Sorry to hear of your injury, man. I've been there, as well.
I tore my ACL playing ball, and had the patellar autograft reconstruction. The surgery is much more traumatic than the injury itself, certainly no picnic. However, 9 years later and my knee gives me no problems, infact I rarely think of the reconstruction, nor do I ever think of the reconstructed knee any differently than my other knee. My legs are now far stronger than they ever were before the injury. I attribute this to two main reasons.
First, I got the best orthopaedic surgeon in my area; the guy has written medical school textbooks. Maybe there are others that could have done the procedure equally well, but my surgery turned out very well. I researched some modern post-op rehab protocals that advocated starting rehab very soon after surgery based on the theory that the sooner you get the muscles working the better the rehab outcome, but my doc was rather conservative in the timing of the rehab. He had me immobilize the leg for 6-8 weeks post-op, and advised that it was better to let everything substantially heal prior to serious rehab. Man, I couldn't wait to get on the stationary bike, one of the first excercises that your doc will probably let you do. That brings me to the second reason.
Rehab! Give it 100%, bro. Even if your livelihood doesn't depend upon it, rehab like you are a pro athlete and your livelihood does depend upon it! Range of motion, strength, everything... Your leg is going to shrink in size after the surgery and be almost unrecognizable to you. You will not be able to lift weight that a 8 year-old girl can lift, at first. Don't let it get you too down; you can come back stronger than ever. At 2 months you will feel weak and unsure, but keep blasting and at 6 months you will be very encouraged with your progress. You will go through more pain from the surgery and rehab than you ever did during the actual injury, but if you have the drive during the rehab, you will come out of it stronger than ever. When the day comes that you are squatting more than you did pre-injury, and realize that you have lost nothing performance-wise, you will wear the scar as a badge of honor; I do.
Lastly, after you overcome this, spread some encouragement to someone else that tears an ACL. I remember how devastated I felt when the doc told me that I tore mine. A couple of guys that had gone through it before me told me what to expect and encouraged me. To this day I appreciate their knowledge, and I try to help those that I hear are going through it.
If you are a warrior, you will overcome this. Keep blasting, bro!