I embrace who I am and am very comfortable with it. That is, I am proud to be a spornosexual. I like to dress nice (By nice I don't mean True Religion and Ed Hardy, this fad is ending I hope.), trim my eyebrows when they get out of control, shave my body (Body hair is fucking disgusting, especially when it starts growing on one's back. I doubt I'll have to look hard for support on this one.), bodybuild, play sports, etc.. These are all positive positions.
I understand the hesitation of admitting to such for some because of their overmachismo and how it causes discomfort with their sexuality; I was young too once. The truth is anything that gives me the advantage out there while not being debasing, I am willing to do. Finally, I presented a research paper on looks and how it applies to the job market. Those of us who look good relative to our less good looking counterpart are more likely to both receive a job and a higher wage.
I like what you have to say.
Conversely, woe betide the other 97.3675% that claim such a pragmatic basis for their unchecked narcissism.
Regardless, who am I to discern and/or categorize the intrinsic value of 'things' garnered from ones outward appearance. One mans trash...