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Been over a year since I spoke to my ex. She treated my daughter like her own when we were together. It was a bad breakup. A lot of hurtful things said on both sides due to a lot of misunderstanding and other people giving their bs. Either way. It was over. We spoke last year. She told me she was leaving the state to start over. She didn't leave.
I met current gf. We been dating for about a year now. We work out together and Friday after the gym we get to my truck and I pick up my cell as I always leave in in my truck during a workout. There is a text saying happy Thanksgiving and asking how I am. I replied and asked her how family was.
She tells me her nephew has a little sister and come February he's also gonna have a cousin.
I asked if she's pregnant or her oldest sister. She said she is. This is a woman that when we were together I wanted more kids and she kept brushing it off. Saying no she doesn't wanna be a mom or have any kids.
She's better as a step mom and an aunt.
I got mad and told her good luck with her new family. And asked Wtf she contacted me for, just to let me know she is having a kid? She insisted it was just to see how me and the family was.
We stopped texting. Last night I find out she got pregnant by a guy she knew for a few months and he left. He doesn't wanna be a dad. She's going to be a single mom now.
I don't wish her ill and I don't wanna bash her. Please keep the negative comments about her off the post. My female friends bashed her enough and I can't handle anymore hatred speech right now.it doesn't do anyone any good.
I'm in somewhat of a better situation financially. Been working on side things and plan to do it full time and quit my regular job after the new year.
I'm tired. Yesterday s workout was shit. I lost my appetite during my mid bulk cycle. Mind is all over the place. Keep having flashes to the last family trip me her and my daughter went on, ocean city during the off season kicking the sand and pushing each other close to the waters edge. I still remember how cold the water was.
I made a lot of mistakes in that relationship and I've been working hard on myself to fix me the last couple of years.
I'm tired. I just want to go back to sleep now
I met current gf. We been dating for about a year now. We work out together and Friday after the gym we get to my truck and I pick up my cell as I always leave in in my truck during a workout. There is a text saying happy Thanksgiving and asking how I am. I replied and asked her how family was.
She tells me her nephew has a little sister and come February he's also gonna have a cousin.
I asked if she's pregnant or her oldest sister. She said she is. This is a woman that when we were together I wanted more kids and she kept brushing it off. Saying no she doesn't wanna be a mom or have any kids.
She's better as a step mom and an aunt.
I got mad and told her good luck with her new family. And asked Wtf she contacted me for, just to let me know she is having a kid? She insisted it was just to see how me and the family was.
We stopped texting. Last night I find out she got pregnant by a guy she knew for a few months and he left. He doesn't wanna be a dad. She's going to be a single mom now.
I don't wish her ill and I don't wanna bash her. Please keep the negative comments about her off the post. My female friends bashed her enough and I can't handle anymore hatred speech right now.it doesn't do anyone any good.
I'm in somewhat of a better situation financially. Been working on side things and plan to do it full time and quit my regular job after the new year.
I'm tired. Yesterday s workout was shit. I lost my appetite during my mid bulk cycle. Mind is all over the place. Keep having flashes to the last family trip me her and my daughter went on, ocean city during the off season kicking the sand and pushing each other close to the waters edge. I still remember how cold the water was.
I made a lot of mistakes in that relationship and I've been working hard on myself to fix me the last couple of years.
I'm tired. I just want to go back to sleep now
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