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Guys. I do not know what to do.
My wife and I have been married since September of 2012, so coming up on one year. We have been together for 7 years though.
I am 26, she is 25.
I swear she has been bi-polar since I have known her. Fine one second, and complete opposite the other. Very bitchy, taking everything to the extreme. It is like 0-60MPH in no time flat, and for the littlest or no reasons.
Every single negative thing that happens in her life is in someway my fault. Even when I literally have nothing to do. Like last week...I was 3 hours away for work, she lost her keys...it was my fault that I could not help her find them....WTF
I will not get into everything. but how many times can someone expect someone to change?
EVERYTIME I say I want to talk, she BLOWS UP and storms out. I am done trying.
I am a very laid back and nice guy, and she has turned me into a heartless asshole, I hate feeling like this.
it is hard dealing with negativity 90% of everyday, hard dealing with threats, hard dealing with her holding financial things over my head.
I guess I am just venting, but anyone have any advice?
We just bought our first house 2 months ago...but I am to the point that I would rather suffer financially to get out of this then see her.
My wife and I have been married since September of 2012, so coming up on one year. We have been together for 7 years though.
I am 26, she is 25.
I swear she has been bi-polar since I have known her. Fine one second, and complete opposite the other. Very bitchy, taking everything to the extreme. It is like 0-60MPH in no time flat, and for the littlest or no reasons.
Every single negative thing that happens in her life is in someway my fault. Even when I literally have nothing to do. Like last week...I was 3 hours away for work, she lost her keys...it was my fault that I could not help her find them....WTF
I will not get into everything. but how many times can someone expect someone to change?
EVERYTIME I say I want to talk, she BLOWS UP and storms out. I am done trying.
I am a very laid back and nice guy, and she has turned me into a heartless asshole, I hate feeling like this.
it is hard dealing with negativity 90% of everyday, hard dealing with threats, hard dealing with her holding financial things over my head.
I guess I am just venting, but anyone have any advice?
We just bought our first house 2 months ago...but I am to the point that I would rather suffer financially to get out of this then see her.