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Hey everyone,
I'm a unsure over what we should do, if anything about the following situation.
My stepdaughter's friend (23yrs old) just had a baby two weeks ago. My wife visited them in the hospital and came to realize that they had no means to provide for the initial needs of this baby. (People having kids with no regard for being able to financally taking care of them, is a pet peave of mine, but not the main issue in this situation.) My wife collected a bunch of baby clothes, bought diapers, wipes and things they needed and took it to them today. When she got there the place reeked of weed and the father of the baby was so high he couldn't even speak.
Now my wife's initial reaction is, she doesn't want to try and help them anymore. I feel this way to a degree. Basically our thought along this line is, if they have money for weed they have money for what the baby needs.
My main dilemma is the welfare of the baby. Do we say something (what?) to someone (who?). If they take the baby away from the parents, then what. Are we willing to take care of this child?? (I don't know if I am!)
What would you do?? Should I even care or get involved?
This is something that is very common I'm sure.
Maybe I'm just venting.
Take Care
Renewlyf
I'm a unsure over what we should do, if anything about the following situation.
My stepdaughter's friend (23yrs old) just had a baby two weeks ago. My wife visited them in the hospital and came to realize that they had no means to provide for the initial needs of this baby. (People having kids with no regard for being able to financally taking care of them, is a pet peave of mine, but not the main issue in this situation.) My wife collected a bunch of baby clothes, bought diapers, wipes and things they needed and took it to them today. When she got there the place reeked of weed and the father of the baby was so high he couldn't even speak.
Now my wife's initial reaction is, she doesn't want to try and help them anymore. I feel this way to a degree. Basically our thought along this line is, if they have money for weed they have money for what the baby needs.
My main dilemma is the welfare of the baby. Do we say something (what?) to someone (who?). If they take the baby away from the parents, then what. Are we willing to take care of this child?? (I don't know if I am!)
What would you do?? Should I even care or get involved?
This is something that is very common I'm sure.
Maybe I'm just venting.
Take Care
Renewlyf