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I know this is going to be a bit random, but I'm doing some research and figured that this forum would be a great place to survey as I've seen plenty of very intelligent/wise posters with lots of experience. I think this can be of great use for the younger members or those interested in the key to long term success within a relationship.
The questions will be for all of those who are either married or in some sort of Long Term Relationship where BOTH parties are very happy with it, so here goes.
How long have you and your partner been together? Are you married? Any Kids/pets?
If you have kids/pets, how have they affected your relationship (for the better/worse)? If not, are you planning on having any why or why not?
What was your intuitive feeling about your partner when you first met them? Were they true?
How often do you two have sex? How much importance do you place it on and how much importance does your partner place on it?
Does your partner go to the gym? If so do they train with you?
How important is communication within the relationship? How often do you two discuss things?
How many common interests do you two have? What importance do you and your partner place on this? Have they picked up any of your interests or vice versa?
What is your Good:Bad ratio? I.e for how many good things can you name something bad
What are 5 reasons you think most couples fail? If you could expand a bit on each point and how it can be fixed.
What are your 5 keys to success? If you could expand a bit on each point and why it holds importance to you and your partner.
I really appreciate anybody that takes the time to fill this out as I think EVERYONE can learn a lot from it. I think bodybuilding and relationships have a lot in common in that they both require tons of dedication, it's a marathon not a sprint, it's a 24/7 thing...a lifestyle and they can both be used for learning a lot about yourself/others. Thanks again, I know I don't have many posts, but I've learned A LOT just from lurking this forum, so all of it is appreciated!
The questions will be for all of those who are either married or in some sort of Long Term Relationship where BOTH parties are very happy with it, so here goes.
How long have you and your partner been together? Are you married? Any Kids/pets?
If you have kids/pets, how have they affected your relationship (for the better/worse)? If not, are you planning on having any why or why not?
What was your intuitive feeling about your partner when you first met them? Were they true?
How often do you two have sex? How much importance do you place it on and how much importance does your partner place on it?
Does your partner go to the gym? If so do they train with you?
How important is communication within the relationship? How often do you two discuss things?
How many common interests do you two have? What importance do you and your partner place on this? Have they picked up any of your interests or vice versa?
What is your Good:Bad ratio? I.e for how many good things can you name something bad
What are 5 reasons you think most couples fail? If you could expand a bit on each point and how it can be fixed.
What are your 5 keys to success? If you could expand a bit on each point and why it holds importance to you and your partner.
I really appreciate anybody that takes the time to fill this out as I think EVERYONE can learn a lot from it. I think bodybuilding and relationships have a lot in common in that they both require tons of dedication, it's a marathon not a sprint, it's a 24/7 thing...a lifestyle and they can both be used for learning a lot about yourself/others. Thanks again, I know I don't have many posts, but I've learned A LOT just from lurking this forum, so all of it is appreciated!