Dang bro
I know what you're going through! A lot of good advice from your friends on this board, but I don't understand why we have to play so many games either. I like what the girl from Europe said "Annie". I think that things should happen effortlessly if it was meant to be. Very natural like. It sounds like she may be a bit spoiled because of her beauty. Us guy's don't have the luxury of 10 women a day hitting on us, or we would tend to be cocky and set our standards high. Some women have their expectations too high I think. They're waiting for Brad Pitt. It doesn't sound like she's being honest with you for one thing. If I cared about a person I would automatically go to great lengths to make her feel secure and confident. I feel that trust is the foundation of any meaningful relationship.
I don't like it when I'm left out in the dark, so I wouldn't want to make the person I cared for uncomfortable either. But instead of being honest with you, she just leads you along!
What does that say about how her emotional availability and capacity to be honest with you, will be like in the future, should the relationship evolve. Do you want to be in an emotionally dead relationship 6 months or 1 year from now? Where you have to continuously wonder WTF is going on?
Zero communication?
People are so full of games it makes me sad. If you show her too much love she'll take you for a pushover and walk all over your heart. If you dog her out, she'll be hanging on your coat tails. I don't get it.
We have people who are unable to express themselves, so they beat around the bush and do a lot of sideways underhanded forms of communication. You practically have to be a mind reader if you want to be in a relationship with them! Thats not love. Thats bullshit.
If confusion is present it should be a good indication not to pursue it.
Then you have the "booty call" some people just want to fuck and be fucked and keep fucken everyone they meet!!!!!!!!!!!
Not my cup of tea, those people are emotional sociopaths. A person, as a psychopathic personality, whose behavior is antisocial and who lacks a sense of moral responsibility or social conscience. They dont care about themselves, how are they going to care about you or anyone else?
"chin up....there are a lot of girls who will do everything for you....just be you and move on let her do the next step...she will do it..Now is her time"
Valentines day is a time for lovers and she dogged you. I'm sorry bro. You went out on a limb for her to make her feel special, and she pulled the old, "I tried to call"
thats bullshit. She would have called 10 times if she wanted to be with you. Its my gut feeling that she was with some other dude. She is a liar. She called you at what? 10
M after her date for the evening most likely. She's either a player and or "not sure" who the frog or the prince is, because she doesn't have the capacity to be honest with you. Unless you dont mind having seconds. Red-flag.
I would be very careful about investing my heart into someone who was that selfish. Unfortunately all you can do is ignore her until you eventually forget her. If she's playing kissy face and snuggling with you on the one hand, and already hurting you on the other, she doesn't sound like a very nice person. And apparently you deserve better.