Called it quits with the GF today

[AWN2004]

Been on the ropes for a while but its official....done. Anit Valentines day great? To be honest Ive been getting ready for this for a while so Im not shocked but it still does hurt. Oh well gotta move on and use this to get myself back up to par in the gym. Thanks guys for listening.

AWN

 

[miketasher]

Split

We have been down that road before. Just remember to part ways and have no hard feelings. If it didnt work then maybe the next one will.

Also, just switched to Maximum Fitness to train. Alot better that LA Fitness. I will stop by later this week.

Good Luck

 

[AWN2004]

Thanks for the phone call today Mike.....even the little stuff like means a ton.

 

[JETHRO TULL]

SORRY TO HEAR THAT AWN.

IT SOUNDS LIKE YOU ARE GOING TO BE OKAY WITH IT...AT LEAST THATS THE FEEL I GET FROM READING YOUR POST. STILL, IT BITES ON A SUPPOSED DAY OF SWEETHEARTS. I WISH YOU LUCK IN FINDING YOUR REAL SWEET ONE. I'VE ENJOYED READING YOUR POSTS.

 

[miketasher]

Thanks

No problem. Anytime you want to talk or train just call me. I will see you at the store tomorrow.

 

[Conan21]

Sorry to hear AWN.

what caused this to happen on Valentines Day. of all days?

 

[AWN2004]

Sorry to hear AWN.

what caused this to happen on Valentines Day. of all days?

Its just been a downward spiral after some stuff that happened. Ive been with her for over a year now. It does hurt man....anyone that says it does not has never really loved someone. I just know in my heart this is the best thing though. We are still friends but its hard sometimes to talk to someone and wished certain events would have played out differently. I tend to have an exterior that will not allow me to show that Im upset. I am, however, blessed to have a great group of friends that have my back and understand what Im dealing with. Ill be fine...it just takes time. One of my heros was Dan Gable and in all my years wrestling Ive learned to overcome adversity and make a negative a positive. In the long run we will both be happier doing our own thing. I still love her but at the same time know this is the best possible thing. Thanks for listening and responding guys....it means a ton.

 

[Conan21]

sorry to that bro

yea, i know what the feeling is like. it is rough. although i didn't have the strong willed attitude you are showing when it happened to me. I think you will be able to bounce back fairly quick by how you speak. only advice i could give you is to not play the "what if i would have done this different" games in you head. you'll drive yourself crazy. i'm sure she was a part of the problem as well.

 

[Iabadman]

Awn ..............I am sorry that this happened , but like you said it will be for the best in the long run [ trust your instincts .......dont go back ] i have always been greatful of the kindness that you have always extended to me and want you to know that it ment alot to me .[ I am here for you as well .....i mean that ......that is how i work....K ? ] It is going to be a transition , but you will be fine .......And any guy that can quote the great Dan Gable is more than going to be fine IMO .....lol

 

[xcelbeyond]

Don't dwell on the past, remember the good times - your future is bright my friend!