Anyone hear from Johnjuanb1?

[warlock]

Sorry to be MIA, guys! Thank you for checking on me. I’ve been in the hospital ICU daily for 5 weeks. My mom has pneumonia in both lungs, one lung collapsed, she has a softball sized tumor in one lung and doctors can’t figure out what it is but it tested negative for cancer. Her kidneys failed. Lots of issues. Her flapper valve in her throat can’t get food or water down without it going into her lungs. She pulled her gastrointestinal feeding tube out Friday night when I was with her. I dozed off and she yanked it out. Doctors tried everything and gave up so we brought her home two days ago on hospice but this morning I got her to swallow a bunch of ice chips so I’m going to see if she can get tiny, tiny bits of baby food down the right pipe. I gave her morphine yesterday because she was having a coughing fit and was in pain. The morphine stoped the coughing and she slept all day. But today I don’t want to give her drugs so she is alert enough to try swallowing baby food. I’m not giving up. She’s been through hell but I don’t feel right about cutting her off food and water and just doping her on morphine to die. Maybe God will give us a miracle.

So sorry to hear this and what you guys are going through. I really hope she can pull through. If it was my mother, I'd be doing the same thing and not giving up.

You'll be in my thoughts and prayers. Stay strong.

 

[TrippplePPP]

Sorry to be MIA, guys! Thank you for checking on me. I’ve been in the hospital ICU daily for 5 weeks. My mom has pneumonia in both lungs, one lung collapsed, she has a softball sized tumor in one lung and doctors can’t figure out what it is but it tested negative for cancer. Her kidneys failed. Lots of issues. Her flapper valve in her throat can’t get food or water down without it going into her lungs. She pulled her gastrointestinal feeding tube out Friday night when I was with her. I dozed off and she yanked it out. Doctors tried everything and gave up so we brought her home two days ago on hospice but this morning I got her to swallow a bunch of ice chips so I’m going to see if she can get tiny, tiny bits of baby food down the right pipe. I gave her morphine yesterday because she was having a coughing fit and was in pain. The morphine stoped the coughing and she slept all day. But today I don’t want to give her drugs so she is alert enough to try swallowing baby food. I’m not giving up. She’s been through hell but I don’t feel right about cutting her off food and water and just doping her on morphine to die. Maybe God will give us a miracle.

Im sorry this is happening bro and its a lot to go through. I wish you and your mom the best.

 

[A50#]

Sorry to be MIA, guys! Thank you for checking on me. I’ve been in the hospital ICU daily for 5 weeks. My mom has pneumonia in both lungs, one lung collapsed, she has a softball sized tumor in one lung and doctors can’t figure out what it is but it tested negative for cancer. Her kidneys failed. Lots of issues. Her flapper valve in her throat can’t get food or water down without it going into her lungs. She pulled her gastrointestinal feeding tube out Friday night when I was with her. I dozed off and she yanked it out. Doctors tried everything and gave up so we brought her home two days ago on hospice but this morning I got her to swallow a bunch of ice chips so I’m going to see if she can get tiny, tiny bits of baby food down the right pipe. I gave her morphine yesterday because she was having a coughing fit and was in pain. The morphine stoped the coughing and she slept all day. But today I don’t want to give her drugs so she is alert enough to try swallowing baby food. I’m not giving up. She’s been through hell but I don’t feel right about cutting her off food and water and just doping her on morphine to die. Maybe God will give us a miracle.

Prayers sent out to your Mother

 

[johnjuanb1]

Thank you everyone! Something so weird just happened. My neon lights in my room turned on by themselves and were flashing and the color changed to red. I haven’t turned them on in a month and never on red, only light blue because it’s peaceful. I just ran upstairs to see if my mom was alive. I need to see if my grandma is ok. My mom is asleep but breathing.

 

[thethinker48]

Prayers go out to you and your mom! You're a very good son with how much you've been on her side.

 

[kastro]

Sorry to be MIA, guys! Thank you for checking on me. I’ve been in the hospital ICU daily for 5 weeks. My mom has pneumonia in both lungs, one lung collapsed, she has a softball sized tumor in one lung and doctors can’t figure out what it is but it tested negative for cancer. Her kidneys failed. Lots of issues. Her flapper valve in her throat can’t get food or water down without it going into her lungs. She pulled her gastrointestinal feeding tube out Friday night when I was with her. I dozed off and she yanked it out. Doctors tried everything and gave up so we brought her home two days ago on hospice but this morning I got her to swallow a bunch of ice chips so I’m going to see if she can get tiny, tiny bits of baby food down the right pipe. I gave her morphine yesterday because she was having a coughing fit and was in pain. The morphine stoped the coughing and she slept all day. But today I don’t want to give her drugs so she is alert enough to try swallowing baby food. I’m not giving up. She’s been through hell but I don’t feel right about cutting her off food and water and just doping her on morphine to die. Maybe God will give us a miracle.

Prayers for you and your family bro

 

[qbkilla]

Hoping for the best and with your support she can overcome this

 

[slesh]

Sorry to be MIA, guys! Thank you for checking on me. I’ve been in the hospital ICU daily for 5 weeks. My mom has pneumonia in both lungs, one lung collapsed, she has a softball sized tumor in one lung and doctors can’t figure out what it is but it tested negative for cancer. Her kidneys failed. Lots of issues. Her flapper valve in her throat can’t get food or water down without it going into her lungs. She pulled her gastrointestinal feeding tube out Friday night when I was with her. I dozed off and she yanked it out. Doctors tried everything and gave up so we brought her home two days ago on hospice but this morning I got her to swallow a bunch of ice chips so I’m going to see if she can get tiny, tiny bits of baby food down the right pipe. I gave her morphine yesterday because she was having a coughing fit and was in pain. The morphine stoped the coughing and she slept all day. But today I don’t want to give her drugs so she is alert enough to try swallowing baby food. I’m not giving up. She’s been through hell but I don’t feel right about cutting her off food and water and just doping her on morphine to die. Maybe God will give us a miracle.

Wishing you and your family the best

 

[Alan1]

Really sorry to hear this, @johnjuanb1, but it's great you're able to be there with her. Stay strong and my thoughts and prayers are with you!

 

[Nyoco]

Lots of love to your mother and yourself jjb1, the fact you´re fighting and not giving up says a lot about you.

 

[danieltx]

Sorry to be MIA, guys! Thank you for checking on me. I’ve been in the hospital ICU daily for 5 weeks. My mom has pneumonia in both lungs, one lung collapsed, she has a softball sized tumor in one lung and doctors can’t figure out what it is but it tested negative for cancer. Her kidneys failed. Lots of issues. Her flapper valve in her throat can’t get food or water down without it going into her lungs. She pulled her gastrointestinal feeding tube out Friday night when I was with her. I dozed off and she yanked it out. Doctors tried everything and gave up so we brought her home two days ago on hospice but this morning I got her to swallow a bunch of ice chips so I’m going to see if she can get tiny, tiny bits of baby food down the right pipe. I gave her morphine yesterday because she was having a coughing fit and was in pain. The morphine stoped the coughing and she slept all day. But today I don’t want to give her drugs so she is alert enough to try swallowing baby food. I’m not giving up. She’s been through hell but I don’t feel right about cutting her off food and water and just doping her on morphine to die. Maybe God will give us a miracle.

I really feel for you - I had to do some caring for my mom when she was dying from cancer so I know what it's like. I'm sure it's traumatizing to see he like this - take solace in knowing that eventually you'll just think of the good memories with her, none of this mess.

 

[UnholyAlliance]

Sorry to be MIA, guys! Thank you for checking on me. I’ve been in the hospital ICU daily for 5 weeks. My mom has pneumonia in both lungs, one lung collapsed, she has a softball sized tumor in one lung and doctors can’t figure out what it is but it tested negative for cancer. Her kidneys failed. Lots of issues. Her flapper valve in her throat can’t get food or water down without it going into her lungs. She pulled her gastrointestinal feeding tube out Friday night when I was with her. I dozed off and she yanked it out. Doctors tried everything and gave up so we brought her home two days ago on hospice but this morning I got her to swallow a bunch of ice chips so I’m going to see if she can get tiny, tiny bits of baby food down the right pipe. I gave her morphine yesterday because she was having a coughing fit and was in pain. The morphine stoped the coughing and she slept all day. But today I don’t want to give her drugs so she is alert enough to try swallowing baby food. I’m not giving up. She’s been through hell but I don’t feel right about cutting her off food and water and just doping her on morphine to die. Maybe God will give us a miracle.

Sorry to hear this about your beloved mom, and my prayers for a miracle for her!!! You been a great son to her and I am sure she knows that. Hang in there man!

 

[Cuda71]

Wishing your mom the best

 

[kalleb]

Pulling for you. Hope things turn out for the best.

 

[Gizmo]

Wishing you and your mom the best bro.

 

[pistonpump]

Sending you love and strength. The best thing u can do is be there for her. It's mother's day and I lost my mom to bone cancer a month ago. I wish I had more time. I don't feel like it was her time but shit happens that we can't control. For anyone reading this, please let your mom know how much u love and appreciate them.

 

[UnholyAlliance]

Sending you love and strength. The best thing u can do is be there for her. It's mother's day and I lost my mom to bone cancer a month ago. I wish I had more time. I don't feel like it was her time but shit happens that we can't control. For anyone reading this, please let your mom know how much u love and appreciate them.

Sorry for your loss man and your mom should be smiling down on you today!

 

[Love_to_Bodybuild]

Sorry to be MIA, guys! Thank you for checking on me. I’ve been in the hospital ICU daily for 5 weeks. My mom has pneumonia in both lungs, one lung collapsed, she has a softball sized tumor in one lung and doctors can’t figure out what it is but it tested negative for cancer. Her kidneys failed. Lots of issues. Her flapper valve in her throat can’t get food or water down without it going into her lungs. She pulled her gastrointestinal feeding tube out Friday night when I was with her. I dozed off and she yanked it out. Doctors tried everything and gave up so we brought her home two days ago on hospice but this morning I got her to swallow a bunch of ice chips so I’m going to see if she can get tiny, tiny bits of baby food down the right pipe. I gave her morphine yesterday because she was having a coughing fit and was in pain. The morphine stoped the coughing and she slept all day. But today I don’t want to give her drugs so she is alert enough to try swallowing baby food. I’m not giving up. She’s been through hell but I don’t feel right about cutting her off food and water and just doping her on morphine to die. Maybe God will give us a miracle.

Sorry to hear about Mom and hospice. God is with you and your mom. I know its difficult , if she does pass bc all our bodies will at some time, the Dow, God, the source, whatever you wanna call it, the thing inside all of us that causes us to decide things, and when we pass it goes out of the body, is in everything. Its always with you, friend, and shell always be with you, since we are all a part of it. Love the positive attitude.

 

[Ranchhand]

I know taking care of your mother has captivated your life for a little while now. You've been by her side the whole time, that in itself has to be comforting to her. The love between you two has to go extremely deep, that in itself has to bring a level of peace. Prayers go out to you and your mom!

 

[Cito33189]

Sending positive energy to you JJ