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Need Help! Having sexual issues 😅

pimpman

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Bro you going to drive yourself crazy with everyone talking about estro and blood work and all that.

It's really simple. You say you have no problem when you rub one off with or without porn.so you have no problem with ED if you did it wouldn't work with porn or with out.nor would you be in the mood.

The problem is your head.you are over thinking about it way too much.its the same with guys taking deca and are afraid of getting deva dick.yes some do but most think oh what if I get deva dick when I'm with this chick. Guess what his gonna get it.

The other problem which is big .is its obvious she is a talker during sex.chicks like her get really off by constantly talking and being talked dirty to while getting fucked
If you ARE NOT INTO THAT you will not be able to keep a hard on.I repeat you will not keep a hard on.it is very difficult to be into it and maintain a hard on if constant talking is not your thing. I'll explain why

I'm a talker.that shit comes out normal. If your not you have to constantly keep trying to think what to say, say what you think she wants to hear,and when to say it. That will fuck up your concentration .and you will not enjoy yourself and you will loose your hard on.

I myself don't care if the chick is a church girl.I will fuck the shit out of her and talk all kind of dirty shit throughout the entire session. EVERY CHICK loves being talked dirty to when getting nailed.they cum a shit load of time when you do that.

But if it's not your thing forget it
I don't care what anyone tells you here. It won't work. Be honest with her tell her it's not your things. And if she's cool with it try and bang her after that and see how it works. If it doesn't. Don't kill yourself over thinking that you have a problem. Just move on to another girl
 

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Therapy (especially CBT) seems safest, but works well for some and less well for others.
Cock and Ball Torture does work well on ED if you are kinky enough...
 

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Cock and Ball Torture does work well on ED if you are kinky enough...

It does indeed, and I am indeed, and I have known plenty of Dommes and Mistresses and Masters and slaves and subs who could attest to that point in the local fetish scene. Those were the days, and I miss them.

Now I'm old and married and bored, and the gold has lost it's luster, and sadly the bloom is off the rose.
 

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If my dick feels like its not coming to the party, i think of fucking her friend or sister or something. Always does the trick.
 

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It does indeed, and I am indeed, and I have known plenty of Dommes and Mistresses and Masters and slaves and subs who could attest to that point in the local fetish scene. Those were the days, and I miss them.

Now I'm old and married and bored, and the gold has lost it's luster, and sadly the bloom is off the rose.
Lol if you're wife hears you say your married and bored .ohhh boy you in the dog house for reals lol
 

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Lol if you're wife hears you say your married and bored .ohhh boy you in the dog house for reals lol

You are 100% right on that, my friend. That's why I need the Cialis and Viagra and Tri-Mix, just to try to reassure her that I still find her attractive, when in reality I'm just bored as hell and wish I could go back to my old life of fucking strippers and other random women, where at least the novelty of a new pussy I haven't had before made it more exciting, for a little while, until I left all those women too, because after the first few times I've been there and done that, and it isn't exciting anymore.

But we have a baby daughter now, and I love my daughter and would never leave her for anything in the world. So I am stuck right where I am.

Like Meatloaf sang in "Paradise By The Dashboard Light":

"So now I'm praying for the end of time
To hurry up and arrive
'Cause if I gotta spend another minute with you
I don't think that I can really survive
I'll never break my promise or forget my vow
But God only knows what I can do right now
I'm praying for the end of time
It's all that I can do
Praying for the end of time,
So I can end my time with you!

It was long ago and it was far away
And it was so much better that it is today."
 

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Ok y’all so a little update to the situation;

Over the last couple of weeks the situation has gotten exponentially better.. She’s a lot more comfortable and open with me and I am with her, the sex has gotten way better for the both of us, but I was wondering something;

How safe is it to be taking Cialis 5mg regularly?

I’d say we have sex at least 4-5x per so I’ll usually take one before seeing her and it’s definitely helped with getting that prior situation out of my head, I’ve also had some sessions with her where I didn’t use any and it was perfectly fine but I want to keep it on hand and use it for another couple weeks just to make sure that situation is long behind me lol that shit was terrible..

Also that tip of not masturbating or watching porn has really helped too I feel..

Thanks for all the comments guys, always appreciated
 

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OP, read the thread I just posted. I was literally dealing with the exact same thing as you around the exact same dates. I dropped 3 grand on a trip with my SO and we didn't even fuck. Only difference is my chick didn't do anything to help fix the situtation and was selfish in bed. I couldn't get hard 3 times I literally had one bad week and it turned her off indefinitely.

My advice? This chick has your back clearly so you need to fucking relax. Especially if she's hot. Not trying to say this to be an asshole, but most hot chicks would block or ghost a guy for performance issues. I would of killed for my chick to be as understanding as yours was, and my performance was only bad for a week. You got a quality chick man. If you fix the anxiety, and are still having issues with her Only other thing? Physically she might not be right for you. Hit the strip club and get a few lap dances. If you feel yourself getting instantly turned on by other women, her body chemistry might not be compatible with yours.
 

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Please read everything guys I know there’s similar threads like this in recent days and a bunch of replies but didn’t want my situation to get lost in that thread so made my own, any help is appreciated;

So pretty much as the title says; for whatever reason I’m having issues with getting/maintaining a hard erection with this girl I’m dating despite me being very attracted to her and the moments before (kissing, touching etc) all being amazing and the mood being right etc..

I’m 31 years old on 200mg prescribed Test and never needed an AI at this dose so don’t think it’s hormonal, besides, when I’m by myself I can get and maintain and rock hard erection and get it on command, whether with my imagination or with porn...

But I started dating this girl a couple weeks ago, super cool personality, love being around her, find her super attractive and fun etc, it’s all there.. I thought the issue stemmed from some joking around we did days prior to first having sex, she joked about me getting nervous and not being able to perform..

So the first time comes and I start thinking about it, I LOVE pleasing a woman and it’s actually what turns me on the most (for the other person to get off) so I do the whole kissing and foreplay, go down on her etc, first time she has an orgasm from a guy going down on her, I’m feeling great, we get to it and in the middle of it I start losing my erection, I’m still kinda in my head about the jokes and also she was very vocal/borderline trying to have a conversation during sex.. I stop, we kinda talked about the awkwardness and after a little while we get back to it and I’m able to get off...

2nd time comes around and similar situation, I’m in my head about the awkwardness of the first time and can barely get hard, I manage to do so and again things get kinda awkward, she wants me to be more vocal, but it’s just not my thing to be talking dirty the entire time, I’m more of a go with the passion/intensity/ecstasy of the moment with a sprinkle of talk here and there, so we had stopped because I full blown couldn’t keep my erection and explained that to her (she felt insecure because I wasn’t vocal and she thought that I wasn’t enjoying myself/her sex) after reassuring her we got back to it and it was successful for both of us..

3rd time comes around, now I’m really nervous and in my head about even making a move, the first 2 times were awkward and I felt bad about losing my erections in the middle of sex.. I go to the bathroom and I take 1/2 of a 5mg Cialis (2.5mg) which I know isn’t a lot but it’s helped me in the past (I feel too much cialis makes erections too hard for too long and makes it almost IMPOSSIBLE to cum lol)... Anyway, it did NOTHING.. We started kissing etc and my dick didn’t even move, I started going down on her and when she orgasmed I was able to get hard, I start having sex and about 2 minutes in I start losing my erection again, I just couldn’t... She felt so bad, thought it was her and started crying (tearing up is more like it, she wasn’t sobbing) and I just reassured her and told her it was me that I was nervous and intimidated etc... After a while, we got into it again and I was able to hold the erection with minor bouts of it going slightly weaker and then I’d somehow get it to get harder again and was able to finish..

So now, I’m super paranoid, we like each other a lot and I am attracted to her but I don’t know what’s going on or how to fix this..

I don’t want to make a habit about using Cialis because the moment I don’t have any I feel like it won’t be the same...

Does anyone have any experience with this and what I can do??

I always make sure to eat and be hydrated too, so I know it wasn’t those things... Any help is appreciated... She’s coming over tonight!!! Lol

Besides TRT are you on HCG?
 

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OP, read the thread I just posted. I was literally dealing with the exact same thing as you around the exact same dates. I dropped 3 grand on a trip with my SO and we didn't even fuck. Only difference is my chick didn't do anything to help fix the situtation and was selfish in bed. I couldn't get hard 3 times I literally had one bad week and it turned her off indefinitely.

My advice? This chick has your back clearly so you need to fucking relax. Especially if she's hot. Not trying to say this to be an asshole, but most hot chicks would block or ghost a guy for performance issues. I would of killed for my chick to be as understanding as yours was, and my performance was only bad for a week. You got a quality chick man. If you fix the anxiety, and are still having issues with her Only other thing? Physically she might not be right for you. Hit the strip club and get a few lap dances. If you feel yourself getting instantly turned on by other women, her body chemistry might not be compatible with yours.
Bro goin to a strip club and gettin hard from other women dies not mean her body chemistry is incompatible with yours - I don’t know where u guys get half the shit I read on these forums
 

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Please read everything guys I know there’s similar threads like this in recent days and a bunch of replies but didn’t want my situation to get lost in that thread so made my own, any help is appreciated;

So pretty much as the title says; for whatever reason I’m having issues with getting/maintaining a hard erection with this girl I’m dating despite me being very attracted to her and the moments before (kissing, touching etc) all being amazing and the mood being right etc..

I’m 31 years old on 200mg prescribed Test and never needed an AI at this dose so don’t think it’s hormonal, besides, when I’m by myself I can get and maintain and rock hard erection and get it on command, whether with my imagination or with porn...

But I started dating this girl a couple weeks ago, super cool personality, love being around her, find her super attractive and fun etc, it’s all there.. I thought the issue stemmed from some joking around we did days prior to first having sex, she joked about me getting nervous and not being able to perform..

So the first time comes and I start thinking about it, I LOVE pleasing a woman and it’s actually what turns me on the most (for the other person to get off) so I do the whole kissing and foreplay, go down on her etc, first time she has an orgasm from a guy going down on her, I’m feeling great, we get to it and in the middle of it I start losing my erection, I’m still kinda in my head about the jokes and also she was very vocal/borderline trying to have a conversation during sex.. I stop, we kinda talked about the awkwardness and after a little while we get back to it and I’m able to get off...

2nd time comes around and similar situation, I’m in my head about the awkwardness of the first time and can barely get hard, I manage to do so and again things get kinda awkward, she wants me to be more vocal, but it’s just not my thing to be talking dirty the entire time, I’m more of a go with the passion/intensity/ecstasy of the moment with a sprinkle of talk here and there, so we had stopped because I full blown couldn’t keep my erection and explained that to her (she felt insecure because I wasn’t vocal and she thought that I wasn’t enjoying myself/her sex) after reassuring her we got back to it and it was successful for both of us..

3rd time comes around, now I’m really nervous and in my head about even making a move, the first 2 times were awkward and I felt bad about losing my erections in the middle of sex.. I go to the bathroom and I take 1/2 of a 5mg Cialis (2.5mg) which I know isn’t a lot but it’s helped me in the past (I feel too much cialis makes erections too hard for too long and makes it almost IMPOSSIBLE to cum lol)... Anyway, it did NOTHING.. We started kissing etc and my dick didn’t even move, I started going down on her and when she orgasmed I was able to get hard, I start having sex and about 2 minutes in I start losing my erection again, I just couldn’t... She felt so bad, thought it was her and started crying (tearing up is more like it, she wasn’t sobbing) and I just reassured her and told her it was me that I was nervous and intimidated etc... After a while, we got into it again and I was able to hold the erection with minor bouts of it going slightly weaker and then I’d somehow get it to get harder again and was able to finish..

So now, I’m super paranoid, we like each other a lot and I am attracted to her but I don’t know what’s going on or how to fix this..

I don’t want to make a habit about using Cialis because the moment I don’t have any I feel like it won’t be the same...

Does anyone have any experience with this and what I can do??

I always make sure to eat and be hydrated too, so I know it wasn’t those things... Any help is appreciated... She’s coming over tonight!!! Lol
You need to take a minimum of 5mgs of cialis 2-3 hours prior to having sex. If you want something that kicks in quick use viagra. And stay away from alcohol!!!
 

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OP, after reviewing your first post I have concluded that the awkwardness beyond kissing may mean she is actually your twin sister raised unbebownst to you on another planet. Also just be wary, your biological dad might show up and chop off your hand.
 

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Bro goin to a strip club and gettin hard from other women dies not mean her body chemistry is incompatible with yours - I don’t know where u guys get half the shit I read on these forums
I bet what he meant if he has no problem with other girl no matter how hot is the one he is with she simply does not turn him on. Sometimes average girl has something what super hot does not.
 

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Don't know how this is even possible. I've nailed 10s and 2s. Got hard just as easy with the 2s as I did the 10s. With no pills back then either. Yeah I had gear/test but I still could fuck before all that. Some guys have it, Some don't. Like TT Boy said "you gotta love pussy. If you don't love pussy, you got nothin"
 

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Take a bit a Masteron with your Rx Test and take a good Zinc supplement in the morning. That made a huge difference. I find Masteron with test works great for erections.
I haven not read what others have proposed, but also it's possible you're getting a bit anxious.
 

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