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Need Help! Having sexual issues šŸ˜…

Itā€™s all in your head from your post you havenā€™t had much sex or this wouldnā€™t happen how do I know this happened to me from not having lots of sex overthinking and to much wanking that then gave loss of sensitivity and when having sex due to the sensitivity loss it wasnā€™t that great your penis gets used to your hand and not a vagina so you need to allow it to return to normal so it can feel how it should inside a vagina and not in your hand

the term is called death grip which youā€™ve got

fast forward no wanking for weeks
no thinking
totally turned on

No issues^ what so ever death grip gone sensitivity unbelievable

but edit Iā€™m also dirty I love nasty dirty talk from the girl talking dislike boring vanilla but also want a good women hard to choose both good women turn her bad only for me yessss

Lmao totally get you, Iā€™ve had lots of sex in the past, literally super easy in my city to have a new girl every week AT MINIMUM if you want to.. I used to party and do a lot of drugs and raging coke whores were my thing, the nastier the better...

But I will say youā€™re right that in recent times I have masturbated a lot more. It happened to me before where I had so much nasty sex that I was desensitized in a way whenever I encountered a ā€œnice girlā€ lol so I get the ā€œdeath gripā€ sentiment.. Like I got sober 3 1/2 years ago, and Iā€™d say for the last 2 years, Iā€™ve had sexual partners once every couple months.. I wanted time to concentrate on my business and my life as I wasted a lot of time chasing women and drugs etc.. So for sure, since I have a very high sex drive I would masturbate all the time to get it out of the way and not feel the need to be going out chasing ass all the time... I did stop when I started having sex with this girl which was only this past week but sheā€™s been coming over a lot so not a whole lot of time to get sensitized again..

Maybe I should give it a break and not have sex with her or masturbate for a couple days to get that sensitivity back?
 
Been there. The emotional head fuck once it happens sucks. Pop 10mg cialis that day your gonna fuck or Ed, why not. Then once you get swole from the cialis and duck her brains out, you will regain confidence. Back off to 5mg per day then over time use as needed. I donā€™t need it but use it. Girls love a swollen cock.
 
Listen to the old heads here, thereā€™s a lot of good advice. Take the cialis and be aggressive and a little rough, women love it.

Also, fuck whatever and whenever you can, you donā€™t want to live with regrets like a lot of us. I was security for a night club here in Tampa Fl for a couple years. Unfortunately I was in a serious relationship at the time, but when I came across a 9 or 10, I couldnā€™t help myself. I made sure they were sore the next day.
 
As healthcare professionals, take whatā€™s in front of you as evidence. You can maintain an erection when alone so it would point to more of a psychological issue such as anxiety to perform etc...just calm down, hot girls exist and guys that fuck them exist also. Consider yourself an equal and relax! If we can help in any way just email us!
 
No sheā€™s not bro lol

But I definitely see what youā€™re saying, and it kinda works at times.. Iā€™m a nasty fuck and sheā€™s actually kinda reserved but thatā€™s actually what helped me twice already out of the 3x when it happened, was just grabbing her by the neck and making out then turning her around and shoving my tongue in her ass and some doggy, choking, hair pulling, face squishing, degrading sex and I was able to maintain it pretty well...

The thought has crossed my mind that maybe Iā€™m desensitized (if thatā€™s even a thing) as I do enjoy the most nasty shit and have tons of experience like that...
By the second date you're choking this hottie to keep a boner? Damn man, cialis is not your worst concern. Take the cialis.
 
Lmao totally get you, Iā€™ve had lots of sex in the past, literally super easy in my city to have a new girl every week AT MINIMUM if you want to.. I used to party and do a lot of drugs and raging coke whores were my thing, the nastier the better...

But I will say youā€™re right that in recent times I have masturbated a lot more. It happened to me before where I had so much nasty sex that I was desensitized in a way whenever I encountered a ā€œnice girlā€ lol so I get the ā€œdeath gripā€ sentiment.. Like I got sober 3 1/2 years ago, and Iā€™d say for the last 2 years, Iā€™ve had sexual partners once every couple months.. I wanted time to concentrate on my business and my life as I wasted a lot of time chasing women and drugs etc.. So for sure, since I have a very high sex drive I would masturbate all the time to get it out of the way and not feel the need to be going out chasing ass all the time... I did stop when I started having sex with this girl which was only this past week but sheā€™s been coming over a lot so not a whole lot of time to get sensitized again..

Maybe I should give it a break and not have sex with her or masturbate for a couple days to get that sensitivity back?
Trust me Viagra cialis will not work until you get sensitive again once you slide inside her the feeling will be unbelievable youā€™ll cum fast and ofcourse do things that makes you horny and turned on thatā€™s important but donā€™t watch porn now either think of her how she looks smells

but you need to solve the death grip first explain to her youā€™ve been masturbating for a so long tell her youā€™ve got death grip this is why or else she might think itā€™s her and it will make it worse I told the girl my reason she understood and was completely fine once it did what was needed it was gone

first go 1 week without touching then see some people are fixed fast
 
Not often not had sex in 16 weeks now that I finished with my ex gf but also not going out looking lockdown mood etcetc plus I prefer a gf or like him seeing a girl as I have own my own turn ons that a one night stand wonā€™t provide..

heā€™s tried 3 times with both failing 1 time ok maybe but another 2 times this happens again sheā€™s going to some other guy unless he explains his situation

Iā€™ve used cilias and viagra both combined and still got sloppy these arenā€™t magic drugs that make your dick hard for hours if your not sensitive inside her and used to your own hand nothing but time will sort that
 
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Darren has given pretty solid advice so far in this thread and the post you call crap is spot on, way better than your offer to film some video and send it to the OP, go to his place and show him how itĀ“s done because youĀ“re such a pro, or having him take pussy pics and wanting full reports because the world (you) is watching, stop trolling and go look for material somewhere else Master Bates.
 
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Why does this guy have so many stupid posts? Why not use the edit option? He already got his 50 posts, it's time to cut it down, many users get banned for fewer reasons, he looks like a troll, or at least he's someone very annoying.
 
I donā€™t know 100% as I havenā€™t gotten blood work, just going by how Iā€™ve always felt.. And sheā€™s doing fine now, we were able to solve it and continue on the last time (was actually last night) and we both were satisfied but sheā€™s coming over tonight and donā€™t want this shit to keep happening.. So I might take a Cialis for tonight just to not think about it but Iā€™d like this shit to never happen to me again.. lol

You have to get blood work and use that as your starting point. Then you can begin the process of elimination.
 
NEMZ, ALOT of this is in your head too dude. But it also comes with the territory.

Also, im going to echo ALOT of what has already been said...this comes with the territory dude.
IF you use gear, there will be spells of this. Some may last a week, others may last months. But this is what we get for fucking with our hormones. The key is try and be smart and manage them (thru your bloodwork) as well as what goodies you can find to help it. Viagra AND cialis are musts dude. I'm married and I go thru this all the time. EVERY BBer i know does too.

There are times where you're doing to be a fucking stud with a sky high libido and u can fuck for hours.
There are times where you're going to barely get hard and be fucking frustrated as hell.
The trick is to find whatttt is causing these and find the shit that works for u.

Personally, I'm my best on TRT. I find TRT to be a regular balance that I can play with. Its level.
Versus when I'm blasting there is so much going on, it literally could be anything.

I'd get some bloodwork as well as some Cialis + viagra and not be afraid to use that shit.
 
I can say i have noticed that If I take anything even of small amounts it fuks wit my dick, I tend to need a few months to normalize and then all good
 
I have told her and she is flattered, and sheā€™s offered to give me head etc but honestly head doesnā€™t really turn me on that much lol I enjoy it of course but just laying there getting a blow job is hardly my thing to get me off or extremely horny..

What????? I can honestly say I've never heard a guy say they don't like getting their dick sucked.....Wow
 
Please read everything guys I know thereā€™s similar threads like this in recent days and a bunch of replies but didnā€™t want my situation to get lost in that thread so made my own, any help is appreciated;

So pretty much as the title says; for whatever reason Iā€™m having issues with getting/maintaining a hard erection with this girl Iā€™m dating despite me being very attracted to her and the moments before (kissing, touching etc) all being amazing and the mood being right etc..

Iā€™m 31 years old on 200mg prescribed Test and never needed an AI at this dose so donā€™t think itā€™s hormonal, besides, when Iā€™m by myself I can get and maintain and rock hard erection and get it on command, whether with my imagination or with porn...

But I started dating this girl a couple weeks ago, super cool personality, love being around her, find her super attractive and fun etc, itā€™s all there.. I thought the issue stemmed from some joking around we did days prior to first having sex, she joked about me getting nervous and not being able to perform..

So the first time comes and I start thinking about it, I LOVE pleasing a woman and itā€™s actually what turns me on the most (for the other person to get off) so I do the whole kissing and foreplay, go down on her etc, first time she has an orgasm from a guy going down on her, Iā€™m feeling great, we get to it and in the middle of it I start losing my erection, Iā€™m still kinda in my head about the jokes and also she was very vocal/borderline trying to have a conversation during sex.. I stop, we kinda talked about the awkwardness and after a little while we get back to it and Iā€™m able to get off...

2nd time comes around and similar situation, Iā€™m in my head about the awkwardness of the first time and can barely get hard, I manage to do so and again things get kinda awkward, she wants me to be more vocal, but itā€™s just not my thing to be talking dirty the entire time, Iā€™m more of a go with the passion/intensity/ecstasy of the moment with a sprinkle of talk here and there, so we had stopped because I full blown couldnā€™t keep my erection and explained that to her (she felt insecure because I wasnā€™t vocal and she thought that I wasnā€™t enjoying myself/her sex) after reassuring her we got back to it and it was successful for both of us..

3rd time comes around, now Iā€™m really nervous and in my head about even making a move, the first 2 times were awkward and I felt bad about losing my erections in the middle of sex.. I go to the bathroom and I take 1/2 of a 5mg Cialis (2.5mg) which I know isnā€™t a lot but itā€™s helped me in the past (I feel too much cialis makes erections too hard for too long and makes it almost IMPOSSIBLE to cum lol)... Anyway, it did NOTHING.. We started kissing etc and my dick didnā€™t even move, I started going down on her and when she orgasmed I was able to get hard, I start having sex and about 2 minutes in I start losing my erection again, I just couldnā€™t... She felt so bad, thought it was her and started crying (tearing up is more like it, she wasnā€™t sobbing) and I just reassured her and told her it was me that I was nervous and intimidated etc... After a while, we got into it again and I was able to hold the erection with minor bouts of it going slightly weaker and then Iā€™d somehow get it to get harder again and was able to finish..

So now, Iā€™m super paranoid, we like each other a lot and I am attracted to her but I donā€™t know whatā€™s going on or how to fix this..

I donā€™t want to make a habit about using Cialis because the moment I donā€™t have any I feel like it wonā€™t be the same...

Does anyone have any experience with this and what I can do??

I always make sure to eat and be hydrated too, so I know it wasnā€™t those things... Any help is appreciated... Sheā€™s coming over tonight!!! Lol

I know for me 90% of the time it is a mental thing.
Your thoughts , anxiety and expectations can really effect your performance greatly. I know how stupid it sounds but after many attempts and different scenarios I've found that when I constantly replay positive affirmations in my head and go at her like I'm going to fuck her brains out and make her walk funny for a few days I perform to the best of my ability. Me and my girl now go for 3 to 5 rounds a night when we are together. Do your best to manage your thoughts , think about it this way , if you were sitting at a bench in a park and some random guy sat next to you and starting degrading you and saying the most hurtful things to you you would do something about it right?
If that's the case why would you let yourself do it to you?
 
Please read everything guys I know thereā€™s similar threads like this in recent days and a bunch of replies but didnā€™t want my situation to get lost in that thread so made my own, any help is appreciated;

So pretty much as the title says; for whatever reason Iā€™m having issues with getting/maintaining a hard erection with this girl Iā€™m dating despite me being very attracted to her and the moments before (kissing, touching etc) all being amazing and the mood being right etc..

Iā€™m 31 years old on 200mg prescribed Test and never needed an AI at this dose so donā€™t think itā€™s hormonal, besides, when Iā€™m by myself I can get and maintain and rock hard erection and get it on command, whether with my imagination or with porn...

But I started dating this girl a couple weeks ago, super cool personality, love being around her, find her super attractive and fun etc, itā€™s all there.. I thought the issue stemmed from some joking around we did days prior to first having sex, she joked about me getting nervous and not being able to perform..

So the first time comes and I start thinking about it, I LOVE pleasing a woman and itā€™s actually what turns me on the most (for the other person to get off) so I do the whole kissing and foreplay, go down on her etc, first time she has an orgasm from a guy going down on her, Iā€™m feeling great, we get to it and in the middle of it I start losing my erection, Iā€™m still kinda in my head about the jokes and also she was very vocal/borderline trying to have a conversation during sex.. I stop, we kinda talked about the awkwardness and after a little while we get back to it and Iā€™m able to get off...

2nd time comes around and similar situation, Iā€™m in my head about the awkwardness of the first time and can barely get hard, I manage to do so and again things get kinda awkward, she wants me to be more vocal, but itā€™s just not my thing to be talking dirty the entire time, Iā€™m more of a go with the passion/intensity/ecstasy of the moment with a sprinkle of talk here and there, so we had stopped because I full blown couldnā€™t keep my erection and explained that to her (she felt insecure because I wasnā€™t vocal and she thought that I wasnā€™t enjoying myself/her sex) after reassuring her we got back to it and it was successful for both of us..

3rd time comes around, now Iā€™m really nervous and in my head about even making a move, the first 2 times were awkward and I felt bad about losing my erections in the middle of sex.. I go to the bathroom and I take 1/2 of a 5mg Cialis (2.5mg) which I know isnā€™t a lot but itā€™s helped me in the past (I feel too much cialis makes erections too hard for too long and makes it almost IMPOSSIBLE to cum lol)... Anyway, it did NOTHING.. We started kissing etc and my dick didnā€™t even move, I started going down on her and when she orgasmed I was able to get hard, I start having sex and about 2 minutes in I start losing my erection again, I just couldnā€™t... She felt so bad, thought it was her and started crying (tearing up is more like it, she wasnā€™t sobbing) and I just reassured her and told her it was me that I was nervous and intimidated etc... After a while, we got into it again and I was able to hold the erection with minor bouts of it going slightly weaker and then Iā€™d somehow get it to get harder again and was able to finish..

So now, Iā€™m super paranoid, we like each other a lot and I am attracted to her but I donā€™t know whatā€™s going on or how to fix this..

I donā€™t want to make a habit about using Cialis because the moment I donā€™t have any I feel like it wonā€™t be the same...

Does anyone have any experience with this and what I can do??

I always make sure to eat and be hydrated too, so I know it wasnā€™t those things... Any help is appreciated... Sheā€™s coming over tonight!!! Lol
I have same issues in past and best way to look like a kid again is using high test + high masteron cycle with 100mcg proviron . You will need sex all day , trust me . I did 1gr test + 1gr masteron E and always ready to sex . Of course you can use cialis pre workout and will work as pre workout pump and for amazing sex drive .
 
NEMZ, ALOT of this is in your head too dude. But it also comes with the territory.

Also, im going to echo ALOT of what has already been said...this comes with the territory dude.
IF you use gear, there will be spells of this. Some may last a week, others may last months. But this is what we get for fucking with our hormones. The key is try and be smart and manage them (thru your bloodwork) as well as what goodies you can find to help it. Viagra AND cialis are musts dude. I'm married and I go thru this all the time. EVERY BBer i know does too.

There are times where you're doing to be a fucking stud with a sky high libido and u can fuck for hours.
There are times where you're going to barely get hard and be fucking frustrated as hell.
The trick is to find whatttt is causing these and find the shit that works for u.

Personally, I'm my best on TRT. I find TRT to be a regular balance that I can play with. Its level.
Versus when I'm blasting there is so much going on, it literally could be anything.

I'd get some bloodwork as well as some Cialis + viagra and not be afraid to use that shit.

Thanks for your input bro, always appreciate your advice;

Yea I feel like it was mostly psychological as I donā€™t use anything other than 200mg Test for TRT and 2-3iu GH per day..

But Iā€™m happy to report that last night I did take 1 and 1/2 5mg Cialis (so 7.5mg) and I was READY, super turned on by her and we had a GREAT time..

I guess I was just worried about taking it for whatever reason and the whole time just had some subconscious anxiety but will definitely keep Cialis on hand for the next couple times while also not masturbating or doing anything unless itā€™s with her to get some sensitivity back...

I did feel like I got my confidence back after last night, weā€™ve hung out today and just looking at her Iā€™m READY TO GO lol
 
Find a submissive and teach her exactly what you want...

I turned out a nerdy lesbian girl like that about a year ago šŸ˜… She turned out to be awesome!

And yes, you have to teach them. I think most guys just put up with a shitty job but it's not even worth it. As bad as some girls are, I'd rather fap Most are very willing learners, though.
 

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