BigA, Phil

[Kaiser]

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[Moen]

Although I agree with you on the Phil can say anything he wants without being flamed or worse, that's true and Phil knows that himself too probably.

BUT I rarely see Phil saying something that is not correct and most of the time his opinion is also my opinion (and probably lots of others too for that matter).

But you have to see these things in the right context, it's HIS opinion, just like there are 100 other opinions out there. He says what he thinks (so do I) and I think even you yourself like that much more than people who just pretend or whatever.
Besides there are a lot more people who like the pics of your wife than there are who don't so it's really nog big deal imo

 

[thebrick]

I agree. If you ask 2,000 people the same question, you will get 2,000 different opinions. Take it as only one opinion. There are almost 7 billion other people out there with as many answers. I enjoyed the pics. Your wife is very beautiful. I thought they were tastfully done. If you have consenting adults wanting to post personal pics, I see nothing wrong with that and that is their choice. But if you have someone posting sensitive photos of someone else without their OK, now that's something else completely. Personally I choose not to. The internet is too crazy and accessible by anybody.

 

[rAJJIN]

No comment on this one.
I give my opinion in the other thread. goodluck to both of you and I hope you guys get it worked out....

 

[PHIL HERNON]

I feel bad for you both

I also hope you can get this resolved in your minds, whatever it is that torments you both so much about my comments/opinion directed at someone else. A little advice if you will let me. You dont know who is behind the computer screen, so dont go calling people on here family until you meet up with or talk to on the phone. There are some great people on here and some maybe not so great. Maybe this forum is not for you, maybe it is. Whatever the case, I would take a few days off from it and just spend time with your wife doing things you both like to do.

 

[draven]

wow...

I agree with Phil.....this is not "bro's", family etc ...until you meet and know what is behind a cool screen name or avatar.....everyone gets caught up in this we are all family ...bullshit ....would be nice but there are cops on here anon, we all know that and multiple popular guys over years that ran with "bro's" money. We should all keep that in perspective. Whatever gets posted here besides help in attaining a good physique, or a guy that really needs some help, other than that ....Who would let posts affect their lives?

 

[pumpputnam]

I find this overly dramatic... this board is probably one of the "all around" best boards... is this necesary? If you really have an issue with someone take it straight to them or ignore them.

 

[tenny]

I have to agree with Phil on this also, but most of the time i disagree......i also agree with putnum.........way too dramatic

 

[bigbaldbulldog]

No comment on this one.
I give my opinion in the other thread. goodluck to both of you and I hope you guys get it worked out....

Ditto...

 

[Moen]

So whats up guys, someone going to agree with me too or is Kaiser right about Phil's higher ranking ? HEHE (just joking guys, no pun intended whatsoever )

 

[PassionateBB]

For what it's worth, from a female and a new person here:

Internet people are not your family. Until you meet them in person, spend some time with them, feel like you want to take them home for dinner, let them spend the night and trust them implicitly, they are still just people sitting at a computer.

Not everyone wants to see naked pics of someone's spouse, girlfriend, date, whatever. IMO, it's just alitte too personal. I don't get it. But that's me. No matter how tastefully done, it's still someone's significant other.

The girls who pose for pics and dance around on the vids cannot expect that stuff to not be floating around on the internet. While most of it is made for paying member sections of websites, it doesn't mean a darn thing. People join the sites, copy the material and spread it around. (No pun intended. ) As the saying goes, if you can't stand the heat, get out of the kitchen. Or even smarter, don't make the damn things. But if you do, don't complain about it showing up all over the net.

I never got that Phil was referring to anyone or anything but that.

And I have to say this. When I asked to be removed from that contest, you posted the pics up of your beautiful wife, Kaiser. Did you stop to think how the other contestant might feel? Was she suppose to now put up naked pics of herself? What if that isn't her style? That just seemed very wrong to me.

It's hard sometimes not to take written words on a forum to heart. Believe me, I know. I have been hurt deeply by internet convos. But sometimes we have to back away, take a few deep breaths and regroup. Life is very short. Trying to find validation on the net is pointless. And some things are better left unsaid.

My two cents.

PBB

 

[T-MUSCLE]

for a young lady

For what it's worth, from a female and a new person here:

Internet people are not your family. Until you meet them in person, spend some time with them, feel like you want to take them home for dinner, let them spend the night and trust them implicitly, they are still just people sitting at a computer.

Not everyone wants to see naked pics of someone's spouse, girlfriend, date, whatever. IMO, it's just alitte too personal. I don't get it. But that's me. No matter how tastefully done, it's still someone's significant other.

The girls who pose for pics and dance around on the vids cannot expect that stuff to not be floating around on the internet. While most of it is made for paying member sections of websites, it doesn't mean a darn thing. People join the sites, copy the material and spread it around. (No pun intended. ) As the saying goes, if you can't stand the heat, get out of the kitchen. Or even smarter, don't make the damn things. But if you do, don't complain about it showing up all over the net.

I never got that Phil was referring to anyone or anything but that.

And I have to say this. When I asked to be removed from that contest, you posted the pics up of your beautiful wife, Kaiser. Did you stop to think how the other contestant might feel? Was she suppose to now put up naked pics of herself? What if that isn't her style? That just seemed very wrong to me.

It's hard sometimes not to take written words on a forum to heart. Believe me, I know. I have been hurt deeply by internet convos. But sometimes we have to back away, take a few deep breaths and regroup. Life is very short. Trying to find validation on the net is pointless. And some things are better left unsaid.

My two cents.

PBB

u sure smart !

 

[PassionateBB]

no Tom, just old!!! LOL.

 

[Moen]

Old and passionate, mmm, MILF, LOL ::tar-wars

 

[bigbadasian]

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