My fiancé and I have been planning an Oct. 2015 wedding.
Finally found a place we love, most importantly her parents can afford and booked it for Oct. 9th, the only date still available in oct or nov.
Problem is my mom and dad said they had a road trip type vacation on oct. 10th.
4-5 days in NC..7 hour road trip, no biggie. I figure they push it back a day if they have too. vacation time at work is not a problem with either of them
I call my Mom today to tell her the date and she flipped out about how it was her day, her vacation etc. etc...
Come to learn her and my dad were planning on meeting my sister and her rich surgeon boyfriend of two years there cause he will be there for some big surgeons gala.
Lots of black tie affairs, that kinda shit.
So now neither my sister or parents are coming to our wedding so they can be in NC at some surgeons gala with my sister and her boyfriend...
Been blowing up my phone with all kinds of guilt trips about how selfish I am, how its all about me...etc. etc...
Am I fucking crazy here?
Shouldn't a wedding of your brother and son take precedence over something like that? What the fuck is going here?
Finally found a place we love, most importantly her parents can afford and booked it for Oct. 9th, the only date still available in oct or nov.
Problem is my mom and dad said they had a road trip type vacation on oct. 10th.
4-5 days in NC..7 hour road trip, no biggie. I figure they push it back a day if they have too. vacation time at work is not a problem with either of them
I call my Mom today to tell her the date and she flipped out about how it was her day, her vacation etc. etc...
Come to learn her and my dad were planning on meeting my sister and her rich surgeon boyfriend of two years there cause he will be there for some big surgeons gala.
Lots of black tie affairs, that kinda shit.
So now neither my sister or parents are coming to our wedding so they can be in NC at some surgeons gala with my sister and her boyfriend...
Been blowing up my phone with all kinds of guilt trips about how selfish I am, how its all about me...etc. etc...
Am I fucking crazy here?
Shouldn't a wedding of your brother and son take precedence over something like that? What the fuck is going here?