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- Oct 11, 2005
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Here's my problem, I'll start from the begining. I meet my ex 5yrs ago and everything was great I could not have ever imagined anything better. We were married 4 yrs ago. As the marriage progressed she slowley started taking bits and pieces of me away. But not in any obvious way. First it was "I don't really like this friend", then it was "I don't think your sister likes me", then "I don't like it when you ride your Harley without me because women look at guys on bikes", then "why do you go to the gym? Took look at all the girls". Bit by bit everything that was so great about me when we meet all of the sudden she hated. Before I realized it 2yrs had past and I did nothing but work and sit home unless we were together. But the days I worked nights she felt it was OK for her to go out to the bar.July 2yrs ago at a party we were hosting I started to notice she was paying alot of attention to a friend of hers brother. And the only attention I was getting was " you need to cook more burgers" etc... So I pulled her aside and told her how I felt and she lost it. Well, I ended up moving out 2 weeks later. But we still talked everyday and saw each other about once a week. In Oct. I moved back in. By the end of Nov. I was moving out again. 2 weeks later I drove by the house at 2am and there was another guys truck in the drive way and no lights on. So I called her on the phone and told her what I thought about her. I did not stop or barge in and beat anyones ass as many friends said they would have. Just made sure I got my point across. Well she called the police and had a restraining order signed against me. Which was tossed out by the judge. At that point I figured it was over so I filed for divorce.
I did not hear from or see her until March of this year when she showed up at my door crying, saying she made a big mistake and wanted to work things out. I had bought a new house in the mean time. So me being stupid thought I would give it another try. Well not 2-3weeks later she was right back to going out when I was working. The last straw was one night she had an event to go to for her son and told me she was "stopping by" the bar on the way home for someones birthday. Well by 1am I had not heard from her so I called her cell phone it rang 4 times and went to her voice mail. A minute later I tried again and it went directly to her voicemail, she had turned her phone off. So I left her a message telling her if this is how its gonna be don't bother to come home. She moved out a week later. Luckely I had never dropped the divorce papers and it was final June 1st.
Now to the part that makes her really psyco. Last night I had a police officer show up on my front door with another temporary restraining order. She is claiming that I have been e-mailing and text messaging her in a harassing way. The only time I had e-mailed her was about 2 weeks ago I was going through the files in my e-mail account and found some stuff that I thought she might need for her records so I forwarded them to her. I did not write on them just hit forward and send.
I have recently started to move on with my life and have found really nice girl, I think, LOL, my luck isn't that good. And have not thought or do I care to think about my ex. I do not know if she has found out about that and is trying to cause trouble between me and my new girl or what. Oh,, and by the way she is living with the guy who's truck was in the drive way and has been for a couple of months. I know she has alot of issues, but I am at my wits end and I am not sure what to do.
