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Have you ever cut a close friend from your life for good? Need advice

powerliftingislife

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So yesterday I told directly to my "best friend" whom I knew since High school to NEVER call me, never speak to me and never come to my house again and that he is dead to me.

I don't know If i was being harsh or taking it too far, but then I remember all the shit he has done to me the past few months.

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-Says "fuck you" to me when i told him i dont feel llike going to the gym
- Called me an embarrassment to my city
- Suggested Im a coward
-Blocked me on facebook, and told my friends behind my back to cut contact with me
-Whenever i dont go out to somewhere with him he guilt trips me and tries to make me feel bad such as saying wow now i know who my true friends are
-my friend invited me to a group chat with him and he said get this mother fucker outta here
-my friends told me i was upset he blocked me and he started laughing about it
-called me a sad **** for not coming over to his house
-makes fat jokes of me all the time and posts pictures of a pig suggesting its me to other friends
-calls me a dog whenever i refuse to hang out
-friend asks a question about me to him and hes like i dont know who that is, treating me like a stranger

Now tell me, if someone you are close with for years does all that to you, what would you do? forgive them or cut them off for good like I have?

Was I right to tell him off and cut contact or am i being too mean. I am so angry writing all this up just want someone to listen and give me advice
 

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A true friend raises you up, pulls you along and pushes you to succeed.
2019's gonna be a good fucking year brother!

[ame="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nk54rpnAlcI&t=51s"]DOMINATE 2019 - New Year Motivational Video - YouTube[/ame]
 

powerliftingislife

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A true friend raises you up, pulls you along and pushes you to succeed.
2019's gonna be a good fucking year brother!

DOMINATE 2019 - New Year Motivational Video - YouTube
Thanks! This just made me realise who my true friends are.
I have two real close friends (one now)

The one i mentioned in the OP crushed my dreams of being a cage MMA fighter, saying i started too late (25 years) and saying i will never fight in the cage

My other friend told me, whatever i do in life i have his support for life
 

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Well without hearing his side of why those things happened there is really know way to be fair about what happened.
 

iwantmass

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well, your first post on this forum was to make a more dramatic post than the Kardashian dad. sounds like your friend made the right call
 

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Sounds like a cry baby too me, end your friendship and go on about life
 

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Nothing is truly forever no matter how emotional it seems no goodbye is permanent short of death. Time changes everything and staying angry at someone for the rest of your life takes a lot of effort and is very hard work
 

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well, your first post on this forum was to make a more dramatic post than the Kardashian dad. sounds like your friend made the right call
It sounds like powerliftingislife should move on and you should hang out with his friend, you´d be besties in no time.
 

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Stop considering him as a friend. He is not.

Friends should make you feel good, not put you down.


You did the right thing to cut him off imo
 

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What grade are you guys in? I remember these kinda problems in 8th grade too!
 

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A question you should ask is, after this all took place, how did you feel
upset, depressed, or do you feel liberated?

deal in facts, not emotion

All you describe are facts, and if it was someone else. the answer would be clear.
the past relationship can easily cloud your judgement and allow you to make concessions for this individual and their actions

sometimes you just have to cut a man loose
 

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Seriously grow the fuck up and quit wasting our time with this bullshit
 

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Seriously grow the fuck up and quit wasting our time with this bullshit
this is definitely helpful. just what he needed I m sure. Now we can get back to threads about masteron and biceps because that is all our lives have
 

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Sounds more like a Bully than a friend. :confused: I learn to separate myself from assholes and he sounds like one. :yeahthat:
 

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The guy is not your friend. There's something he uses you for, but he actually detests you. Could be you just boost his ego, have a nice car he likes, have a place to crash, give money. ect ect.
 

lif22

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this is definitely helpful. just what he needed I m sure. Now we can get back to threads about masteron and biceps because that is all our lives have
If he is coming to a message board for BB and AAS and posting this stuff its exactly what he needs
 

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Are you out of your fucking mind? This guy is in no way, shape, or form a fucking 'friend'.

Don't let people treat you like that and speak to you in that manner. They do not respect you.
 

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