Girls with sugar daddy's

[massnup]

Anyone ever have to deal with this? I have been dating a girl that has one of these for about 3 months now, she only has to hangout with him once every 5 weeks or so to get money to pay her and her moms rent, utilities etc and that totals approx 2,500 per month and he gives her 400 every sunday on top of that. She swears up and dwon that nothing has ever happened between them, he is 45 and she just turned 26. He lives 4 hours away and shes with me every nite. He has bought her a new 30,000 dollar car also, she says that once she gets a job that she will tell him that she doesn't need him anymore but she evidently doesn't want to do that or give this deal up and its been going on for a little over a year now she says. He probably has 150,000 or so invested in her.

 

[HawaiiMuscle]

I've haven't personally dealt with a situation like this...but i will say "nothing is for free." No man is dumb enough to spend lavish amounts of $ on a women unless she's family or giving something in return.

 

[skulbone]

Dont believe what she says. I would guarantee you wouldn't be proud of her or happy if you were a fly on the wall. Where there's smoke, there's fire.

 

[taba]

When I was much younger I had a blonde bombshell that had a old sugar daddy. We use to go clubbing alot and we would stop by his place so she could pick up some cash. She saw him every Sunday night. I didn't mind. She was an escort that picked up on me. I just went along for the ride and partied with her like she was my sugar mama.

 

[CB]

I, personally, don't have an ounce of respect for any girl that does that. I highly doubt a guy in that position will be paying for just conversation. I know a few girls like that, and there always seems to be a catch.

Really sorry for your situation. Hope she comes to her senses soon.

 

[therecanonlybe1]

especially if the dude is 45..now if he was like 95 and loaded..well kinda diff

 

[triathloncoach]

WTF is the problem?

Just stay emotionally detached. Get yourself something on the side and have fun, fun fun. Fun. Neither of you is married - that changes everything. Have a great time with her, like her, be friends, but getting attached will not be any fun for you.

 

[tenny]

lmao!!!!.....if you think shes not bangin him, your a moron

i feel sorry for you

 

[notsobig32]

I do not think that ANYTHING in life is free. If she is getting moneyu like that, he is getting something out of the relationship.

None of is actually there but i certainly wouldn't get serious and involved because you don't know what is going on at those sunday night meetings.

 

[BOOMSHAKER]

I have heard this expression a million times in the hood where I came from. And believe they are not called "sugar daddies" for no reason. I don't care 2 craps about what she tells you. SOMETHING is happening there and if you're dumb enough to believe that she is taking money from a guy she barley knows and hangs out with just because she's cute. WELL then you get what you deserve in the long run. Sorry to be so blunt brother! But if something smells fishy then it most like if a fish. NOT a rose! Let her go and move on QUICKLY!

 

[massnup]

I, personally, don't have an ounce of respect for any girl that does that. I highly doubt a guy in that position will be paying for just conversation. I know a few girls like that, and there always seems to be a catch.

Really sorry for your situation. Hope she comes to her senses soon.

She says that all she has to do is hang out with him and his friends etc and swears up and down that shes never done anything sexually with the guy, he says he just wants to help her out and that he understands that all they will ever be is freinds.

 

[massnup]

Just stay emotionally detached. Get yourself something on the side and have fun, fun fun. Fun. Neither of you is married - that changes everything. Have a great time with her, like her, be friends, but getting attached will not be any fun for you.

She wants to get married and was talking about me and her getting married a few days ago and I said that sugar daddy had to go before that happened and she was shocked, said that she knew that was gonna be a problem ,DUH... she told me a month ago that she was not going to deal with him anymore and that would be it with him but she keeps staying in it.

 

[EasyEJL]

She says that all she has to do is hang out with him and his freinds etc and swears up and dwon that shes never done anything sexually with the guy, he says he just wants to help her out and that he understands that all they will ever be is freinds.

And how many guys on this board would swear up and down they've never touched steroids if asked by a girlfriend?

 

[skulbone]

This chick isn't your friend or your girl. Your just the next sucka. Good luck.

 

[PHIL HERNON]

Well

I was maried to a gal that used guys like this.........tricked them into thinking she was their GF but nothing sexual.........told them she was not ready for that.........she was a user and had a dead soul........you just cant treat people like that.

 

[pesty4077]

Tell a her you are looking for sugar momma, and then start charging her for sex.

 

[Lenny]

Yikes, sounds like person with very little values, but that is just my opinion. I like a woman who can fin for herself and doesn't have to portray one thing to get something...just not right and can tell you a lot about person. Have fun with her and if you really have feelings for her, tell her to be real and stop this shit! But, again I am married to a woman who fins for herself and that is one of the qualities that a liked about her.

I just do not want you to put it out there and get crushed later on by her! Walk like duck, quack like a duck, must be a duck...just my thought.

 

[Designbuilt]

When I first started dating my current wife. She was working at city hall and was friends with a few of the higher ups from the building department.

One of them is pretty wealthy, he would give her gifts, talk to her, call etc, they would go to lunch once in a while.

She swore that they were just friends, I told her that I didn't like it, so she stopped talking to them.

It turns out that one of the friends is her uncle, the second is truly a friend, I later met him, and we talked several times, his wife is also very nice and there is no way that she would have cheated on me with him, or that anything was going on between them before we met, (because she knew him first) it was all in my head.

The point is that we are all friends now because she truly had nothing to hide. If your girl truly has nothing to hide, find out what's going on there, meet the guy.

Other than that, I think that those types of gifts are just too extravagant, I can see a couple hundred dollar gifts, who doesn't do that?

But over 100k? Something has to be going on there.

But if they truly are just friends than there should be no problem with you meeting the guy.

 

[massnup]

When I first started dating my current wife. She was working at city hall and was friends with a few of the higher ups from the building department.

One of them is pretty wealthy, he would give her gifts, talk to her, call etc, they would go to lunch once in a while.

She swore that they were just friends, I told her that I didn't like it, so she stopped talking to them.

It turns out that one of the friends is her uncle, the second is truly a friend, I later met him, and we talked several times, his wife is also very nice and there is no way that she would have cheated on me with him, or that anything was going on between them before we met, (because she knew him first) it was all in my head.

The point is that we are all friends now because she truly had nothing to hide. If your girl truly has nothing to hide, find out what's going on there, meet the guy.

Other than that, I think that those types of gifts are just too extravagant, I can see a couple hundred dollar gifts, who doesn't do that?

But over 100k? Something has to be going on there.

But if they truly are just friends than there should be no problem with you meeting the guy.

If she introduces me to him shes afraid he will take the car back and give her no more money but shes fine with me putting pics of me and her up on my myspace knowing that he will eventually see the pics.

 

[pesty4077]

If she introduces me to him shes afraid he will take the car back and give her no more money but shes fine with me putting pics of me and her up on my myspace knowing that he will eventually see the pics.

And that is diffently more important than you.