It's my pet peeve,
Spend $20 a month on a mailbox ( not from the post office and probably try to avoid the chain stores ) Yes it's in your ID, but list a company or two that you and your wife are starting then have the order sent to the company name. It is rare that there is follow up on a seizure so the company name and the address gets flagged, but they would have to go to the mailbox shop to see who actually opened the box. That doesn't genearally happen and you have the option of closing the box and going down the street and opening a new one with a new company name. No you don't need company papers to list the names on the postal form.
So you are never personally connected unless you leave the box open long enough to get a few seizures and irritate customs enough that they send someone to the mailbox shop or you are bringing in more than 90 days worth of rec drugs then all bets are off.
You can't move from your home or apartment when you get a seizure! The connection to you is most likely easily made because you order in your peersonal name or do some stupid manipulation of letters. You owe it to your family and neighbors to keep that stuff out of your mailbox.
Just watch the next bust that you read about that involves recieving gear and see if it wasn't delivered to the home. Some guys would take the position that if you know the people who work behind the counter at athe mail shop or you can pick the pack up at 10PM and are able to recognize anything suspicous, you should never get popped. If it is a hot pack you don't ever have to pick it up. You can't do that with your home mailbox.
But guys are going to keep saying it's safe to recieve at home.
And don't use someone elses mailbox as they are going to roll. You be responsible and keep your wits about you and you should never have a problem.
Allbeef