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Gomit,
Totally let go of that thought of "setting yourself up to be fucked"! Having that in the back of your mind will only foster resentment.
I know this sound cliché, but it's the God's honest truth from my experience; what ever the outcome, it will eventually be the best one possible one and all those involved will be just fine.
For now, just focus on what you've been doing. Improving yourself, figuring out what you want. Don't worry or talk about the "what ifs". If you are truly changing, it will be evident to her and you won't even need to tell her about it.
Stay positive and it will all work out!
Peace
Totally let go of that thought of "setting yourself up to be fucked"! Having that in the back of your mind will only foster resentment.
I know this sound cliché, but it's the God's honest truth from my experience; what ever the outcome, it will eventually be the best one possible one and all those involved will be just fine.
For now, just focus on what you've been doing. Improving yourself, figuring out what you want. Don't worry or talk about the "what ifs". If you are truly changing, it will be evident to her and you won't even need to tell her about it.
Stay positive and it will all work out!
Peace