Wow, that sucks to hear man...Dude was around from the beginning, a legend in the game! From WCBB, to here, to the UGBB, he was everywhere.
Was talking about him last month when I directed a member to check out his conversion threads...He was a solid dude who made friends with everyone.
He was already missed but glad to hear he's no longer suffering...I know you were really close with him BMJ, so I know it must hurt, sorry man!
Thanks my man!
Yea, he was hardly around even his own forum the last 2-3 years, just off-and-on. When he did log on, he wouldn't post too much. He had some issues with the host of the forum after they changed owners (the host), and they newer people were stupid lazy and hard to work with. The last year or so, the board cut-out 2-3 times for short periods, and he was in the middle of changing everything when he got really sick. He had so many health issues come up one after the other, but he would always bounce back. When the board cut-off for good around Nov of 2022, he had just had knee surgery, then caught a major infection in the knee afterward, and then caught pneumonia a few times and had to stay in the ER a few times. He could barely even type a text at that point. Last text I got from him was at the beginning of Dec 2022, and then nobody received anything from him after that
He never sent over the keys to the board so it was lost for good. A few of us offered to pay for it and to keep it going, but he never got back to us. He was pretty stubborn, he hated having to ask for help on anything. He may have already been too far gone by that point to care, or maybe he thought he was gonna get around to it and didn't think he'd go down so hard....we've all asked ourselves those questions over and over, lol. He always wanted his forum to continue after he was gone, so who knows. Before all that, he had some underlying liver issues he was dealing with, but I can't remember exactly what the diagnosis was. He was pretty quiet on it all and kept it to himself. I think GotGame would remember what exactly he had wrong as he offered to help him with what he could do, but BK was stubborn, lol. He did continue going to the physicians he had, but it he never really improved. He had bad knees from a construction accident years prior, and with everything he had going on, I don't think he kept up on staying healthy from exercise and stuff. I do know he was not takin g any AAS the many final years, at least nothing outside of maybe trt, if he was even doing that.
Another Mod from his board, had one conversation with his wife and she stated all BK would do was just lay in bed (the final year). He and his wife were taking care of his mother, and then his wife was basically taking care of both of them. His mom died 2 weeks before he did
He asked to go to the doctor later that day after his mom died, and he was put on dialysis.
I hardly see any of my IRL friends these days. I train at home with what I have, and spend the rest of the day, outside of work, with my kiddos and studying. It's been this way for a good many years now. But even when I was regularly seeing buddies of mine, it's funny how we can get good strong relationships from people on these forums. We've talked about it before. But yea, I knew BK for many years before i even signed up on his forum. I didn't know him personally that well prior, just small talk here and there for many many years. He made me a Mod super quick after I joined his forum, and then eventually an Admin, which probably didn't do anything special, lol....just still felt like a Mod
It seemed like the past 14-15+ years just flew by. I started posting on his forum after AFboard slowed down considerably, and then eventually closed down. It was all close to around when we were posting on Jig's UG forum, and then eventually when raj took it over.
He was a good stubborn fukker for sure. It's really hit me a lot more than I thought it would have. The good thing is that all the WCBB mods and I talk daily in chat, and a lot post over at TID, and a few stop in here. We kind of all knew it was coming, but with no contact it was up in the air for over a year+.
My list of board i go to have dwindled even further, lol. I'm now down to just here at ProM, anasci and TID and a private forum or two. I'm at the point where I wish I could remember half of what i've forgotten over the many years, LOL!
Thanks to Big A and LK at TID to still keep this shit going. You guys are the last of a dying generation. To look back at all the forums I was on, and so many no longer around, it's almost like a distant memory left going by a string with a few boards. I guess Millard still has Meso, but that forum is just not me at this stage. Not a social media guy much either for this stuff, but i hang around to keep up.
Anyway, wasn't supposed to post much and i wrote a damn novel
Gotta go give my man rAJJIN some lovin' below now as well