Have been seeing someone I care about. They have been living on savings which are about to run out. I have tried to be supportive and encouraging. I feel like saying our relationship is over until they take some responsibility and find work. I have tried being patient and letting them figure things out but that does not seem to be working. I do not want to give ultimatum. Do not want to lose them. But do not want to wind up financially supporting someone who makes poor decisions. Any suggestions?