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Dedicated? or Obsessed?

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ADDICTED TO WORKING OUT?

by Ron Harris ronharrisMUSCLE.com :: The Daily PUMP

How many of you have been accused of being 'obsessed' with working out, or 'addicted' to training? I would bet it's an accusation that's been leveled at many of you, usually from family, friends, or co-workers who don't exercise.

And of course, our natural reaction is to feel defensive and immediately think, "they're just saying that because they are jealous or lazy. They wish they had my dedication and discipline so they too could have an exceptional body." That's usually a pretty accurate assessment of the motivations behind these comments and snide remarks we all get. I'm sure a lot of you are familiar with this quote:

"Obsessed is a word the lazy use to describe the dedicated."

I mention that a few times in my book, because there is a lot of truth in it. But if we are to truly step back a little from ourselves and attempt to look at the situation with complete objectivity, I would venture to say that a lot of us are indeed obsessed. Or, to be fair, many of us are addicted to varying degrees to working out. It's a tough thing to own up to, take it from me. But ask yourself a few questions:

-Do you plan, to the best of your ability, your work and family commitments around your workouts and meals?

-Do you run over previous workouts in your mind, and mentally plan your next workout in advance?

-Do you train even when you're sick, or starting to feel sick?

-Do you have anxiety if you take 'off days' of no weight or cardio at all?
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When you're going anywhere, even somewhere like an amusement park, do you stress over how you will get all your scheduled meals in?

-Do you get upset if an unexpected work or family commitment delays a workout, or worse, causes you to miss your workout entirely?

-Do you go train even when you're exhausted, or you're supposed to be getting something important done at home, with your studies, or at work?

This is just a small list I came up with off the top of my head, and you can probably guess that I answered yes to most of those questions. Here's where we come to the quandary. Planning and putting a lot of thought into your training and nutrition is really one of the major factors that separates the average gym member with an average body from those whose physiques clearly demonstrate their devotion. But when does that devotion become unhealthy?

Obviously I am not a psychologist, though I do read up on the subject quite a bit. I would submit that the bodybuilding and fitness lifestyle crosses the line when it starts to negatively affect your personal relationships, your health, or your livelihood.

Macro's note: this is typically one of the criteria used in determining disorders

If you skip family get-togethers to train when you could easily train some other time, that's not good. If you take large amounts of dangerous drugs and ignore the risks you are taking because looking good is more important to you, you've gone too far. And if you quit your job because it interferes with your workouts and meals, you have stepped over the line.

I have a cold right now, and last night I was coughing. Not a big deal. But I slept terribly and woke up exhausted. I didn't have to train with weights today because I did chest and triceps a day early yesterday, but today would have normally been a cardio day. The Arnold Classic is coming up in five weeks, and I do want to lose some bodyfat by then. But I fought the urge to go to the gym today, because I knew this minor ailment I have now could get worse, or at least take longer to pass, if I didn't let my body rest and allow my immune system to do its job without taxing it further. I really, really wanted to go do cardio this morning - but I knew it was a bad idea. In the past, I would have gone. I would have done whatever I was supposed to do, even something so physically demanding as training legs. And I usually got sicker, sometimes to the point where I was forced to take a few days off from the gym because I was so weak and tired.

The point I'm getting at is that as bodybuilders, we have to walk a very fine line between doing as much as we must to reach our physique goals, and doing too much. Our dedication to a healthy lifestyle can become unhealthy if we're not careful. So please, take a good, honest look at how you manage your own workouts and meals. You should make them a priority, but not if doing so compromises the quality of your life. And yes, there is a whole big part of your life, ALL of our lives, outside of bodybuilding!
 
Interesting article. Some of the bullet points do sit at home with me, especially the one about having anxiety if take 'off days'. Always thinking maybe should go just to do some cardio.
 
I answered yes to every question, some to a lesser degree than others.

When you're going anywhere, even somewhere like an amusement park, do you stress over how you will get all your scheduled meals in?

Thats the question that had me saying YES!... I honestly have had dreams (I sadly should be calling them nightmares) where I have been stuck somewhere freaking out because I couldn't eat for 5-6 hours.. pretty sure that puts me in the obsessed column.
 
definitely hits home. not to worried on eating that's easy enough. but training. never missed holidays sick or injured i find away.if i miss a day its like someone has poked a pin in me and let there air out.even cardio gives you a pump.I think a big issue with myself is i,m middle aged and did not take very good care of myself for the first 35 years. and i just feel like the clock is running out on me. might be different if i was still in my 20s.i wish i had the wisdom then that i have now.
 
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Great post. I was guilty of just about every one of the points that Ron made. Now after my heart attack I dont worry about any of that shit. I was forced to turn away, but if I had never had the heart attack I know id still be right in there doing all of the same old behavior.
Whenever I went on a vacation to Florida or wherever, the first thing I would do when I got into town was pop open the yellow pages and find a good gym to lift at. I couldnt allow myself to take just 1 week vacation, it would eat me alive inside. So I would end up leaving my wife back at the hotel all alone and Id go lift. Its a miracle she didnt cheat on my ass, but shes a good woman. Im glad she has stood by me for 16 years now. I believe our marriage is stronger now that Im not addicted to the bodybuilding lifestyle.
Again its all about balance. Someone on here made a post about what is your favorite beer. A lot of us chimed in with our opinions, but one guy chastized us for even considering to bring up that topic on a bodybuilding board. He felt it had no place on here. Thats just one example of how not to be. Its ok to have a drink every once and awhile, its ok to take a 1 week vacation where you eat like shit and dont lift, its ok not to lift when youre sick or run down, etc. You have to have balance.
 
Great post. I was guilty of just about every one of the points that Ron made. Now after my heart attack I dont worry about any of that shit. I was forced to turn away, but if I had never had the heart attack I know id still be right in there doing all of the same old behavior.
Whenever I went on a vacation to Florida or wherever, the first thing I would do when I got into town was pop open the yellow pages and find a good gym to lift at. I couldnt allow myself to take just 1 week vacation, it would eat me alive inside. So I would end up leaving my wife back at the hotel all alone and Id go lift. Its a miracle she didnt cheat on my ass, but shes a good woman. Im glad she has stood by me for 16 years now. I believe our marriage is stronger now that Im not addicted to the bodybuilding lifestyle.
Again its all about balance. Someone on here made a post about what is your favorite beer. A lot of us chimed in with our opinions, but one guy chastized us for even considering to bring up that topic on a bodybuilding board. He felt it had no place on here. Thats just one example of how not to be. Its ok to have a drink every once and awhile, its ok to take a 1 week vacation where you eat like shit and dont lift, its ok not to lift when youre sick or run down, etc. You have to have balance.
You are continually inspiring me with your wisdom.
 
You are continually inspiring me with your wisdom.

Well, I wasnt so wise just a couple of years ago. I learned things the hard way and its my hope now that I can share with others what life taught me. Its funny, all along the way when I was carrying out those obsessive acts there was a part inside me that kept telling me I was wrong. Problem is I chose not to listen to that voice, I ignored it and called it weakness.
 
Well, I wasnt so wise just a couple of years ago. I learned things the hard way and its my hope now that I can share with others what life taught me. Its funny, all along the way when I was carrying out those obsessive acts there was a part inside me that kept telling me I was wrong. Problem is I chose not to listen to that voice, I ignored it and called it weakness.

Truly, your a great member here on PM.
 
Truly, your a great member here on PM.

I went through a lot of hardship, denied myself some pleasures in life that I shouldnt have. I have faced death 2x now, and looking back I see almost all of it as being unnessary and avoidable. It is my wish that at least a few people hear my words and possibly change how they are living their life. I'm glad that some members appreciate the time I spend on here. Sometimes I worry that I sound too antisteroid/bodybuilding, but I always try to provide insight that is unbiased.
 

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