OT/people that cheat on there bf/gf

MrJuiceHead · Dec 13, 2004

i think its really low class........

thoughts?

MrJuiceHead · Dec 13, 2004

oh BTW we should get an off topic fourm.

G.E.R.M · Dec 13, 2004

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we dont need an o/t area..

and i dont think you are gonna find too many people that disagree with cheating being wrong so why bring it up ?

i mean... whats up, you cant keep any women...

incase you hadent been aware: the world is not fair, most people will screw you if they get the chance(not sexually i mean), and bad people usually get what they deserve in the end..

i dont understand why people attempt to discuss things they cant change and spend no time changing things they can...

j/k

MrJuiceHead · Dec 13, 2004

no have not been screwed......i just dont understand why people lie to people the "love"

BigBoyJ · Dec 13, 2004

They do it because one pussy is good, two or more is better. I have never cheated myself, but the temptation exists. That feeling you get from being with a new woman is very unique. I think it could easily be addictive. From the flirting to the first kiss and on down to the sex, the "firsts" are just plain fun. That's one reason people cheat. Another reason is that they may just be unfulfilled by they're mate. Everything else in the relationship may be blissful, but the sex is lacking, so they get THAT somewhere else. I suppose there's lots of reasons people cheat. I can't say that it's a good thing to do, but I can't judge people that do it. We don't know what someone else's circumstances are.

big_byrd52 · Dec 13, 2004

the sex may be lacking, but if u are married or in a commited relationship, sacrafices are what makes a relationship so special and important. sure the temptation is there, but real love would not allow u to do that to ur mate, regardless of what is going on at home at the time. whether u are in a fight, or she is not giving it up or whatever. thats why so many marriages are failing these days. everybody wants to do what makes them happy, if that is the stage u are at then dont commit urself to someone, its just not fair to either of you.

MrJuiceHead · Dec 13, 2004

^well said.....if you are in a bad relationship than leave or get a divorice. People should put themselfs in other peoples shoes BIGBOY'j ...... so if your wife was not happy with the sex that she got from you its all good for her to go fuck some other guy...? yah i bet

BigBoyJ · Dec 13, 2004

I actually think that maybe the biggest way to avoid the temptation of cheating is by not putting yourself into situations where it would be easy. In other words, if you are at a party while your wife/gf is somewhere else, and this beautiful girl strikes up a conversation and wants a little fun from you, could you really turn it down? I don't know that I could. I don't go into any social situations like this without my fiancee. I do my best to avoid temptation because I believe that everyone has a point at which temptation can overcome morality. If I take away the oppurtunities to cheat, I won't cheat. It may be stupid, but it keeps me faithful.

BigBoyJ · Dec 13, 2004

MrJuiceHead said:
^well said.....if you are in a bad relationship than leave or get a divorice. People should put themselfs in other peoples shoes BIGBOY'j ...... so if your wife was not happy with the sex that she got from you its all good for her to go fuck some other guy...? yah i bet

Settle down, little fella. I said I've never cheated. I'm sure your morality is impecable and you never do anything wrong, but not everyone can be so perfect. I'm just saying don't judge, it isn't your place.