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Delayed Ejaculation

hugostiglitz87

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So long story short I cant remember when this started but I'm 31 years old on TRT. My last relationship after 4 years suffered when it came to finishing (Cumming) in my partner. She dealt with it for 4 years. But now that I'm single I'm starting to see problems were I have a really hard finishing in bed with random girls.

This has been a problem I haven't taken seriously but what can I do now to fix it? Could it be I watched to much porn and masterbated to much that my penis got use to my hand in my twentys?

Serious responses please I would like to fix this problem asap.

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Are you on an antidepressant?
 

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Yes, I think that you need to make sure that you don't ejaculate unless you are with a lady. Masturbating too much will raise your tolerance to stimulation to the point that it can be hard to achieve climax having regular intercourse. I think a good case of "blue balls" is what you need. If you go a good while without ejaculating you will find it much easier to achieve what you want to.

Another factor could be your mental state while having sex, maybe you aren't aroused enough for some reason. Lots of foreplay can help there I think. Don't just jump right in. Your lady friend will like that a lot more too.


I also see you say "random girls". Maybe you really aren't that attracted to these girls. Even men need to some emotional attractedness to their mate.
 
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Are you on an antidepressant?
I use to be when I was younger but been off now for years now. Only thing I take is ambien for nites I can't sleep and my adderall xr for work and class... And TRT from my Endo only things I really plus all my vitamins.

Just trying to figure this problem out cause its been going on for a long time now.

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Yes, I think that you need to make sure that you don't ejaculate unless you are with a lady. Masturbating too much will raise your tolerance to stimulation to the point that it can be hard to achieve climax having regular intercourse. I think a good case of "blue balls" is what you need. If you go a good while without ejaculating you will find it much easier to achieve what you want to.

Another factor could be your mental state while having sex, maybe you aren't aroused enough for some reason. Lots of foreplay can help there I think. Don't just jump right in. Your lady friend will like that a lot more too.
Solid advice my friend I'll give this a try. The girl Im messing around with right now makes it a point to get me to finish and I feel bad cause she puts in a lot effort into making me finish.

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Solid advice my friend I'll give this a try. The girl Im messing around with right now makes it a point to get me to finish and I feel bad cause she puts in a lot effort into making me finish.

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I added to my post later on that I read that you say it is "random girls". Maybe you don't have enough emotional attraction to them. I know I had that issue some in college. The girls that I dated and knew well though I had no problems with. Being emotionally attracted to a lady is important too.
 

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I just got out of a 4 year reatlionship and still had this problem with my ex. Not sure if its mental or not I'm definelty into the girl I've been messing around with only been a month we been talking and having sex.

And I've been messing around witj some other girls since my break up. ( randoms)


I don't know what the problem is but I'm definitely gonna try and fix it. Maybe I masterbasted to much when I was younger and my penis got use to that sensation from my hand.

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The more you stress about this the more trouble you'll have with it - the mind has incredible power over the body.
 

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EQ does this to me
 

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I just got out of a 4 year reatlionship and still had this problem with my ex. Not sure if its mental or not I'm definelty into the girl I've been messing around with only been a month we been talking and having sex.

And I've been messing around witj some other girls since my break up. ( randoms)


I don't know what the problem is but I'm definitely gonna try and fix it. Maybe I masterbasted to much when I was younger and my penis got use to that sensation from my hand.

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Perhaps you're dealing with a lack of sensitivity in your penis, which could also happen from you rubbing one out too much. A common side effect of some anti-depressants is that they make it difficult to achieve orgasm. I know you said you havent taken them in a while but maybe that is an effect that is still lingering? Have you spoken with a doctor at all about it? So no issues maintaining or achieving an erection? Just finishing?
 

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No issues getting or maintining. But I haven't had a Dr to talk to yet about this.

I always thought it was a sensitivity issue down there when she gives me head its super sensitive.

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No issues getting or maintining. But I haven't had a Dr to talk to yet about this.

I always thought it was a sensitivity issue down there when she gives me head its super sensitive.

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Well, at least youre not a minute man! I have had the problem before though like you describe, lasting 45 minutes or more, and after awhile even I wanted it to be over! In my case it just kind of went away on its own, never lasted that long like your problem has. I guess I was lucky.


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I have the same issue , I last forever. Makes my girl mad sometimes. I notice if I don't do anything for a couple days I get very sensitive and I can finish relatively quick. If I am really in the mood , that mindset helps me finish as well. If I'm just going at it for the 2nd or 3rd time during that day I find my mind isn't really into , just going through the motions trying to make her happy. My mindset seems to affect my finishing.

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I have the same issue , I last forever. Makes my girl mad sometimes. I notice if I don't do anything for a couple days I get very sensitive and I can finish relatively quick. If I am really in the mood , that mindset helps me finish as well. If I'm just going at it for the 2nd or 3rd time during that day I find my mind isn't really into , just going through the motions trying to make her happy. My mindset seems to affect my finishing.

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Exactly brother sorta the same situation.

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Got this occasionally too. Do you still watch porn on the regular?
 

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I have read before that watching too much porn indeed desensitizes you (psychologically) and that fapping with porn is not the best thing to do.

Unfortunately, I love reality porn. Dancingbear especially is the shiznit.
 

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I had the same thing years ago. Simple fix, no porn, no beating off. Wake up with a woody? Cool, but leave it alone. Should resolve your problem in only a week or 2.
 

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I use to be when I was younger but been off now for years now. Only thing I take is ambien for nites I can't sleep and my adderall xr for work and class... And TRT from my Endo only things I really plus all my vitamins.

Just trying to figure this problem out cause its been going on for a long time now.

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If I had to guess its the Ambien or Adderall.
 

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