Do ya'll guys wife and gf workout?

[Kag94]

 

[little slice]

Little Slice is here with his usual women hating posts. Strange.

quick! deploy the strawman!

 

[nothuman]

I honestly don't care.....as long as shes down with my kind of eating...
and I wont train with my girl...some do...I wont...fucks up my routine...
I wouldn't care if she went with me....but go do your thing...meet me back
here in an hour....

I leave the gym and training...AT THE GYM...i don't bring it home
with me....and I don't like to mix the two....when you start doing that...
its just a matter of time before it destroys you....

Bingo. When you start dating a chick, the worst thing you can do is talk about working out UNLESS she brings it up. Otherwise it'll define you in her eyes.

 

[nothuman]

people like you are the reason why God doesn't talk to us anymore.




in seriousness.. not trying to be a dick but..


I like how everyone is saying "if she put on a few pounds nbd"


must be nice to be so blissfully ignorant.




what would happen if she were to - as many, many women do after marriage, put on a good 40-60 pounds... all while somehow resenting you as though you had ANYTHING to do with it?

all while nagging at you because you look at other women, and have absolutely no sexual desire for her corpulence.. not wanting to venture near her massive gunt in order to make a desperate attempt to get your rocks off.

what then?

I doubt you'd be patting yourselves on the back for being so loving and supportive.. lol



again, not trying to be a jerk... just wanted to add a little realism to the discussion...ya know, show the other side of the coin (which im glad you guys apparently are not experiencing).

I agree that I would not be happy if I was dating someone and she gained a lot of weight. Haven't experienced it but it would suck. All femaliens are different though.

 

[bereal23]

Little Slice is here with his usual women hating posts. Strange.

He's a miscer

 

[nothuman]

He's a miscer

good job dave man

 

[nihilixm]

chain smoker but she's skinny and pretty so it works.

He's a miscer

misc made me alpha numisc made me swole.

 

[nihilixm]

what happens when you marry a girl when she's 125lbs, then blows up to 180?


do you think she "actually cares about you", or your wants/needs?

it's a two way street.


yeah, it's not just about looks... that's a very nice platitude.. but it comes to a point where people simply don't look human anymore



im not saying something absurd like women shouldn't age..


some guys have a heart? well of course.. but imagine working 40-60 hours a week to come home to your obese wife who, while you were at work, managed to move from one side of the couch to the other with her bags of chips and ranch dressing.


how would your heart feel then? resentful at all? no?

well, if not, then you're a far better man than I.



anyways, I don't want to be the super negative guy here... just wanted to point out that it's not always all candy and rainbows.

hats off to you I don't lift starve myself stick myself with a pin take poison and stuff my ass with protons so I can give my life to some tubby lard ass. Basically disrespecting me by being fat. Don't like fit chicks personally like them skinny but yeah if she got fat fuck that noise.

Plus watching fat people eat literally disgusts me idk how I could even bulk.

 

[beastmode121]

what happens when you marry a girl when she's 125lbs, then blows up to 180?





do you think she "actually cares about you", or your wants/needs?



it's a two way street.





yeah, it's not just about looks... that's a very nice platitude.. but it comes to a point where people simply don't look human anymore







im not saying something absurd like women shouldn't age..





some guys have a heart? well of course.. but imagine working 40-60 hours a week to come home to your obese wife who, while you were at work, managed to move from one side of the couch to the other with her bags of chips and ranch dressing.





how would your heart feel then? resentful at all? no?



well, if not, then you're a far better man than I.







anyways, I don't want to be the super negative guy here... just wanted to point out that it's not always all candy and rainbows.

You hit the nail on the head.

How many of you know of women that get comfortable after marriage. Hell, even guys.
this is why I'm worried, if she's not into fitness now; I'm gonna be dating a .. mind my language a fat woman in the future and my eye going to wander.

And if I'm trying to look good for myself and to her, why wouldn't she do the same ?

 

[beastmode121]

Little Slice is here with his usual women hating posts. Strange.

He's not hating; he's being so damn real. I think that applies to men too. not only women

 

[little slice]

why wouldn't she do the same ?

because she doesn't have to



and this is the real crux of the issue... why my focus seems to be placed on women, when in reality, im offended by all fatties.


a man and a woman are married

-he gets fat, she leaves, the state gives her half his stuff
-she gets fat, he leaves, the state gives her half his stuff


you only have to be slightly sharper than a marble to see the issues that arise because of the state's intrusion into our lives.



thanks to women's tendencies to get 'mickey mouse' degrees in college, the man is all but assured to be the bread winner (in the vast majority of cases), in which case, he will be paying out the ass if/when the marriage dissolves.



so why do women get fat after they are married? because they can.


solution? live with a woman and have a nice, loving, monogamous relationship, stay privy to common law marriage regulations, and never marry.

 

[beastmode121]

I wouldnt care if my girl didnt work out, as long as she wasnt fat. I dont mind some meat but not fat lol. Training with my girl, no thanks, that wouldnt work out the greatest. That hour of the day is the only day i am not bothered by humans, phone, gf, work exc so thats my time. Also the last thing i want to talk about is the gym at home, more important things to talk about and worry about. its all about balance. If you obsess about the gym 24/7 add another hobby. Balance

if she doesn't workout though; she's bound to gain weight. You want her to be slim but doesn't care if she workout, but if she got fat.. what would you do?

My worry is her getting large then we'll have to play catch up, and what if she doesn't want to workout and she's okay with her fatness ? I don't want to date a cat girl. I don't workout to date this body type.. this girl still looks good, has no intention of going to the gym. She'd rather have surgeries and liposuction then hit a treadmill.. if she got larger ; I'm gonna regret it all, call me shallow ; it's fine. that's my preference..

I think I know what I'll do now

 

[little slice]

if she doesn't workout though; she's bound to gain weight. You want her to be slim but doesn't care if she workout, but if she got fat.. what would you do?

My worry is her getting large then we'll have to play catch up, and what if she doesn't want to workout and she's okay with her fatness ? I don't want to date a cat girl. I don't workout to date this body type.. this girl still looks good, has no intention of going to the gym. She'd rather have surgeries and liposuction then hit a treadmill.. if she got larger ; I'm gonna regret it all, call me shallow ; it's fine. that's my preference..

I think I know what I'll do now

shallowness is part of the human condition


it's nice when people claim not to be shallow, because then you know that... not only are they, in fact, shallow


they are liars

 

[concreter]

22 yrs of marriage. My wife out eats me and has never worked out.
Just yesterday we went to pick out our new Breasts!!!!
I think she is a little tired of me getting all the attention! lol.

 

[Montego]

My wife will hardly get off the couch much less work out lol.

She is amazing though and I wouldn't trade her for any fitness chick out there.

 

[tripleOT]

because she doesn't have to



and this is the real crux of the issue... why my focus seems to be placed on women, when in reality, im offended by all fatties.


a man and a woman are married

-he gets fat, she leaves, the state gives her half his stuff
-she gets fat, he leaves, the state gives her half his stuff


you only have to be slightly sharper than a marble to see the issues that arise because of the state's intrusion into our lives.



thanks to women's tendencies to get 'mickey mouse' degrees in college, the man is all but assured to be the bread winner (in the vast majority of cases), in which case, he will be paying out the ass if/when the marriage dissolves.



so why do women get fat after they are married? because they can.


solution? live with a woman and have a nice, loving, monogamous relationship, stay privy to common law marriage regulations, and never marry.

How the hell do we argue with that?


My wife? Hits the eliptical, does some abs, eats healthy, looks amazing.

We've tried the whole working out thing together. Didn't work, back to her treadmill and yoga mat.

 

[brutus69]

im not questioning your love for your lady, but it's FAR easier to say when you are on the other side of the fence.



as they say, 'talk is cheap'. you are a man, and you can't 'will' yourself into an erection.

this is one of my arguments when im talking to fools who say being gay is a choice. if u want u can get turned on by literally anyone. which, of course, aint the case.

its like trying to will your boner down when ur in sweats at the store and some nice ass walks by. with my junk its like 3 legs and if im not wearing undies to wrangle it in, it just sways about like a boom.

still, fat or not fat, if people were so satisfied with their sex lives and their spouses still got em going like they did when they first met, the porn industry wouldn't be as big cuz guys and gals wouldnt be wanting to rub em out to hotter people. im so bad with that i cant get turned on by "normal" women anymore. i need young hot, preferably brazilian chicks to look at.

 

[get it in ya]

if she doesn't workout though; she's bound to gain weight. You want her to be slim but doesn't care if she workout, but if she got fat.. what would you do?

My worry is her getting large then we'll have to play catch up, and what if she doesn't want to workout and she's okay with her fatness ? I don't want to date a cat girl. I don't workout to date this body type.. this girl still looks good, has no intention of going to the gym. She'd rather have surgeries and liposuction then hit a treadmill.. if she got larger ; I'm gonna regret it all, call me shallow ; it's fine. that's my preference..

I think I know what I'll do now

I have more things to worry about and focus on than my girl possibly gaining weight in 10 years lol, useless thinking in my opinion. What if she doesnt gain weight. Some guys worry about things that might not happen lol, worst than bitches.

 

[get it in ya]

Great example. Imagine concreter worried the last 22 years about his wife gaining weight because she doesnt work out, she is still slim. Alot of useless worrying and thinking for 22 years.

 

[TheOtherOne55]

I got lucky.

My lady was a healthy clean eater and took lots of cardio classes...but wasnt into lifting. Met me and meal prep and all that shit was already easy with her. Then she naturally wanted to lift a little more with me around.

Very easy..

BUT...this shit is a double edged sword. Girls UNKNOWINGLY will feel pressure to look good because their dude "looks like a machine." Its just how it is.