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Berserker's obsession thread....

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I just think this is great! Hope its ok B?

Why You Deserve to Discover Your Obsession

borrowed from: **broken link removed**

In 1999, I was stocking frozen food at a San Francisco Health Food Store and chatting with my friend Dan Moore, a painter and bicycle messenger (and now square dance enthusiast!). I was bemoaning my lack of success with writing and dance. There in the freezer aisle, in our padded gloves and box knives he gave me a little lecture.

“If you want to be good at something, you have to to be obsessive. You have to do the thing all the time, and when you’re not doing it, you have to be thinking about doing it. Why do you think business people who make millions are so good at it? They’re always doing business. Even when they’re not working, they’re thinking about better ways to do business. Same with the greatest writers and painters. They obsess all the time. Ruby, if you want to be good at writing, you need to be obsessive about it.”

In 2005, I picked up a copy of “The Best American Science and Nature Writing” and read an article about James Dewey Watson*, (you know, the Watson of Watson and Crick, the one who discovered the structure of DNA?) that harked back to Dan’s words and cemented what he said.

To paraphrase a little, Watson, at the ripe old age of 74 (this is in 2004) gives a couple of speeches a month, usually for the sum off $25,000. Sharing a lecture agent with Bill Clinton means he can be as preferential as he wants in his engagements. What I love the most is the unapologetic and balls-out title of his speech:
“Why I Deserved to Discover the Structure of DNA”

He gives five reasons, or criteria, which I think could be anyone’s criteria for greatness:

1. Go for broke- If you are going to do important science, do it.

2. Have a way to get the answer - If you haven’t a clue, you’re going to waste time.

3. Be obsessive - He not only knew DNA was important, but it was all he could think about night and day. “Did you see Jeff Goldblum play me in the BBC film? Crick didn’t get cast right; he didn’t come across in any way as obsessive, whereas I did. It was DNA or nothing for me.”

4. Be part of a team - Working with Crick, he had a partner to bounce ideas off and a pal to support him.

5. Talk to your opponents - A lot of scientists are afraid to share their ideas. But by cooperating with Maurice Wilkins, a scientist at a rival lab in London, Watson and Crick learned of experimental evidence that enabled them to clinch their discovery. The person who actually took the pioneering photograph, Rosalind Franklin, never shared her research, and died before the 1062 Nobel Prize was awarded to the three men. “Generally it pays to talk,” says Watson. Oh… and, another rule:

6. Never be the brightest person on the room; then you can’t learn anything.


Let that sink in for a minute…


Did you get all that? If not, go back and read it again and then go do something great.

Seriously. No truer words were spoken.

But as I re-read Watson’s advice, I think about my goals and obsessions. As of late, particularly in our current political/ecological/financial/intellectual climate, I wonder if the thing that has gripped me the most consistently for the last seven years (Blues and Swing Dance) is really the most important thing to focus my time and energy on. It’s certainly the thing that I obsess about the most.

But when I really think about it, I also feel a sense of re-assurance about my choices. In 1999, I knew I really liked dance and performance, but I didn’t know what I was going to do with it. It’s 2008 and I’m contemplating how to schedule in another teaching tour in the UK. Yesterday, a student wrote to thank my partner and I for our instruction last time we were there. They just won the UK Blues Championships and are convinced that they wouldn’t have gotten there without us.

I guess my point is… if something keeps coming back to you, even if you think you’re doing what you “should do,” pay attention to your obsessions.

They just might make a difference.
 
Very good read.
 
one can be passionate and successful without being obsessive.

google "obsession"

here is a common definition: Compulsive preoccupation with a fixed idea or an unwanted feeling or emotion, often accompanied by symptoms of anxiety.

probably everyone on this board deals with obsessive tendencies to a degree...bodybuilding tends to attract such types. but do we really want to be applauding it and encouraging it??

i like to think of lee haney and ronnie coleman and how bodybuilding fit into their lives and how they looked at it. as a love, a passion, something they enjoy. not something that consumed them.

the best thing i've ever done in regard to making progress in my bodybuilding as well as other "serious" hobbies, is to quit obsessing about them. do what needs to be done when it needs to be done, then let go of it.
 
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I like these points. Good read and things to think about.
 
one can be passionate and successful without being obsessive.

google "obsession"

here is a common definition: Compulsive preoccupation with a fixed idea or an unwanted feeling or emotion, often accompanied by symptoms of anxiety.

probably everyone on this board deals with obsessive tendencies to a degree...bodybuilding tends to attract such types. but do we really want to be applauding it and encouraging it??

i like to think of lee haney and ronnie coleman and how bodybuilding fit into their lives and how they looked at it. as a love, a passion, something they enjoy. not something that consumed them.

the best thing i've ever done in regard to making progress in my bodybuilding as well as other "serious" hobbies, is to quit obsessing about them. do what needs to be done when it needs to be done, then let go of it.


Very true, maybe obsession is not the right word. I was that way about my work, with my architecture, I would become obsessed with one project.
I would rearange entrances, elevations, rooms, the parking layout, the heating, lighting, change it 5 times then start all over!

My wife even complained that my clients were going to start bad mouthing me. But I insisted that once they have their (in this case restaurant) built and people see how efficiently it works, how convenient and great everything is, how smoothly it runs, they would ask who did it.

It would take me forever, so much that the clients would complain and threaten to sue or go with someone else; that's when I would finally turn my work in for permit.

Whereas now, I get the projects done fast and not care too much about perfection.

Getting a lot more done, happier clients and have more time and less stress.

The getting back into bodybuilding helped me out a lot. As did the birth of my son.

Before I only had my work, I would drink when I wasn't working and even while I was working, these last two years have made my life much more enjoyable and productive.

The funny thing is that this Tuesday my alderman asked whatever happened to the fountain that I had designed for "La Cienega" a little grocery store. I almost died laughing, I must have been bombed when I thought of that one. (We first talked about it 3 years ago, maybe more, but some of the stuff is getting built now) Because it starts with planning, then design, permits, and construction. So I talk about things several years before they get built. The good thing is that a lot of times it's a new alderman so they won't know or remember anyway.

Damn I did some incredibly stupid things, when I drank, and I would gay up my clients and the Alderman of wherever the project was.

(I had the ingenius idea of putting a water fall/fountain over a stone arch at the corner of a parking lot, I'm going to take a pic and post it next time I pass by just for illustrative purposes. Because the arch is there but not the fountain.) I get so embarrassed thinking about some of the stuff I did, but most of it was because I was a drunk.:eek:
 
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I cant say if I agree or disagree with old man Watsons criteria but he says take the last interests that grabed my grapes and owned my thoughts/thinking completely and get my crazy ass paid for it. :a:tion-sm ....that hit me like a bong.
 
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I cant say if I agree or disagree with old man Watsons criteria but he says take the last interests that grabed my grapes and owned my thoughts/thinking completely, then go out and get my crazy ass paid for it. :a:tion-sm that hit me like a bong.

:D :D :) I hear ya.

Designbuilt made a great point about taking it too far. Being obsessed to the point where he was less effective in his pursuits and relationships. Maybe the choice of word "obsession" is where I hold the issue.

I am all for giving something important to you everything you've got, with passion, intensity, making sacrifices where necessary...and they will be necessary. It just seems like beyond a certain point, the obsessing isn't benefiting the cause.
 
Most people confuse obsession with dedication.

It is obsessive when the behaviors cause probelms.

Dedication is when you have a goal and try to obtain it without ill ramifications to your life.
 
Most people confuse obsession with dedication.

It is obsessive when the behaviors cause probelms.

Dedication is when you have a goal and try to obtain it without ill ramifications to your life.

+1
Well said. I'd also add: ... without ill ramifications to your life or to the lives of your loved ones.
 

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