Going through very similar situation what you’re describing right now. Was with gf for 2.5 years and knew her for about 1.5 years before we dated, I was boning her multiple times a day anywhere and anytime during our first year or so together. It started dieing down and eventually sex with her and the attraction faded.
A new girl came in to work for the conpany I’m with and I ended up hooking up with her and having sex with her, I’ve been with this chick for about 5 months now and while the attraction to her is amazing as well as the sex, the other chit that my ex did was wayyyy better (always cooking making sure I’m fed, cleaning, laundry, steaming my clothes, massages, etc!!! ) , the other one was beyond loyale and while the current girl does a few things for me it doesn’t compare to my ex. I’m still talking to my ex and she knows everything and is waiting for me to comeback to her because she thinks me and this new chick wont workout due to our personality’s not combining well.
When I’m with one girl I miss the other, with both chicks basicaly being with me someone’s heart is going to end up being broken and more than likey I’ll go back to my ex because I have a feeling my lust with this new chick will end soon and she will basicaly be worthless to me when compared to my ex.
I recommend you stay with what you got, I’m in a terrible situation and when i end it with one of these chicks I’ll be going through a week or two of a little bit of depression.
If I could go back in time I wouldn’t of veered off the road. Sometimes you don’t realize what you got until you take a step back and analyze everything, so be very appreciative.