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I was married for 10 but the last 5 were brutal. She was an attractive girl but after 5 years of dealing with her nasty personality, she became less and less attractive to me. So, the last 5 years of our marriage were loveless and the only thing that kept the ship afloat was the love for my daughter and the constant instant gratification purchases. Maybe this new 57' TV will make me feel better. If I build the perfect man cave then I can have my own space. None of that worked. Temporary fixes and distractions to keep us from realizing how miserable we both were. How's life now? Well, she's exactly the evil ex-wife bitch that I thought she would be. She obstructs me from seeing my daughter and lives in a state where there is very little recourse for her bad behavior. I've already spent big $$$ on lawyers and have yet to reap any benefits. Only you can say if it's over but I will say this.....we're not getting any younger. Hopefully you don't feel like you "deserve" this bad marriage....I felt like I did for many years. Everyone deserves to be happy and if that means being alone and getting comfortable with "self", then so be it.