To break up or not?

[brother_iron]

plz delete

Please delete guys

 

[Iceman1800]

Do I deal with her getting extremely out of line while intoxicated as a trade off for these two aspects, which happen to be huge in my case, or do I continue looking for something that I very well might never come across again in my life?

hell no! how do you even consider it a relationship if she compares you to her ex? hitting you and throwing stuff at you too? If the main reason is because you think other girls won't like your AAS use, then don't tell them. Build a relationship first then talk to them about the more secret parts of your lifestyle. your current gf may only get drunk a couple times a month but those are her true feelings coming out when she does.

 

[sadie]

jesus christ.. i dont care how nice she is the rest of the time she sounds like a completely evil bitch.. drunk words are sober thoughts.. run for ur life..

 

[xxsuprman22xx]

i dont see what theres to think about. very unhealthy to stay in this relationship.

 

[Dominator Human]

Have you ever tried talking to her about this situation?

If you have and if like most Women she just apologized you need to pack you stuff and go cause she'll never change.

 

[Curiousity]

i dont see what theres to think about. very unhealthy to stay in this relationship.

+1

 

[EVERLAST]

???

YOU HAVE TO ASK?
WTF...DUDE?
WTF.

 

[pumpt73]

hell no! how do you even consider it a relationship if she compares you to her ex? hitting you and throwing stuff at you too? If the main reason is because you think other girls won't like your AAS use, then don't tell them. Build a relationship first then talk to them about the more secret parts of your lifestyle. your current gf may only get drunk a couple times a month but those are her true feelings coming out when she does.

Im with Iceman on this one bro. I don't give a damn what people say. When you're drunk, unless completely obliterrated, know what you are doing and saying. When she brings that ex shit up, I would have kick the broad out of the car, tossed her 50 cents and told her to buy her bitch friends some drinks or a cab ride to a motel.

Bro, get out. You're only 22. You will find someone who appreciates you for you whether she's drunk or sober. I won't even date a female that gets drunk. Just a personal rule of mine. Im sorry bro. Talk to her about it, and give her ass an ultimatum. Put yourself in control of this. Either knock off the stupid shit, or hit the bricks sweetheart. Go back to your ex or find some other guy to put up with her petty shit. No way on Earth I would take any kind of disrespect like that.

 

[brother_iron]

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[pumpt73]

The thing is bro, you don't deserve to be talked to like that, EVER!!!!!! You can get other girls who will treat you much better. There is just no way Id let a female degrade me like that and give some bullshit excuse that she was drunk. Good for you bro. Plenty of clam in the sea.

 

[triathloncoach]

Brother Iron

Being an ex-drunk myself, you don't need that. Life is tough enough to willingly embrace an alcohol abuser.

I guess if her behavior is consistent every time she drank you need to accept those are her feelings. But I don't believe everything that comes out of a drunks mouth is there true feelings.

Bigger Issue - Dude, you are 22. WTF are you doing even thinking about marriage. Slow down, you're 22.

 

[weight]

the part she said you cant fuck her like your ex would had hurt me the most, do you beleive she means that and is telling the truth when shes drunk? id put it in her butt then

 

[brother_iron]

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[pumpt73]

Hey man I don't think I have enough posts to respond to PMs or something along those lines. I hit you back but theres nothing in my sent folder.

If you want PM me your email addy and ill get back to you with the answer to the question.


Once again guys I appreciate it.

No problems bro!!!! Go get you a REAL WOMAN!!!! Not a piece of garbage party girl.

 

[MissyM]

Yet another relationship problem post. To break up or not to break up. This isn’t really the type of thing I can talk to my friends in regards to but I feel desperate for advice as this relationship is extremely important to me so here goes nothing.

We have been together for a little over a year, the first was our anniversary. Very much in love, very rarely argue, living together for 6 months, starting serious talks about marriage, my family loves her and her family is pretty fond of me. She is 25 I am 22. When she is sober we have the perfect relationship. She is extremely beautiful, intelligent, and really does consciously go out of her way in every way she possibly can to make me happy.


The only problem is she completely changes when she is drunk. First off she only goes downtown about 2x per month and I will usually go with her. I don’t drink at all. Its always the same scenario, she will get drunk then while I am driving us back home I am the biggest asshole in the world, didn’t spend enough money on her or buy all of her friends their drinks, can’t f*ck her like her ex, am extremely selfish and so on and so on. Then comes the physical stuff. She will start kicking at my head or trying to bash my head with whatever she can find. I’ve had to get stitches three times now as a result of this a total of 23 stitches. She will usually pass out soon after and I will get her up to the condo. She will wake up, eat, then start throwing stuff and screaming. We have had the police called on us now twice.

The thing is though that’s making this such a hard decision for me is that she is ok with two issues that would be a huge problem for any other woman.


1) My line of work, I work in the private military sector. I work extremely hazardous and you could say aggressive short term contracts. I have come home injured a multitude of times and she has always been there for me and I have no doubt in my mind that she will continue to be there for me. She is ok with my line of work and is ok with any mental issues I have resulting from work.
2) Obviously bodybuilding. I don’t think I will find another girl ok with me injecting HGH 3x per day, insulin 3x per day, and 1-3 grams per week of AAS.

These two things are the biggest parts of my life by far, far more important to me than any relationship could ever be so giving something up for a future relationship is completely out of the question.

Do I deal with her getting extremely out of line while intoxicated as a trade off for these two aspects, which happen to be huge in my case, or do I continue looking for something that I very well might never come across again in my life?

Give it more time.

 

[pumpt73]

Give it more time.

Im hoping this is sarcasm???? NOBODY, male or female should have this kind of garbage to deal with. No way in hell I would let a woman throw stuff at me, talk down to me about an ex, etc. A GOOD woman wouldn't do any of those thing drunk or sober.

Give what more time???? He's given it over a year and this bitch berades him about an ex. Let me ask you, if your boyfriend told you that his ex was 1000 times better than you in bed every other time he was drunk, would you take it???? Would you let him throw something at you??? Would you let him kick you??? Then give it more time to possibly do it again???? NO WAY IN HELL DOES ANYONE DESERVE THAT!!!!

Missy, please, by no means do I mean to come off as a prick, but why would someone allow this crap to happen?

 

[brother_iron]

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[EVERLAST]

good for you.....

Good for you man.

keep us posted on whether she works out for you or not.
Got to find the right one to make it work.

E

 

[klowndog]

You need to shift gears. Like weight said, drop it down in her hiney hole for a change.

 

[brother_iron]

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