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Has anyone ever pulled this off?

gnosis

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I'm wondering if anyone has ever successfully merged 2 romantic relationships?

I'm male. I'm dating 2 girls, both are serious, and both are great people that want a future with me.

1 has mentioned that she's fine with me dating other girls, or even bringing 1 into the bedroom, as long as she gets her time.

That's given me the idea of "merging" them both into 1 relationship.

Even typing it I feel like a moron, but I wanted to get some feedback.

I'm tired of feeling like I'm living 2 lives.

I don't have anyone else I can talk to about this and I'm starting to worry about things and hurting someone.

Thanks for any feedback.
 

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These types of relationships never work you can’t mix porn and real life well you can but it never works out there’s certain fantasy’s that stay just that

it’s like bi sexual your either gay or straight your not both and people who say they are bi always turn gay they hide in that bi curious statement until they fully open up
 

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My 1st babies mama was totally into women and I encouraged it. She had a steady gf for a couple years that shared our bedroom. Its hard enough having a relationship with one person so adding another to the mix brings its own set of obstacles. Human nature will kick in eventually. Jealousy and insecurities. It was a tight rope and I played politics a lot. I never tried to take control or be dominate with either one of them although I always kept my babies mama on a pedalstal 1st but I belive that's why her gf finally moved out and got a bf. It's hard because someone always feels left out at times if we're not all together. Hard game to play but definitely worth it while it lasted. Just a side note once you open that door you can't close it.
I got greedy one time and tried to use them to pick up another girl and this girl was totally into it but they were jealous like they weren't going to let this girl get up on me and they turned around and slept with this girl without me. I was upset but I never let them know it. They taught me a lesson. You have to be very open minded and you can never get mad at anything that your promoting in the 1st place. Be careful what you ask for
 

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I tell you what bro it wasn't all gravy. Towards the end that girl would get in my ear and ask me if I loved her more. If one made me cum the other would say oh she can make you cum and I can't. Never in front of eachother though.. It became really stressful for me and I'm glad it ended. I have a hard enough time trying to keep one woman happy. Try two. It was every little thing. Like I said human nature will kick in.
 

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Of course that’s every guys fantasy but it doesn’t work in the real world. Polygamy works because it’s in their religion and is expected. But out here no, one is hard enough to deal with. Two women like above posts say good luck.
 

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These types of relationships never work you can’t mix porn and real life well you can but it never works out there’s certain fantasy’s that stay just that

it’s like bi sexual your either gay or straight your not both and people who say they are bi always turn gay they hide in that bi curious statement until they fully open up

Good points @DarrenG29

Definitely makes sense. Not mixing porn and real life lol.

Thanks man
 

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I tell you what bro it wasn't all gravy. Towards the end that girl would get in my ear and ask me if I loved her more. If one made me cum the other would say oh she can make you cum and I can't. Never in front of eachother though.. It became really stressful for me and I'm glad it ended. I have a hard enough time trying to keep one woman happy. Try two. It was every little thing. Like I said human nature will kick in.

Thanks for the replies @ShortStop

I can absolutely 100% see that happening.

I think the stress would wear me out eventually.

Since starting this thread I've given this a lot of thought.

I can see the occasional addition to the bedroom, but I don't think I'd want to walk the tight rope all day like that.
 

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Of course that’s every guys fantasy but it doesn’t work in the real world. Polygamy works because it’s in their religion and is expected. But out here no, one is hard enough to deal with. Two women like above posts say good luck.

Thanks @Durro

I agree. I've floated the polygamy idea past one of them in a playful way, but I'm in Florida, so I don't think it's legit here haha.
 

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I have been in the same boat just decided to stick with the one and bring others in for play time with me and my girl.

1 girl can be evil enough even the nicest(been there) imagine 2 plotting against you. And this is coming from someone who was actually considering this with their partner
 

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It would be way to much for me to handle. To each's own but at 44, lol, id rather sleep
 

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The last thing I would want in this whole world is to deal with TWO women's bullshit LOLOL
 

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I'm wondering if anyone has ever successfully merged 2 romantic relationships?

I'm male. I'm dating 2 girls, both are serious, and both are great people that want a future with me.

1 has mentioned that she's fine with me dating other girls, or even bringing 1 into the bedroom, as long as she gets her time.

That's given me the idea of "merging" them both into 1 relationship.

Even typing it I feel like a moron, but I wanted to get some feedback.

I'm tired of feeling like I'm living 2 lives.

I don't have anyone else I can talk to about this and I'm starting to worry about things and hurting someone.

Thanks for any feedback.
Jealousy from one or the other will take affect and then it’s all downhill from there. Tread with caution...
 

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I'm wondering if anyone has ever successfully merged 2 romantic relationships?

I'm male. I'm dating 2 girls, both are serious, and both are great people that want a future with me.

1 has mentioned that she's fine with me dating other girls, or even bringing 1 into the bedroom, as long as she gets her time.

That's given me the idea of "merging" them both into 1 relationship.

Even typing it I feel like a moron, but I wanted to get some feedback.

I'm tired of feeling like I'm living 2 lives.

I don't have anyone else I can talk to about this and I'm starting to worry about things and hurting someone.

Thanks for any feedback.
You have a nice little menage et trois going on there. Polygamy is rarely possible in less and less patriarchal societies. And even then, those are highly managed and much more impersonal relationships than what most of us are accustomed to. No need to feel like a moron. I can't say you aren't living two different lives because you already know you are. If you want to talk about it, that's cool.

Though I'll just say that if any one of you is still seeing each other 3 months from now, I'd be shocked. I doubt that's the feedback you wanted but I have never seen this work. Not in a single loving relationship. Not once. Ever. And I've seen it ruin entire marriages and break up families. I'd tell you to enjoy it while it lasts but you've already begun to worry and feel less excited about it.

Good luck!
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