Living in Hoa

[jdub69]

First off, let me start by saying I don't live in an HOA by choice. I moved in with in-laws after being medically separated from the military and now I'm going to college. Ever since we moved in a neighbor in the hoa has been hounding us. We had no place to live and had to move in. We since have been disapproved for a mortgage because we dont make enough yet and rent is about 2000 as opposed to 1000 for a mortgage. Right now my unemployment doesnt count as income and i wont have a part time job until i start school. My commander suspended my security clearance without reason so all the jobs i have applied for i have been turned down. My clearance was suspended due to the fact that i got out before my contract was up which is an illegal reason to revoke access. Now im fighting to get an attorney to get it back and going to the va to try and get disability for my knee and shoulder. In the mean time, we have been living with my wifes parents to save a little until this all blows over. The neighbor has called the state troopers and reported we have out of state license plates and also reported my in-laws sine theres are from the state over which is like 60 miles away. He complains about us parking on a public road which is not under the hoa jurisdiction. When he has an issue he always comes and talks to my mother-in-law and not a male. I walked out mid conversation when he was talking to her and he dipped and tried to act nice all of a sudden. His son harrases and tries to bully my little brother-in-law and im about to fuck the guy up. He's a divorced skinny twig that hides in his house. I'm thinking about posting a craigslist ad at his address and say free tvs or something at like 11 at night or dropping dead fish in the back of his truck. Maybe even sending shit in the mail to his door step. I wanna go have a civilized conversation with him but all he does is spead lies to ths hoa representative about our family like a fucking weasel. Any advice would be helpful. People like this are why i wish we were in the middle ages

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[GettingBackIn]

You're being baited. If you reply with violence or the threat of violence you'll lose all credibility when it comes to legal disputes with the HOA or otherwise.

You're always best off discussing issues directly with your HOA. You need to sound like the calm voice of reason, willing to work with the HOA. Over time, your neighbor will sound like the irrational one.

It sounds like you have a plan to get out. When dealing with crap neighbors, it's better to move than to engage in a feud. While you're preparing to get your own place, just lay low.