Lasting longer in bed....

[Gandolfo]

as said above the painkiller route, if you have them legally, will make you a rockstar in the sack. i used to hammer out well over an hour. i once had a 3some that went for 2 hrs before i blew it on them both. that was the performance of a lifetime.

another thing you can do. about 2-3hrs before you are going to have sex knock one out on your own. it will diminish the huge buildup and help you go longer before needing to blow it. it can easily triple your time if not more. plus, i dont know about you but my second bust is usually stronger than my first anyway so its a win-win.

and then the final thing you can do which works almost all the time as well. the problem you have is the feeling being too much. so go get some anal-ease. it has a slight bit of lidocaine in it. rub that around the head and tip area. that will numb you up nice. you will still feel it but the feeling wont be as unbearably hard to resist.

good luck

Well said Taz, and there is nothing beter IMO, than feeling like a rock star :headbang:

 

[djdizzy]

Once I have been with a woman multiple times this problem diminishes. On the other hand it is worse and I have the least control with a new woman. In the past my solution has been opiates, a few Vicodin or Percocet or even Tramadrol ( all with legit scripts of course) and I was ready for the olympics of sex. Others have suggested certain anti- anxiety/depression meds. I know people swear by various exercises etc, but not to prolong the discussion I am now banking on the new PE drug Priligy. Ordered from a board sponsor it should be here today and it just so happens I've been working this new chick so that I am hopeful to take it for a test drive soon. I will report back thereafter. Until then think of baseball.

DRUGS ARE NEVER THE ANSWER. HOWEVER, THEY JUST MAY BE THE SOLUTION.

I'd also like to know which sponsor if that's allowed.

I found this about getting it thru a Doc in the US

At present, there is only one drug that has been licensed specifically for the treatment of PE.
– PRILIGYTM (dapoxetine) is a pill that you swallow 1-3 hours before sexual intercourse and studies with over 6,000 men with PE have shown that it is well tolerated17.
– Although it is licensed in some countries, PRILIGYTM isn't available for purchase yet. You should be cautious about any offers to purchase PRILIGYTM from sources such as the internet because you may be receiving an illegal imitation product that could present a significant risk to your health.

 

[TNH]

I am not picking on anyone individual here but man do you hear yourselves.

For you guys to lift weights you have to take drugs. Now your telling me just to have sex you guys have to take drugs? It doesn't say much for the bodybuilding culture does it? Guys are using pain killers, viagra, and whatever else just to get it on. Kind of feeds all of the sterio types about bodybuilding and those that partake in it.

Whatever happened to sensual massages for your partner? Foreplay? Gazing into each others eyes while interlocking hands and fingers?

Makes me kind of sad as an old bodybuilder handing the keys to this next generation.

I don't want to derail the thread, but I have been guilty of this to the point that it is interfering with living a normal life. Since discovering steroids at way too young of an age, I have become a person that uses drugs for everything.

As you said, many of us won't/don't want to lift without drugs.... guilty.
I soon found myself taking something to get to sleep, then taking something to wake up, then taking something for anxiety, and on and on.

It's almost as if whenever a new task presents itself, the first place my mind goes is...... what drug/supplement do I take for this?

Sad. I need to re evaluate things.

When I first opened this thread, the first thing that popped into my mind was vicodin and cialis. It works, but damn if it isn't yet another drug combo to do another thing that is supposed to just be natural.

 

[GeNeTiKFiGhTR]

I've actually been able to master lasting as long as I want to by thinking of something else while having sex. Paying bills, school, what cycle to do next ect. Then when I'm ready to cum after she has of course I get back into it and wallah.

 

[Ataraxia]

Dapoxetine

This works, MP carries it! I have tried it! Thank god it is available in caps now, as a liquid oral it was the worst thing i've ever tasted!
It works...

 

[PitbullTank]

if its a new girl...cialis...fuck it bro, if u gotta bust even if its quick just do it.... then go right back in and take her to POUNDTOWN....bust...and do it again every few hours..after a nite and day with you, that girl will be trying to lock herself in a closet bc shes soo sore and texting all her friends how you just crushed her 5x and for hoursss since the previous night...hahahaha....sometimes you wont be able to bust again after the 1st time if you go right back in, especially after a few drinks, but you will be able to destroy her with your baseball bat hard dick and finish her over n over...them shits work for like a whole fckn weekend too, pretty rediculous...lmaooo, i really like this drug...

 

[djdizzy]

This works, MP carries it! I have tried it! Thank god it is available in caps now, as a liquid oral it was the worst thing i've ever tasted!
It works...

Thanks, found it. What's the dose, just 1?

 

[Elvia1023]

I also agree with a about the way people automatically think of drugs. This is simply a mental block. It's very common for men with new gf's. You want to please. You are anxious and well it has been some time too so your not used to it! The masturbation comment is also true and can cause issues in men who are single for long periods. Men will automatically make things much worst mentally. If it happens it plays on your mind and it will happen again and again.

The key is communication. Just let her know that you just find her so hot and you want to please her so your getting over excited. That you will be fine soon etc. Many women can't even reach orgasm through intercourse (unless stimulated during sex too). Sure you want to last long and have her in all the positions you fantasize about and not have to worry about anything.

But you can pleasure her in many ways. Direct clit stimulation is key. The key is to take time on her and just be concerned with her pleasure and you will be good to go. Once you get comfortable over time you will be fine. Nothing will be more confidence boosting that making her go crazy when your down on her (tongue, hands or both ).

Don't be down on yourself as that will translate to her. Cialis and viagra are good but may even make things worst as you have improved blood flow and well more turned on. You don't need drugs. SSRI's were mentioned but you only use them if you have depression or anxiety... but yes they will make it harder to cum.

Take control and realize your fine and just have fun with her.

 

[Big Nelis]

give here some head
then she will give you some head
cum in ht mouth
say
damn you made me so fucking
horny i came in your mouth
then keep playing for a few minutes
then bang her forreal you will last

 

[jimmyjones]

Uhm I dont cum in my girlfriends mouth, to me its disrespectful and thats something you do with throw-away ho's , in my opinion.

 

[BigDaddyBone]

Prostate exercises...make your erections harder, shoot your load further, and your orgasms better.

Just think about the muscle that you contract to stop peeing, and start contracting it during the day, when you're just sitting down.

Do it for time, and switch up the pace, building up the duration over time.

Try pulsing it as quick as you can, or squeezing for 5 seconds on/5 seconds off, or just squeezing it as hard as you can for 30 seconds.

At first you'll probably suck at it, but you'll notice improvements in just a couple of days...as your prostate gets stronger you'll be able to control your climax much more during intercourse.

 

[bRIAN617]

I don't think the issue would be you lasting longer. Women are different than men, physically as well as emotionally. Their clit gets very little stimulation from sex. Our penis is basically a giant clit, and we get to put the whole thing in a vagina, and use the vagina to stimulate it how we like until we orgasm. A woman's clitoris is outside the opening and above it. The only stimulation it usually gets is from the lips moving and grabbing on to your dick from friction, which is nonexistent if they are really wet, and your mons pubis hitting it on every thrust, or your balls slapping it if doggy style.

When I was a kid, I snuck into my bro's porn collection. In there he had a paperback called "The Happy Hooker goes to Hollywood." It became my "fucking" bible. being written by a woman about sex, I read from their point of view how self centered men are, how out of touch they are with a woman, and what women like. I learned to have very long foreplay with my girlfriends and now my wife. I learned to play with a clitoris, but not be irritating. Gentleness, teasing, and patience. Any woman teased and played with the right way will get so wet it's like a puddle. Wait until you can get her nipples to start getting hard, and flushing around the neck and upper chest before having sex. I find then, by laying sideways, I can play with her clit, as well as give her some control over the pace, and nature of the intercourse. You'd be surprised how friggin turned on they'll get and how easy it is to make them orgasm. My wife typically has an orgasm every time, in 1 to 4 minutes. If I got her hotter than me, I can usually wait till she's peaked before doing whatever I want. I've been able to do that with every steady girl in my life (I'm 39.... lots of pussy in 23 years). Make a game out of it and practice. Women can't really fake an orgasm. Those nipples and the flushing will tell you... nipples like pencil erasers, and a bright red flush... along with involuntary arching of the back. The toes usually curl too and they may not be able to breath. If you rest your fingers on her clit, you'll actually feel it pulse and jerk like we do when we get off. It's really intense.

 

[BigBadBen]

Aeliop and Elvia1023 have it spot on....my sentiments exactly!

Communication is the key, people feel vulnerable talking about their sexuality, once all the cards are on the table it's amazing what can happen

Lastly it's not about the size of your penis! Mix it up and change the perception...that goes a very long way!

Have lots of fun

Ben

 

[JackBurton]

Uhm I dont cum in my girlfriends mouth, to me its disrespectful and thats something you do with throw-away ho's , in my opinion.

That must make for some messy blowjob endings...

 

[jimmyjones]

Not really, she either catches it on her hand, or a nearby shirt, or sometimes on her titties. Never the face nor the mouth tho homie, I honestly have no fantasies or desire to do that, I am perfectly fine busting elsewhere. Busting in a girls face is what you do to a drunk bitch you met at a random party. This is just my opinion tho, and if your significant other gets turned on by swallowing your load, then more power to her

 

[Big Nelis]

Not really, she either catches it on her hand, or a nearby shirt, or sometimes on her titties. Never the face nor the mouth tho homie, I honestly have no fantasies or desire to do that, I am perfectly fine busting elsewhere. Busting in a girls face is what you do to a drunk bitch you met at a random party. This is just my opinion tho, and if your significant other gets turned on by swallowing your load, then more power to her

diffrent strokes for diffrent folks
just tryin to help bro

 

[Ashop]

Are there simple ways in which to do this?

when i had a regular partner i could last 20-30mins no problem.

Had sex for first time last night in about 2months...didnt use lube either and thought my penis was being choked on it was that tight...and literally lasted a few mins.


Would you say its mentally more than anything?

Like if you mentally told yourself whilst having sex things like;

1. I can last as long as i want
2. My only aim is to please the lady...ie, dont think about your own feelings.

What about breathing...some people say if you breathe deep and slow it can help.

I've tried cialis but that doesnt help much.

Thanks

You could masturbate a few hours before your date.

 

[salemguy321]

I can't help ya. I'm lucky if I can bust in 20min. Usually takes longer....

 

[BENCH400]

At least you're getting some ass man ... I might have to start living vicariously through you, because my wife hasn't been giving it up lately !!! But I guess my come on line of, "Hey baby, you wanna smoke my hog?" needs some polishing.

 

[raw33man]

At least you're getting some ass man ... I might have to start living vicariously through you, because my wife hasn't been giving it up lately !!! But I guess my come on line of, "Hey baby, you wanna smoke my hog?" needs some polishing.

huh the other night my friend was telling me how annoying it is when his wife wants too much sex... he said she got mad when he came home after a leg workout and didn't want to bang her lol

I don't know, that could be annoying too