship?

 

[littlemack]

hahaha. Vitor. That is hilarious. I know exactly what your going through man. Its completely normal. Some women are just never on time. My girls usually 20-30 minutes late, but I've been pushing her a little bit and she gets to most places on time now. I don't think I've ever been with a girl who was always on time. lol.
The money thing. Well, I've had to experiences with this. An ex-wife who was an RN and kept every paycheck to herself and made me pay for everything and sucked me dry. My new girlfriend, didn't make a great deal of money either, and I currently pay for everything for her and her daughter as well, but now she is starting to make some money and is contributing. I don't know what to tell you there, except if she's a good girl then she'll want to help you one day even if she can't right now.
Good luck bro.

 

[BOOMSHAKER]

Bro, she sounds like she is very irresponsible. If you think the problem is bad now, just wait. It gets worse with time and someone will always be getting her out of jams. I hope it won't be you. Stay in a long as you can, just don't go down with the ship. GOOD LUCK...

 

[ldog40]

Bro, she sounds like she is very irresponsible. If you think the problem is bad now, just wait. It gets worse with time and someone will always be getting her out of jams. I hope it won't be you. Stay in a long as you can, just don't go down with the ship. GOOD LUCK...

I've gotta agree.

 

[mrjacked]

blow her off a few times she what it does

 

[Sigmund Roid]

Vitor, it doesn't hurt to vent.

Imagine if you were married to such an individual. I assume your relationship is satisfying in a physical sense. However, I would be very careful with birth control.

 

[maxsupplements]

blow her off a few times she what it does

EXACTLY..... do this...


she will flip

 

[Crowler]

Imagine if you were married to such an individual. I assume your relationship is satisfying in a physical sense. However, I would be very careful with birth control.

::ction-sm

EXACTLY You REALLY do not want to marry this girl unless you are crazy so it is just for some fun and pleasure. You get her pregnent, you will STILL be paying for everything for 20 plus years, no longer be getting any action AND some other guy will raise your child.


CROWLER

 

[donveto]

hahahaha

ANyways still dating the same girl for about 6 months now, we spend about -3-4 days per week usally on weekend and one or 2 little get together have dinner see a movie chill nights. Anyways she is still always late, for example I bought movie tickets online and made dinner reservations. Movie at 7:15, dinner at 6. She lives 15mins away and theatre is near my house so se was gonna come over. We talk at 4, im like be here at 5:30 you cant be late. I finish all my paperwork shower, and im ready at 5:20, I end up waiting till 6:10 for her to arrive, no call just sorry im late. This happens roughly 2-3 times per month where she is late, she says sorry and im supposed to act as if it didnt happen.

Next problem, she is a teacher doesnt make much money so her car breaks down, and she decides to buy a new one, im like shop around, you probally can only afford 10-12k well she goes to her uncle's shop buys a 20000 car and now has an exactly 5$ left over each month after she pays all her bills and car notes. She calls me crying about it, and im like didnt your dad and I both say dont spend that much money, she gets mad etc.

So now I pay for everything, she has to get a part time job so we will now see each other less, and it annoys me.


This is like the 3rd major decision she ask my advice, and her familys then does whatever the hell she wants with no rhyme or reason. We got into an arguement and im like why the hell do you ask me or anyone for advice when u always do whatever the hell you want anyway.

Ok IM done, just Ticked off the late thing drives me crazy I think it happens 2-3 times per month...

Woman are a funny creature. My first GF I had of 5 years was NEVER late, she made great money(dental hygenist), more than half the time she paid for everything, she supported my diet/training, baked for my father, never wanted anything big for bday/christmas but always showered me with gifts ranging from new computers to Sox/yankees tickets. To top it all off she had the body of a swimsuit model (voted best looking in school).

Now from the outside she seemed like the perfect girl and for the 1st 3.5 years it was great, almost 2 great.

Now the fun part ...shit started to get old. She would show up at my work around lunchtime and would cause a scene if I wouldnt go to lunch w/ her.
I would leave the gym and sometimes she would be waiting in the parking lot next to my jeep and assualt me with questions, Who is that girl, how come you didnt call me before u went inside, howcome you didnt invite me, I dont like that kid why are you talking to him?
If I was going out with my freinds she would call me at least 10 times during the night- one time I decided not to bring my phone w/ me. She found the bar I was at and called the joint- they killed the jukebox and asked for me over the intercom , I get to the bar and the bartender hands me the phone , all I hear is "IF YOU DONT GET YOUR ASS OUT HERE RIGHT NOW IM GOING TO PUT MY HEAD THROUGH YOUR WINDOW AND CALL THE COPS AND TELL THEM YOU DID IT"

WTF!!!!! At this point this chick has my family on her side because her mother died so she wrapped my family around her little finger with sob stories. So im the asshole- I finally end it.

she keeps calling me at work , stalking the new chick im seeing..finally I write her a letter and put it on her car at work- telling her I love her and im sorry things ended up this way and she needs to go talk to someone.

Next day Im arrested at work - get this the girl goes to the PD and said she fears for her life they slap a restraining order in me and a bunch of other shit..

F*CK ME!!

I havent talked to her in 18 months now- I saw her once and she burst out in tears, i took off like a bat outta hell.


My POINT my friend is this,

Noone is perfect, some guys (like me) would kill for a girl that was actually late.. this way I wouldnt always have to be on my toes and be on time..BUT I couldnt handle paying for everything.

some guys would kill for a girl like my ex that wanted to do nothing but please their man but in return you have to 100% dedicated to her.

One mans trash is another mans gold.

There are plenty of chicks out there, I suggest you visit
WWW.NOMARRIAGE.COM and read some of the horror stories that guys write in.

Stay strong and look out for yourself- the rest of your life is a long time

 

[vitor]

Wow, that is some website eh...

 

[vitor]

Its funny to read that website and all of your comments. I am 27, own my own business, its really taking off, Im a former Solider, and own a bit of real estate, everything is looking on the up and up. But all my friends who are married or have kids hate their lives, and one of my buddies lost his business, house, 2 cars, and 2800$ a month in Child support to his exwife who cheated on him...

 

[donveto]

Its funny to read that website and all of your comments. I am 27, own my own business, its really taking off, Im a former Solider, and own a bit of real estate, everything is looking on the up and up. But all my friends who are married or have kids hate their lives, and one of my buddies lost his business, house, 2 cars, and 2800$ a month in Child support to his exwife who cheated on him...

Happens everyday brother, for me to settle down it is going to take alot- I like my life the way it is, I can do what I want when I want and I always seem to have a couple girls going at any given time.

Im 25 have an awesome job that Ive had since 20 that has a promising future, I like to do what I want with my money

FOR EXAMPLE- my christmas bonus is 2500 bucks after taxes- now if I had a wife/ gf i would be using this for presents and or credit card bills

BUT instead I get to take a 2 week vacation During spring break to CLearwater beach (one of my best buds moved there) I will be going diving/ fishing charters, night clubs, the beach all day, a great outdoor gym just minutes from where Im staying...PLUS all the college girls I dare to handle..

Sounds like a no brainer to me!

 

[maxsupplements]

Happens everyday brother, for me to settle down it is going to take alot- I like my life the way it is, I can do what I want when I want and I always seem to have a couple girls going at any given time.

!

DUDE.... this is the life right here... just about where i am right now.. just a couple girls to be dating.. thats it.. and i get to go hunting any day i want, and lift when i want, and am self employed, so i can go and come as i please...

it will also take me a LOT to settle down.... especially for a guy that has been down the marriage road once... :star-wars

 

[Philips]

I think that for some women it is impossible for them to be on time, that is just part of thier DNA or something. Did the marrige thing and dont ever want to do it again. Damaged goods...LOL...