What keeps you faithful?

[Gators]

Getting a new wife has helped tremendously, though i didn't cheat on wife 1...

This time i married my 'best friend', much different scenario that 1st marriage... I will say merging 2 families is a bit of challenge

 

[squids30]

Honestly, my fiancee is what keeps me happy. Ive been with a lot of women through my 20,s and teen years, and noone has come close to the caliber she is. She outs up with my crap, she loves me for who i am. And she is always willing to try new things in the bedroom to keep things spiced up. I guess im lucky idk.

I would have to agree with these statments too. As I feel they apply to me as well with my wife. I would also like to add that besides the above I know how it feels to be cheated on and it sucks; so I made a promise to myself that I would never make anyone feel that way. :ort-smi

 

[aphextwin]

You made a mistake and just don't do it again if you truly love your wife. I know most men would kill for some strange, but we are men and we love great looking women.

I'm married myself, but in my opinion it's just not worth fucking up a great thing just bc I want some fresh pussy. In the end, it's all the same, you have sex all the time and when the newness wears off, your bickering over money and other stresses in life.

 

[keepushin770]

i screwed around in like high school and shit but soon decided why even mes with a girlfriend when i can run through them all. i never really cheated in that sense but once i decided i was getting older and wanted to settle in a relationship i was cheated on 6 months into it. hands down worst feeling i have ever felt!! that made me say i would never get involved in another relationship. for the 1st one to crush me made it seem as if relationships werent gonna be my bag. anyway flash forward 2 years and about 30 1 night stands and i meet the girl im with now. i have not 1 issue completely chumping any offers i get from woman off. all i have to do is think about 2 things.
1) how much i love the girl im with and what she brings out of me
and the biggest part 2) how it feels to be the one cheated on and how id never wish that on my worst enemy.
i mean picture ur girl coming home and crawlin in bed with you after some guy just packed her tight in every hole she has and now shes at home kissing you. same goes for her, think if you were a girl would you want ur man ramming his dick in you after it just came outta some girl that has wh knows what disease??

i mean bro i could go on and on. it all comes back to what has already been said. treat others especially your loved ones the way you want to be treated.
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i mean trust me i have some pretty high test levels that complicate things some times but i also have no problem handling it myself if shes not available or i already wore it out for the day. lol

 

[italian007]

I would never cheat. Not saying i havent seen some fine ass women in so cal that give me the "i want your dick in and around my face" look. If i have a rough day i come home and take it out on my chicks vag. It keeps me from cheating and she has a high sex drive (thank god) and has never turned me down. But there have been tempting offers i must admit. But just remember if those girls are that easy then your deff not the first person they offered their stinky vaginas to. So when u see another hot girl do what i do and just pretend they have some sort of std. If shes super hot imagine she has herpes. and if shes astronomically hot image she has herpe-cypha-gonehea and having sex with her will kill you

 

[musclechicfla]

I got myself into a bad situation several years ago. But that is long done.

I'm ready to be flamed here. I deserve it. I have a beautiful wife of 13 years who worships me and two great young kids.

But its tough for me not to be a loser and cheat. I'm not, but the temptation is difficult. Maybe it's the raging hormones from the juice, combined with a significant lack of character. It's all my fault, I suck.

So what keeps you from giving in to temptation. Tough love is fine, I can use whatever help is available.

Background. I dated a lot in my 20s and early 30s. Lots of experience. So it's not because I married before I dated other women.

coming from a womans point of view. there is always temptation out there. you have to sit down and really evaluate your situation and figure out what is missing. sounds like its just lacking in the bedroom. talk about things that turn you on
mayb a 3 some maybe porn. or maybe going to a stripclub together. i am very turned on by seeing my man have sex with another woman . just talk ask questions you'd b surprised what she may say.

 

[triathloncoach]

coming from a womans point of view. there is always temptation out there. you have to sit down and really evaluate your situation and figure out what is missing. sounds like its just lacking in the bedroom. talk about things that turn you on
mayb a 3 some maybe porn. or maybe going to a stripclub together. i am very turned on by seeing my man have sex with another woman . just talk ask questions you'd b surprised what she may say.

Gee whiz. I dont need to know there are girls like you out there. Stay out of my thread!

And btw,im not shy about asking - I get the "you are the one who married the boring cpa" Yup.

 

[Nssca]

INTEGRITY
Dont know what the dictionary definition is, but my grandfather told me his:
"Integrity is what you do...when you think no one is watching"
From what I see day to day...people in general show very little integrity now days.

 

[danzd]

being friends with my girls is what keeps me faithful. once it has the friendship componant i wont cheat out of respect but i find the sex is wayyyy better anyway.

 

[OuchThatHurts]

deadlifts and a cold shower

haha! That's a good one too! Nice!

 

[K1]

INTEGRITY
Dont know what the dictionary definition is, but my grandfather told me his:
"Integrity is what you do...when you think no one is watching"
From what I see day to day...people in general show very little integrity now days.

:yeahthat:

 

[thebrick]

Losing 1/2 of your assets and $50,000 in divorce lawyer/legal fees will put a dose of reality into this equation

 

[testocules]

My wife is the only one who wants me.

 

[Growboy]

mine is just amazing. Even tho I dont want to be faithful sometimes, I think about what I may lose and say forget it

 

[saps]

When I was married I cheated more than once and eventually ended up divorced. Got together with another gal for years then she cheated and once the shoe was on the other foot I realized how true the golden rule is. Now I'm with the gal in my avatar and knowing how shitty it feels to be the victim I won't her thru that because I wouldn't want it done to me again.

 

[cobra67]

I am married and had many opportunitys to cheat. I have been drung around very hot girls and turned them down.. That being said my wife always turns me down and is fine with sex 2 times a year. Its just how i was raise with respect ..

 

[workhard2121]

Well my gf is the nicest woman I have ever met and it he first girl I ever was interested in when I was younger and met her.

Fast forward and we didn't see each other for like 7 or 8 years, and that attraction and friendship was still there. She's my best friend, great looking, and I'm fortunate enough that she has a higher sex drive than me. It amazes me because I didn't think that was possible.

And he'll I'm still young and have a large amount of girls that approach me, but I say sorry I have a girlfriend, and they actually seem surprised and respect it. And on another note I know my girlfriend wouldn't ever think of cheating on me, and would be crushed if I ever did. I couldn't do it.

 

[growth]

I am married and had many opportunitys to cheat. I have been drung around very hot girls and turned them down.. That being said my wife always turns me down and is fine with sex 2 times a year. Its just how i was raise with respect ..

That 2 times a year happend to me after 5 years being married. I think its how u feel inside about the person ur with and ur own morals and respect of ur partner

 

[cobra67]

That 2 times a year happend to me after 5 years being married. I think its how u feel inside about the person ur with and ur own morals and respect of ur partner

Now I just by expensive toys..lol

 

[tenny]

all you gotta do is IMAGINE yourself........

without her.....

if that dont do it????.....then you shouldnt be together