I believe he may want to move on as well. Before angie left me, one night I was going back and forth between my personal email and business email account and I accidentally clicked her sn on aol and it said wrong password. all passwrds were stored on the pc so you just hit sign on. but she changed her's, and out of curiosity I asked her why she changed it. and she responded with "why are you trying to check my mail?"
she asked how i would have felt and I told her to go through all my mails as I have nothing to hide, and she said she didnt either, she just didnt want our daughter to log into her account and click something to mess up her settings... I was a fool.. i didnt believe her, but I didn't question her anymore either.. prolly afraid of what I wound find out. that night, she showed me her inbox and outbox saved and all that, but it was weird because I would see her reading mails, but surprisingly, she had very little mails saved. I've learned my lesson =)
But either way, if someone is hiding something... and your birthday isn't anywhere close... don't expect the secret to be your birthday party.
Rob