An Idiot friend that just wont listen

[tkav1980]

first off id like to thank everyone on this board for all of the knowledge you share. ive learned alot here about what i love to do and how to be safe doing it, but i have a verry close friend that just wont listen. heres the back story.
right now he is a verry fat 260. his weight will yo-yo depending on weather or not he uses AAS. for years ive been telling him that steroids are not THE answer and that he needs to train and diet properly and build a solid foundation before he uses them. it always falls on deaf ears no matter how many facts or how much researsh i give him. the problem is that he asks me for advice and then just does the complete opposite of what i tell him. he thinks getting back in the gym for 2 weeks is all the prep he needs to start a cycle after he takes 6 mos off eating like a fat ass and not training at all. On top of that he never cycles properly hell take win and eq until he runs out and when he does he stops working out till he gets more with no pct at all. he gets mad because i wont get him any gear and my response is when your ready to do it right ill help. so finaly i told him to stop aksing my advice since he never takes it, i even offered to let him come stay with me for a month and well train and diet together just to get him into good habits. i was in his position before maybe 7 yrs ago but goddamn he just wont learn. im also worried about the gear he's getting, he goes out and pays a guy without even knowing what brand or dosage he's getting. lol sorry im kind of rambeling im just frustrated and am wondering if theres anything else i can do to get through to him.

 

[thebrick]

You have gone way beyond the call of duty already. Back off and let him make his own bed.

 

[doug1]

You have gone way beyond the call of duty already. Back off and let him make his own bed.

that's it, "cast not your pearls before swine"

 

[Deepsea]

You can only do so much. Hopefully some day he will learn.

 

[Sesshomaru]

I believe that the premise behind almost all relationships is to augment not torment. You can do poorly on your own, so you dont need this fried to drag you down with him if he gets popped for blindly buying gear and putting his health at risk.

 

[BubbaJohn]

I have a friend that is the same way. He has more money than brains and it is hard to get anything through to him. He has a friend that uses gear and thinks that if he does the same kind of cycle he will look the same but he doesn't know that the guy has been training for over 10 years before he even started. The best thing to do if he doesn't listen is to just stop because he is going to do whatever he wants in the end. His idiocy is not your burden if he doesn't bother to listen to you

 

[oldfella]

There is not much more I can add in terms of pearls of wisdom. I would say to him the next time he asks for anything.................."Ignorance is Bliss"

 

[GoneForever]

Some people just refuse to listen. I have a buddy who has been on a gram of tren since October 2007 and adds various compounds off and on. Funny thing, is if you look at him, you would MAYBE think he works out a couple times per week naturally. Another funny thing is he got recent bloodwork and its not that bad. Only thing off is his cholesterol is fairly bad just like most aas users. His tren is real too. Weird.

 

[oldfella]

Some people just refuse to listen. I have a buddy who has been on a gram of tren since October 2007 and adds various compounds off and on. Funny thing, is if you look at him, you would MAYBE think he works out a couple times per week naturally. Another funny thing is he got recent bloodwork and its not that bad. Only thing off is his cholesterol is fairly bad just like most aas users. His tren is real too. Weird.

This is actually a good point here, it shows how different compounds affect people in differetn ways. I have a little too much respect for that shit to abuse it that hard. But it doen not mean he will not end up with sides later on in life from it!!