To start, I’m 24 years old so I’m gonna make the assumption that I am one of the younger individuals on this forum. I’ve been working out for 10 years now and most of my experience within the gym was learned from MUCH more experienced gym members, strength coaches from playing hs/college football, and watching YouTube (EliteFTS, IFBB pros, etc).
Something that I’ve always noticed early on is that there’s always been people at whatever gym I workout at that are super friendly or helpful but they are usually +30 in age. I have 3 training partners (1 everyday, 1 a few times a year, and 1 only over the summer because he’s in college out of state) who are all relatively the same age as me but we’ve known each other for years. I’ve always found it funny interacting with people my age or younger in the gym. It usually turns into a dick measuring contest… I’ve had people tell me my physique/lifts don’t count because I take steroids (I’m open about my use if asked). Once I had a kid curse me out because I wouldn’t tell him where to buy gear(personally I think it’s a right of passage to find it yourself, which isn’t very hard). It’s almost like in my generation people are competing against each other to look better than the guy next to them. Obviously not everyone is like that but it is becoming a theme as I’ve become more experienced.
On the opposite end of the spectrum, it’s always the older guys (by old I just mean above my age range) at my gym that are the first people to congratulate you on a big lift, compliment you, etc. I’ve also learned a lot just from taking lil pointers here and there. This question is aimed more at the individuals on this forum who have made the gym apart of their lifestyle and have years of experience but do you ever feel like the gym culture you grew up in is completely different then the gym culture younger generations are experiencing? If so what are the things you like or dislike?
Nice post. I think a few things....The "old guard" guys (35-50) are often now lifting at home gyms or more spread out because there are so many commercial gyms. I had a 36 year old JM blakely, a 38 year old Mike Francois, and multiple 35-45 year old legit bbers in my gym growing up when I was 22. It was competitive, but as you noted...supportive. I literally trained with a 40 year old national competitor and a 50 year old top national level competitor when I was 22. I learned it all.
People like me are now 40-50 (I'm 41) and I don't go to a gym. I train at home. I'd be one of the people helping foster the environment I had...but I don't...because I train at home. That is what a ton of my friends do as well.
The stuff you mentioned just didn't used to happen unless you were training at some random ymca. But here we are...
That said, I'm not doing my part as I noted. I like getting to know people at the gym so it would have been likely I would have started training with random 20 somethings and help be a mentor just like I had...and I'm forever grateful for the guidance I got.
I often think about meeting some of those guys at the gym for friday 7:30pm training sessions. Gosh that was almost 20 years ago for me now...