Its getting better I think....

[zephyr22]

The ex is out on the town everyweekend. It sucks because ive gone out a few times and she is there with some ugly skanks everytime. Im not going to hid though and not go out just because of her. Another thing is killing me is the fact that Im still in the process of saving for a place to live while im staying in a buddys basement with my dogs. Its not perfect but better than being in the same house as the ex. Now she wants to do a short sale of the house we bought together. This really pisses me off. It hasnt even had time to sell what the heck. She is just a petty, vindictive bitch and wants more money to buy clothes, plastic surgery etc. She is just trying to wreck me anyway she can. I dont understand this. My new thing is never trust people with your heart or money. Im still bummed about all this stuff but hey it could be worse. Once I get my own place etc....it will be better I think. At least I hope.

 

[aeliop]

The ex is out on the town everyweekend. It sucks because ive gone out a few times and she is there with some ugly skanks everytime. Im not going to hid though and not go out just because of her. Another thing is killing me is the fact that Im still in the process of saving for a place to live while im staying in a buddys basement with my dogs. Its not perfect but better than being in the same house as the ex. Now she wants to do a short sale of the house we bought together. This really pisses me off. It hasnt even had time to sell what the heck. She is just a petty, vindictive bitch and wants more money to buy clothes, plastic surgery etc. She is just trying to wreck me anyway she can. I dont understand this. My new thing is never trust people with your heart or money. Im still bummed about all this stuff but hey it could be worse. Once I get my own place etc....it will be better I think. At least I hope.

I don't usually post on things like this but this time will be an exception. I am assuming you don't have any kids correct? If this is your true feelings about this person and you really hate this person the way you describe her be glad she does a short sale and does whatever with both of your funds. If these are your true feelings then losing savings, equity, is a small price to pay to have this person out of your life forever.

 

[zephyr22]

Kinda what I was thinking....

I think this scenario is going to ruin my credit regardless so to hell with it I guess. I wouldnt say I hate her. I just truly never knew who the hell she was I guess. It is sometimes crazy how life is. Ill never understand it. Oh well gotta move on. I was just wondering if anyone ever dealt with a short sale etc...If it was good or bad idea. Thanks.

 

[zephyr22]

No children but She has a son....

I consider him my son. Ive raised him from 4yrs old. He is now 15yrs old. That is the hard part. I love him. However I cant spend as much time right now as Id like too because of my living situation and the distance from where im living and my finances are shot right now. I keep getting the line that "your only around when its convienant for you" from the ex. Ive also stated to her that it would be great if she didnt come home trashed all the time in front of her son as this is a big deal right now as he is easily influenced at this point in his life. I know because Im from a single parent family. My father passed away in a car accident when i was 6yrs old. So I know what its like to see my mother act goofy, partieng it up. Not good to see that stuff. Then she came at me with "I dont need your advice, im here with him 99.5% of the time". I didnt argue that point but it is her child???? WTF. I just appolagized for coming of rude but I care a lot about my boys feelings. I could give a shit what she does but not in front of the boy. Like I said people suck sometimes. Maybe I come off condesending to her but she knows im right and that is why she is defensive and starts to attack me. Oh well what to do. I never talk to her on the phone etc....This was all done through texts. I really have no reason to talk to her.

 

[Pekkerwood]

Zephyr:

A short sale will not:

1) Typically put money in her pocket. Most short sales will have a clause prohibiting the seller from taking any money.

2) Not necessarily hurt your credit. Not paying the monthly note will hurt but a short sale with no right of recovery on the lenders part should not hurt you. Be aware that some lenders will issue a 1099 for your "gain". This was supposed to be done away with but some lenders still do it.

Good Luck and I'll be happy to answer any of your real estate related questions.